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Lying on the internet...
Posted 7/30/15

And then on the flip side, males will make female accounts for free stuff.
Ugh this world is so stupid (I don't mean that as a personal insult or anything, just stating)
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Posted 7/30/15 , edited 8/2/15

furytime wrote:
And then on the flip side, males will make female accounts for free stuff.
Ugh this world is so stupid (I don't mean that as a personal insult or anything, just stating)


Generally it's males posing as bimbo girls in gaming environments. Not all though, I'm sure there's quite a number of females that enjoy the dumbass attention.

The free shit was horribly irritating. I think the cute faces annoy me most though. Like suddenly some guys talk a different language when they think someone is female. It's the behavior I just don't care for. They treat men like normal shit fucks and then type a bunch of cute smiley faces at the 'girl'. Then of course you got the guys that are assholes to girls in particular, we're all aware of those.

So yep. Lie I do, it's easier.



FYI, a good way to figure out a male trap is to start discussing their period. Males squirm and don't generally have a clue how it works. Pretty obvious from there.
Posted 7/30/15

Lol that'd be prett awkward for both parties. A whole lot of awkward. On one end a guy asked another guy about his period. Or on the other end a random guy just asked/talked to a girl about her period. Which is equally as odd imo. Seems like it would work though.
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furytime wrote:

Lol that'd be prett awkward for both parties. A whole lot of awkward. On one end a guy asked another guy about his period. Or on the other end a random guy just asked/talked to a girl about her period. Which is equally as odd imo. Seems like it would work though.


I do it all the time, it's fun as shit. They try so hard to keep it up. Make shit up that isn't realistic, act like they should know it, and they'll fall right in. Easy, easy.

Example from one of my past conversations:

Me: Is it that time of month for you or something?
Trap: Nope, next week.
Me: Oh huh, you a tampon girl or pads?
Trap: Pads actually
Me: Oh so does my girlfriend. Do you clean them with that lemon thing like she does or do you just use the normal alcohol?
Trap: Just alcohol.

Posted 7/30/15 , edited 7/30/15
Not everyone is forthcoming online, thus everyone is paranoid, cause and effect.

Everyone lies IRL, some have been married for 20+ years.

Since I have a boyfriend and don't come online to date, I cannot be taken advantage of.

I don't let anyone in I haven't met offline in a public place with friends.





V that is called lying by omission
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Posted 7/30/15
I don't really see the point in lying to get attention, it always ends up coming out clear, and ends up worst.

So no, I don't really lie, I just... avoid giving out some info?
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Posted 7/30/15

PrinceJudar wrote: I do it all the time, it's fun as shit. They try so hard to keep it up.
Trap: Just alcohol.

Buy that thing some alcohol!

Next time ask a sexual question and see how they respond, then the troll will come out at once!
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Posted 7/30/15
I think it depends on what you are doing on the internet, who you are talking to, and what you want to accomplish.
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I think it depends on what you are doing on the internet, who you are talking to, and what you want to accomplish.
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PenguinPower04 wrote:

I've found that little lies add up. Even when they're seemingly harmless they add up. Eventually you might find yourself lying to provide you more time until you can complete a task you already said you completed, or you lie about really enjoying something so as to be forced into doing said claim because you yourself cannot find the courage to do it alone. While these may feel like it is not a big deal, you will find yourself telling bigger and more drastic lies. They come easier and you lose the shame in telling them because it feels natural. Lying becomes a habit, a hard one to quit. The liars who want the pity probably started small, even felt shameful about it however, like I said, it becomes second nature. They discover if well done they can get just about anything. Because of that loss of pride they can shamelessly claim heartbreaking scenarios getting them the attention they have learned to control. Perhaps the ones seeking the attention, when asked why, will simply reply with "It just comes out, I feel it as truth, It's harder to be truthful" if they were to be 100% honest. These are my views of course...


This is totally true. When I was a kid/teen, I was a habitual liar. I lied about nearly everything. It started when I was young because my home life was bad and it was easier to get through the day if I told my parents things other than the truth for school and other stuff, but before I knew it I was a teenager and had so many lies on top of other lies that it was like there was no coming clean. It was easier to just keep lying. It took a long time to get out of it when I graduated high school and got new friends. I still have one friend that I initially 'met' online when he and I were both in high school (we're going to finally be meeting in person soon here, so that's exciting!), and I had to come clean to him about a whole slew of things. It took a long time but I finally did a few years back ago, and it felt much better.

Of course I wouldn't know about the whole heartbreaking situation stuff because I never had lies dealing with things like that, but I'm sure it's much the same.
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Posted 7/30/15
If you can find someone who doesn't lie and doesn't the internet dont trust them
Posted 7/30/15

PrinceJudar wrote:


furytime wrote:
And then on the flip side, males will make female accounts for free stuff.
Ugh this world is so stupid (I don't mean that as a personal insult or anything, just stating)


Generally it's males posing as bimbo girls in gaming environments. Not all though, I'm sure there's quite a number of females that enjoy the dumbass attention.

The free shit was horribly irritating. I think the cute faces annoy me most though. Like suddenly some guys talk a different language when they think someone is female. It's the behavior I just don't care for. They treat men like normal shit fucks and then type a bunch of cute smiley faces at the 'girl'. Then of course you got the guys that are assholes to girls in particular, we're all aware of those.

So yep. Lie I do, it's easier.



FYI, a good way to figure out a male trap is to start discussing their period. Males squirm and don't generally have a clue how it works. Pretty obvious from there.

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I rarely do that especially nowadays just bc free stuff. What i do really is that if they ever ask, I just say im female. If they assume im a guy, i dont correct them either.
But idky you'd find that irritating. I mean??? Free stuff??? c'mon everyone loves, especially poor ppl, love free stuff no matter what it is sometimes.
A few extra gold & rare items from thirsty guys is quite helpful.

Its also fun to mess with them.
Block em afterwards once they given me enough.
Find another sugar daddy.

Also most guys are so clueless when it comes to periods too so yeah that's a good way to indicate if they a guy or not if you care.
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Posted 7/30/15
Lying is a means for a short term goal. Trying to keep it going for a long time period will cause it to self destruct or to become a truth in its own right. That last part does not happen often.
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Posted 7/30/15

anzn wrote:
Truu
I rarely do that especially nowadays just bc free stuff. What i do really is that if they ever ask, I just say im female. If they assume im a guy, i dont correct them either.
But idky you'd find that irritating. I mean??? Free stuff??? c'mon everyone loves, especially poor ppl, love free stuff no matter what it is sometimes.
A few extra gold & rare items from thirsty guys is quite helpful.

Its also fun to mess with them.
Block em afterwards once they given me enough.
Find another sugar daddy.

Also most guys are so clueless when it comes to periods too so yeah that's a good way to indicate if they a guy or not if you care.


I can't accept those types of gifts from people, it just feels wrong. With friends I don't mind, because I can return the favor come Christmas time or their birthdays. If some random dude gives me something for just being a chick he probably thinks he can buy my damn attention, but it also means he's likely to be a lonely guy. Gifting me things make me feel indebted. That irritates me. I don't like to take advantage of a guy's desperation and I certainly hate the feeling of being indebted. Not like I can be ungrateful about it without hurting the poor thing, unless he's an ass and acting smug about it, then I'd shove it down his throat. I'm just not one to take without giving back something in return. I don't like the special attention if it's only about my stupid gender, which in those cases it would be.
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Posted 7/30/15
there are three types of lies:

deception- fabricating information to shape a persons perceptions
(outright lies)

misdirection- using portions of information as a smokescreen to lead a persons perceptions in a desirable direction
(could be partially omission as well. using true information to form false conclusions in the head of another is a good example)
"Lie? Me? Never. The truth is far too much fun!" -Capt. James Hook.

omission- leaving out or withholding information to shape a persons perceptions
(withholding information that might make people think of you in a way less favorable than you wish)

using any of these methods is an attempt to shape another persons perceptions. regardless of the reason or intent. that being said, without being so unashamedly forthcoming with every bit of personal information it is virtually impossible to avoid lies. its less the fault of the person telling them most of the time and more the fault of the over curious people asking about personal subjects. some people do not take no for an answer or simply make things up to fill in the knowledge gap. sometimes lying about certain information is a way to prevent anther persons lies from being accepted as reality, all the while keeping the information secret.

There really isnt anything wrong with lies. people do it all the time. its a defense mechanism humans have developed to exist in large groups. most lies are harmless and sometimes even beneficial. in my opinion, the only time a person should be pitied for lying is when they lie to themselves. its one of the most difficult thing to see and many times it can have detrimental effects on a person.

TL;DR: 3 kinds of lies, deception, misdirection, omission. lying is not bad. defense mechanism. except lying to yourself. that's bad.
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