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Women who are paranoid that their man is cheating
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Posted 7/27/15 , edited 7/27/15
Most people who are paranoid about their partner cheating are guilty of at least considering it themselves so...
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Posted 7/27/15

kogamii wrote:

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It's not just women who can be this suspicious and worried. It's pretty ridiculous of anyone, and quite distressing to be on the other side of.

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well that is one way to basically say the relationship wont work out. Trust is a need for a relationship.
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I'd need more context. If a guy has a history of sleeping around with a dozen girls at the same time, I wouldn't be surprised if a girl wanted a tracking collar on him if he began to settle down.

Trust is important in relationships, not just romantic ones. I'm not supporting extreme jealous behavior or anything, but I am sure in a good percentage of those situations - the paranoid-jealous significant other has a reason to be so. Sure, it can be about insecurity in plenty of cases, but I think people tend to excuse bad behavior of one partner if we cast the other as a crazy-stalker. HE CHEATED BECAUSE HE FELT TRAPPED, is not an excuse.

But yeah. Tracking is extreme, but one anime said something like that is just an extreme case of love.
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Posted 7/27/15 , edited 7/27/15
I'm a guy and i always worry but for a good reason.

Every women i have ever been with 4-5+ at the top of my head has cheated on me.

If you forgive a cheater they will cheat again.

The only one who didn't cheat on was controlling and abusive.



I just can't feel 100% safe anymore because everyone i have known and loved has lied to me or betrayed me...

I believe they have there reasons to be paranoid most reasons like mine experience


That is why i'm only attracted to super clingy girls now who won't leave my side ever i really hate people entering my life and leaving it just like that...family...friends and relationships.

Needless to say each relationship i trusted each one 100% even though the worry was lingering in my head but so far it has just lead me to being hurt again and again.
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Posted 7/27/15

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they have ugly furniture


You do not know how hard your comment made me laugh.
Posted 7/27/15
There's a fine line beteeen insecurity and jealousness/paranoia. Its the oldest soap opera theme theme there is . Possessive, over-protective, people create drama.
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HuastecoOtaku wrote:

they have ugly furniture


i disagree, i think it is quite charming
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My wife's been known to get insanely jealous of me spending time with other women. To the point it's nearly come to physical violence between her and the other women.

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Posted 7/27/15 , edited 7/27/15
If there isn't trust there isn't a relationship. It's not just women that can be like that.

Now if they don't trust other people, well that's different and totally cute haha.
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Posted 7/27/15 , edited 7/31/15

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My wife's been known to get insanely jealous of me spending time with other women. To the point it's nearly come to physical violence between her and the other women.



Sounds like you screwed up I hope you at least made her sign a prenuptial agreement?
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Posted 7/27/15

PrinceJudar wrote:

If there isn't trust there isn't a relationship. It's not just women that can be like that.

Now if they don't trust other people, well that's different and totally cute haha.


You can still trust someone and still fear them cheating or worry that they will.
So there still can be a relationship even if a tiny part of you doesn't trust anything.
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Posted 7/27/15 , edited 7/27/15

anzn wrote:

Tbh all the stuff I hear about them and what they do was all like a joke or just they're just exaggerating but then...


They're not fucking around.


This person faved' and retweeted their own tweet? Riiiight.
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Dariamus wrote:

My wife's been known to get insanely jealous of me spending time with other women. To the point it's nearly come to physical violence between her and the other women.



Sounds like you screwed up I hope you at least made her sign a prenuptial agreement?


LoL

That was 10 years ago and we're still married.

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Posted 7/27/15

Dariamus wrote: was 10 years ago

Going for another 10?

and everyone needs a little..
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