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Women who are paranoid that their man is cheating
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Posted 7/27/15
Questions I'd ask a overtly jealous person:
why be in a relationship with someone you don't trust? If they have a history of cheating, why are you with them? If they have no history of cheating why are you suspicious?
IMO; I think they're so defended they're looking for any reason to end a relationship on their terms without getting hurt; because if one leaves the other can say, "They left to be with someone else, as i suspected." or "They never truly loved me because they didn't feel the same way I felt about them." When the truth is they drove their partner away so they wouldn't be shocked when they left.
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Posted 7/27/15 , edited 7/31/15
I really can't blame them. Did you know that women are more likely to cheat than men?
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Posted 7/28/15 , edited 7/31/15

reaperx- wrote:

I really can't blame them. Did you know that women are more likely to cheat than men?


Historically, data shows that men cheated more often in the past. The most recent data I have seen that has any claim to any kind of accuracy suggests that cheating occurs roughly equally for both sexes now. The numbers are also less than 25%, so less than one in four. It can seem like more though since repeat offenders generally cheat on every person they get with. Kind of like how the divorce rate gets skewed higher by people who get remarried and divorced six times. The divorce rate for first marriages is actually only about 30%, while the total divorce rate is around 50%. Sixty-seven percent of second marriages end in divorce and the rate tends to increase the more times you're married. Similarly, a repeat cheater becomes more likely to cheat in each subsequent relationship.

Cheating is betrayal, a thing humans in general are passably good at. Neither sex has a monopoly on that.
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anzn wrote:


saprobe wrote:

Men do this, too you know. Christ.

Compared to what they do from my experience/what I heard, its much worse.
This is just funny.

These girls seem like they will show you something you said back in October 25th 2012 At 11:32 pm.


"You said to me we'd have a future together back in October 25th, 2012 at 11:32 pm. Did you forget the promise we made back then? Why were you talking to that girl at the supermarket just now?"

"I was paying for these groceries..."
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Posted 7/28/15
Trust is #1 for me in a relationship. Nothing will cause me to check out of a relationship faster than feeling like I need a private detective just to keep the person faithful. I'm not the type to need lessons repeated to me so it only needs to happen once and if the person can't make the effort to rebuild that trust than I can't be arsed about trying to make it work.

Some people are just clingy, easy to jump to conclusions, and paranoid but assuming you're not a crazy person, I can't fathom why you'd bother with someone who you can't trust as far as you can throw them. That's just completely unnecessary drama and stress in your life.



Ryulightorb wrote:

I'm a guy and i always worry but for a good reason.

Every women i have ever been with 4-5+ at the top of my head has cheated on me.

If you forgive a cheater they will cheat again.

The only one who didn't cheat on was controlling and abusive.



I just can't feel 100% safe anymore because everyone i have known and loved has lied to me or betrayed me...

I believe they have there reasons to be paranoid most reasons like mine experience


That is why i'm only attracted to super clingy girls now who won't leave my side ever i really hate people entering my life and leaving it just like that...family...friends and relationships.

Needless to say each relationship i trusted each one 100% even though the worry was lingering in my head but so far it has just lead me to being hurt again and again.


First off, *internet hugs*

Secondly, I don't know how you do it hun. If I was somehow a magnet for liars, cheaters, manipulators, and all around scumbags, I would have waved the flag, bought myself a collection of the finest vibrators on the market, and called it a life a long time ago.
Posted 7/28/15

LordDust wrote:


reaperx- wrote:

I really can't blame them. Did you know that women are more likely to cheat than men?


Historically, data shows that men cheated more often in the past. The most recent data I have seen that has any claim to any kind of accuracy suggests that cheating occurs roughly equally for both sexes now. The numbers are also less than 25%, so less than one in four. It can seem like more though since repeat offenders generally cheat on every person they get with. Kind of like how the divorce rate gets skewed higher by people who get remarried and divorced six times. The divorce rate for first marriages is actually only about 30%, while the total divorce rate is around 50%. Sixty-seven percent of second marriages end in divorce and the rate tends to increase the more times you're married. Similarly, a repeat cheater becomes more likely to cheat in each subsequent relationship.

Cheating is betrayal, a thing humans in general are passably good at. Neither sex has a monopoly on that.

Not to mention if you wanna go further into the past men were allowed to marry/have several spouses at once but if a women did or ever cheated she was killed.

By this alone I highly doubt women were most likely to cheat at almost any time in history imo

Also yeah basically. :/


PhantomGundam wrote:


anzn wrote:


saprobe wrote:

Men do this, too you know. Christ.

Compared to what they do from my experience/what I heard, its much worse.
This is just funny.

These girls seem like they will show you something you said back in October 25th 2012 At 11:32 pm.


"You said to me we'd have a future together back in October 25th, 2012 at 11:32 pm. Did you forget the promise we made back then? Why were you talking to that girl at the supermarket just now?"

"I was paying for these groceries..."

Lmaooo
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Posted 7/28/15
From what I can gather watching teen dramas, girls are paranoid about other girls getting their man to cheat.
Posted 7/29/15

FlyinDumpling wrote:

From what I can gather watching teen dramas, girls are paranoid about other girls getting their man to cheat.

Well in reality that's like never the case, unless the other women is practically harassing the guy.
Women are more concerned about their mans actions in cases like those more so than the other woman.
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Posted 7/29/15
Jealousy of course creeps up, but a relationship needs to have trust. Of course there needs to be boundaries too, so you shouldn't be getting to close to anyone of the opposite sex outside the relationship you are in. And of course if you are ever feeling insecure just simply talk to your significant other!
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Humans cheat.

How far they go with it depends on if they are worth it.
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Posted 7/29/15

Augment wrote:


Humans cheat.

How far they go with it depends on if they are worth it.


So we have no control over our actions? No free will at all? Even though cheating is considered wrong by all, none of us can help it so who cares? Sounds like you are quitting before you even start. I hope your let your love interest know how you feel about this before you enter any sort of relationship. She should probably know ahead of time that you have no intention of staying faithful to her.
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Posted 7/29/15 , edited 7/29/15
imo girls cheat more then guys. Its probably equal for the most part though. I have been cheated on about 3 times.
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Posted 7/29/15

Rei-hime wrote:

Trust is #1 for me in a relationship. Nothing will cause me to check out of a relationship faster than feeling like I need a private detective just to keep the person faithful. I'm not the type to need lessons repeated to me so it only needs to happen once and if the person can't make the effort to rebuild that trust than I can't be arsed about trying to make it work.

Some people are just clingy, easy to jump to conclusions, and paranoid but assuming you're not a crazy person, I can't fathom why you'd bother with someone who you can't trust as far as you can throw them. That's just completely unnecessary drama and stress in your life.



Ryulightorb wrote:

I'm a guy and i always worry but for a good reason.

Every women i have ever been with 4-5+ at the top of my head has cheated on me.

If you forgive a cheater they will cheat again.

The only one who didn't cheat on was controlling and abusive.



I just can't feel 100% safe anymore because everyone i have known and loved has lied to me or betrayed me...

I believe they have there reasons to be paranoid most reasons like mine experience


That is why i'm only attracted to super clingy girls now who won't leave my side ever i really hate people entering my life and leaving it just like that...family...friends and relationships.

Needless to say each relationship i trusted each one 100% even though the worry was lingering in my head but so far it has just lead me to being hurt again and again.


First off, *internet hugs*

Secondly, I don't know how you do it hun. If I was somehow a magnet for liars, cheaters, manipulators, and all around scumbags, I would have waved the flag, bought myself a collection of the finest vibrators on the market, and called it a life a long time ago.



Thanks *internet hugs*

Honestly the fact i still have hope is just because i am stubborn and believe if i keep trying something good will happen someday XD
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Posted 7/29/15
Why would anyone even cheat on that
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My wife use to go through my phone because she was insecure until one day I enlightened her.
Me: We need to talk.
Her: What's up?
Me: You're wasting your time going through my phone.
Her: ??
Me: I already disappoint one woman why would I suffer another one on top of it?
End of conversation.
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