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Posted 7/24/15
really all depends on circumstances. I might say that if it took a flight to be able to see the person, it's not really worth it.. but then if you were planning to live in this country soon anyway then it would be easier. If it's just a few weeks between seeing the person, it really doesn't seem any different ... I think a lot of relationships are like that.
Posted 7/24/15
I believe it's impossible. I've tried and of course I was cheated on. In today's society I am not sure if you can actually trust people enough.
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Posted 7/24/15 , edited 7/24/15

Ohshc3rd wrote:

I really want it to work out. That's why i ask about it. and because i wanted to know some other point of view on it.

But if you had "a lot" of them, dosen't make it a bit contradictory?


A lot of what? I don't understand what you're asking.
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I don't wanna go into details, but i've been in a long distance relationship before, he was the total opposite of me and I was the total opposite of him, the only thing we both liked was video games. The relationship lasted 1 year and a half, and I broke up with him because he was so secretive and would never tell me anything even though i told him everything. I guess the only reason why i dated him was because of his looks and he knows video games, he was my first ever boyfriend and I (and him too!) messed it up. I don't ever want to go into another long distance relationship again, I only want to date someone one state away from me or they have enough money to move where I am.
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best comment ever 2015
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Posted 7/24/15


Ohshc3rd wrote:

I really want it to work out. That's why i ask about it. and because i wanted to know some other point of view on it.

But if you had "a lot" of them, dosen't make it a bit contradictory?


A lot of what? I don't understand what you're asking.


?!? first time i use the quote thing

but i had read comment that said they had have a lot of long distance relashionship that work. It just make no sence?

Thank you all for the replies. They're so many I'm very happy to read all of your advices. It sure help a lot
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Posted 7/24/15
It's definitely possible to have a long-distance relationship, as long as both parties are dedicated and trust each other. Losing trust with someone who lives far away can destroy a relationship, same with not being really into the relationship itself. It can be really tough, especially emotionally, but I sometimes think the distance can make the relationship stronger (in some cases). Being far away from one another makes the short amount of time that you are with each other so much more valuable.

I'm currently dating someone who lives a few states away, but I'm lucky enough to go to the same university as him (so we're only apart during breaks).
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Posted 7/24/15

furytime wrote:

I believe it's impossible. I've tried and of course I was cheated on. In today's society I am not sure if you can actually trust people enough.


It's not impossible. It's just incredibly difficult. Generally it should be considered temporary.
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Posted 7/24/15
My partner and I did it for two years while they were off at grad school, and it worked for us. We used Skype to talk and watch anime together.
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best comment ever 2015


thanks mr orange
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Posted 7/24/15
It really does depend on your circumstances, and the closer you are distance wise, the easier it is to visit. I had one with someone in Europe for years, but the travel cost was just ridiculous for the most part, especially for the age we were at the time. Once you're out of school, I'd say it'd be a little easier once you're working a regular job. But before then, it's really difficult.

Not really gonna go in to specifics about why the relationship didn't work though.
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Posted 7/24/15
Nope.
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Posted 7/24/15
Sure not a problem.
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Posted 7/24/15
It's hard. You'll face many temptations. But it will work.
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Posted 7/24/15
Depends on how much you love each other and how much you're willing to sacrifice.
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