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"Kink Shaming"
Posted 7/23/15
What do you guys think of it?

Honestly, I see it as just people being mean to people who don't like like/dislike the same things they do.
I can see why its bad. But if its really no more than a kink/fetish, then I see no reason to shame people for it.

So my thought is it so far is that its the equivalent of bashing people for a preference they prefer.
But these preferences, imo, sometimes can be developed from stereotypes and false beliefs if things that can also be very hurtful towards others by them possibly forcing these preferences onto people. So I can kinda see why people would shame most kinks I guess.
But I don't think that's a good or justifiable reason to do so still.
I hope what I'm trying to say makes sense.
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Posted 7/23/15 , edited 7/23/15
I'm of the opinion that as long as it's between consenting adults and nobody is being seriously harmed, it is fine. There are more important issues in all our lives than some stranger's harmless fetish.

Just because you don't like something doesn't mean others can't.
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Posted 7/23/15
Everyone's gonna have some sort of strange kink. And some definitely tend to be more frowned upon than others.
I'm not bothered at all when it comes to that. But if it's something I'd rather not be apart of, I better not be pushed into it. That's where I draw the line.
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Posted 7/23/15
Generally humans fear what they dont understand, the key to getting rid of stereotypes and shaming of things is to understand the things that we dont know about. Being open minded and teaching the younger generation about things helps to get rid of these things.
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Posted 7/23/15
This is why I never tell people my fetish. You simply CANNOT trust other people with that information.
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Posted 7/23/15
I don't think kinks are good nor lovely, same thing as kink shaming.
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Posted 7/23/15
Why do people even care, or worse shame it XD, its none of your damn buisnees what another person likes behind closed doors x3
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Posted 7/23/15
In my experience, kink shaming has been geared more towards people who make a public display of their kink. The tales I've seen of this are from people who are overtly sexual towards others, say swinger couples who try to bring acquaintances into the mix, or people who are into humiliation/public domination play. Not everybody's comfortable with those things being around them/being involved, and it's only fair that if you can show your girlfriend off on a leash, people should get to tell you that you should be institutionalized for thinking it's okay to show your girlfriend off on a leash, or that they're not comfortable with it at the very least.

Seriously, this is social politics trying to speak up for the few who can't/won't keep it "behind closed doors" for whatever reason.
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Posted 7/23/15 , edited 7/23/15
I feel completely out of the loop because I have no idea what "Kink Shaming" is.
Posted 7/23/15 , edited 7/23/15

bobland wrote:

I feel completely out of the loop because I have no idea what "Kink Shaming" is.

Shaming people for having kinks or just a particular kink really.

An example of one that I hear of the most is the "daddy kink"
People shame others for that kink say like it promotes pedophilia or incest.
Imo though I see it as a dom & sub thing similar to like the "master & servent" sorta kink.
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Posted 7/23/15
People should stfu about what others like. If you hate kinks or people for having them , you are probably a baka SJW. We have too many of those on this planet. Thats all i am gonna say about it... Period.

Also, this threads are becoming so goddamn annoying...
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Posted 7/23/15
People are human and everyone will always be different, different likes, different dislikes etc.
This means that there will always be people on the opposite end of the (let's make this a thing people) "Kink Spectrum", basically meaning no matter how much it's stupid to dislike, or demean someone because they like a certain thing - it will happen, simply because as humans we pride ourselves on being different... Yet always want people to do things our way.

tl;dr: There is always assholes that will tell a person something is wrong, but wrong is subjective to a person.
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Posted 7/23/15
*yawns*

Wake me up when we start talking about less vanilla stuff.

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Posted 7/23/15
What really ticks me off, is when the person doing the shaming has the same fetish/kink the person they are shaming does.

Posted 7/23/15 , edited 7/23/15

eragon2890 wrote:

People should stfu about what others like. If you hate kinks or people for having them , you are probably a baka SJW. We have too many of those on this planet. Thats all i am gonna say about it... Period.

Also, this threads are becoming so goddamn annoying...

yo fuck u this angry mean sjw is gonna make all the annoying threads they want. >:U
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