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"Kink Shaming"
Posted 7/23/15

SurvivingHorror wrote:

What really ticks me off, is when the person doing the shaming has the same fetish/kink the person they are shaming does.


That happens????
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Posted 7/23/15

anzn wrote:


SurvivingHorror wrote:

What really ticks me off, is when the person doing the shaming has the same fetish/kink the person they are shaming does.


That happens????


Plenty of times. I've seen it on Deviant Art. People who produce art revolving around their fetishes, sometimes create two DA pages. One for their fetish, one for their mainstream stuff. I've seen people go to their mainstream DA pages, and make posts about their fetishes. A lot of times, those people share that fetish.

Some people might say this isn't the same, but there is a reason why these people have two DA accounts.
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Posted 7/23/15
What about the "XXX STRAIGHT-EDGE" folk?

Sorry, but I wish for their population to eradicate.
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If this is all you've got to worry about then I want to live by you.
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Posted 7/23/15
As long as both parties consent I don't care but some kinks should be hated. Any non-con kinks/people should be pressured to change or toss in prison.
Posted 7/23/15

invertedteapot wrote:

In my experience, kink shaming has been geared more towards people who make a public display of their kink. The tales I've seen of this are from people who are overtly sexual towards others, say swinger couples who try to bring acquaintances into the mix, or people who are into humiliation/public domination play. Not everybody's comfortable with those things being around them/being involved, and it's only fair that if you can show your girlfriend off on a leash, people should get to tell you that you should be institutionalized for thinking it's okay to show your girlfriend off on a leash, or that they're not comfortable with it at the very least.

Seriously, this is social politics trying to speak up for the few who can't/won't keep it "behind closed doors" for whatever reason.


I agree with highlighted part.


tf2pyros wrote:

What about the "XXX STRAIGHT-EDGE" folk?

Sorry, but I wish for their population to eradicate.


What about them? I assume you mean people who listened to hardcore and lived by "no drugs, no alcohol, no tobacco." (Pretty much nothing in excess / A counter-culture to punk)

Unless you're talking about hipsters and hardliners. That would be an entirely different thing, unfortunately.
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Posted 7/23/15 , edited 7/23/15

invertedteapot wrote:

In my experience, kink shaming has been geared more towards people who make a public display of their kink. The tales I've seen of this are from people who are overtly sexual towards others, say swinger couples who try to bring acquaintances into the mix, or people who are into humiliation/public domination play. Not everybody's comfortable with those things being around them/being involved, and it's only fair that if you can show your girlfriend off on a leash, people should get to tell you that you should be institutionalized for thinking it's okay to show your girlfriend off on a leash, or that they're not comfortable with it at the very least.

Seriously, this is social politics trying to speak up for the few who can't/won't keep it "behind closed doors" for whatever reason.


In that case, they SHOULD be shamed for failing to be properly behaved in public and failing to uphold a level of decency. When it goes from the bedroom to the street, that's a problem. At this point, it is no longer about not liking the kink but about negligent and disrespectful behavior. Public things are no longer things behind closed doors and are, therefore, at least to me, not acceptable in an ordinary public. Maybe if they find the proper place, like some special gathering/convention specifically for this, it will be tolerated.

This is sort of like how people are quick to call you out on discrimination because you reacted in a way they didn't like even though your reaction had nothing to do in particular to their sexual preference, age, sex, race, etc. This is the same thing. They are calling people out for not wanting to accept their preference even though they've crossed a line and made it not an issue about their preference.

There are kids and religious people in the public. Sure, people can be as kinky as they like, but they have to be in the proper place and must take care not to unreasonably bother the people around them. It seems that people selfishly proclaim that they deserve all sorts of freedoms when they won't even respect their neighbors.

I suppose I am somewhat tolerant of the leash thing, since leashing is not a particularly lewd act. It is weird but I'd tolerate it. To me, it's sort of like dressing oddly in public. Nothing like public nudity or something of a similar nature, though.
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Posted 7/23/15
People are strange, but it's to each their own.
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Posted 7/23/15

I don't really mind.

A kink or fetish is just what someone is into.

Ofc it will be disagreed upon whatever it is by certain individuals or even a group but who cares.

For the longest time white people hated black people.

So you can argue that some women back then had a kink for black guys and vice versa.

Back then those people would probably get a punishment worse than shame.

Just think about that next time you are shaming or being shamed upon, pity the fool.

It's like shaming someone for their sense of taste or opinion.

Foolish.

I wouldn't say I'm proud of all my kinks/fetishes but I personally wouldn't hide it, if it turns me on I'd tell someone if they asked, if they make fun. ok, if not hmu later.
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Posted 7/23/15
What goes on in bedroom should stay in the bedroom

I really don't want to know about it.
Posted 7/23/15

tf2pyros wrote:

What about the "XXX STRAIGHT-EDGE" folk?

Sorry, but I wish for their population to eradicate.


Im sorry but why? Because not everyone shoves drugs up their nose and pours poison down their throat.

The extremists aren't fun, but again.....

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Posted 7/23/15

anzn wrote:


eragon2890 wrote:

People should stfu about what others like. If you hate kinks or people for having them , you are probably a baka SJW. We have too many of those on this planet. Thats all i am gonna say about it... Period.

Also, this threads are becoming so goddamn annoying...

yo fuck u this angry mean sjw is gonna make all the annoying threads they want. >:U


what's sjw? and why are you so angry?
Posted 7/23/15 , edited 7/23/15

Augment wrote:


I don't really mind.

A kink or fetish is just what someone is into.

Ofc it will be disagreed upon whatever it is by certain individuals or even a group but who cares.

For the longest time white people hated black people.

So you can argue that some women back then had a kink for black guys and vice versa.

Back then those people would probably get a punishment worse than shame.

Just think about that next time you are shaming or being shamed upon, pity the fool.

It's like shaming someone for their sense of taste or opinion.

Foolish.

I wouldn't say I'm proud of all my kinks/fetishes but I personally wouldn't hide it, if it turns me on I'd tell someone if they asked, if they make fun. ok, if not hmu later.

They still do tbh.
White women saying black guys got a big dick therefore good at sex.
They never got punished like...I heard white women literally went to Africa and raped black guys because of that stereotype.
And their slaves of course. Both black men & women.

Same here.
Especially since they're pretty common too, its very unlikely that you'll get any backlash or ppl weirded out by them.

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anzn wrote:


eragon2890 wrote:

People should stfu about what others like. If you hate kinks or people for having them , you are probably a baka SJW. We have too many of those on this planet. Thats all i am gonna say about it... Period.

Also, this threads are becoming so goddamn annoying...

yo fuck u this angry mean sjw is gonna make all the annoying threads they want. >:U


what's sjw? and why are you so angry?

social justice warrior, a warrior of social justice
I'm angry bc my son didn't clean his room when I asked him too.
also I slyly asked a anti-sjw to spell ICUP and he didn't so I'm very upset about that.
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Posted 7/23/15
Why exactly are you going around telling people your fetishes?
Posted 7/23/15 , edited 7/23/15

sundin13 wrote:

Why exactly are you going around telling people your fetishes?

These are usually not direct and if they are its bc that person prolly is just on 18+ forums talking about it or has a blog dedicated to it. lol
Like I'd say sites like 4chan and Tumblr.
But you see it on tumblr a whole lot more & clearly lmao

SurvivingHorror wrote:


anzn wrote:


SurvivingHorror wrote:

What really ticks me off, is when the person doing the shaming has the same fetish/kink the person they are shaming does.


That happens????


Plenty of times. I've seen it on Deviant Art. People who produce art revolving around their fetishes, sometimes create two DA pages. One for their fetish, one for their mainstream stuff. I've seen people go to their mainstream DA pages, and make posts about their fetishes. A lot of times, those people share that fetish.

Some people might say this isn't the same, but there is a reason why these people have two DA accounts.

I think its just them being mindful of viewers. Its technically nsfw, and some people probably don't wanna see it or just not interested in it.
I think that's a good idea, assuming you care about your viewers.
I personally wouldn't do that. That's why you censor the thing.
Having 2 accounts sounds tiring.
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