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humor basically and very nice personality
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Well, the way I fell for my boy was his sharing of emotional wisdom and understanding. Yet at the same time he doesn't get ruled by it as I do. The fact I found him an intellectual equal made him really attractive for me. Of course there's also his unfaltering loyalty, his humor, and his love that makes him do too much for me. I rejected him at first and he became my best friend for years until I fell for the idiot too.

Posted 7/31/15
OP are you talking about a yandere?

Also people I find attractive & might eventually fall for are usually...
- assertive
- confident
- has good sense of humor
- intelligent
- witty
- down to earth
- chill
- intriguing

Also someone who surprises me, but in a way like...someone who seems quiet, shy and docile is actually not once you get to know them and see how they're like behind closed doors.
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PrinceJudar wrote:

Well, the way I fell for my boy was his sharing of emotional wisdom and understanding. Yet at the same time he doesn't get ruled by it as I do. The fact I found him an intellectual equal made him really attractive for me. Of course there's also his unfaltering loyalty, his humor, and his love that makes him do too much for me. I rejected him at first and he became my best friend for years until I fell for the idiot too.



I tried dating my boyfriend on a whim. He has curly hair and beautiful eyes, which are comforting for me. Looking back, I may have started dating him just so I could play with his hair (when I say curly I mean ringlets). I didn't know him before that. Usually what draws me to a person is their compassion and understanding for others. He had this in spades with a lot of other things. When I fell for him, I felt a little resentful because I hadn't dated him to fall in love with him. I dated him because we had good times together, I hadn't really planned on this big long future together and now we're married. This only came as a shock to me apparently. It's funny how these things work - don't look for a husband and you'll find one.
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I rejected him at first and he became my best friend for years until I fell for the idiot too.
I hadn't really planned on this big long future together and now we're married.

After this we got a plane crash!
just...
*embrace the important word that comes up right now*



don't look for a husband and you'll find one.

Neither with both, some people are easier to get togther through exp or events like just meeting randomly on the streets for example.
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Kitahoshi_Hazel wrote:

I tried dating my boyfriend on a whim. He has curly hair and beautiful eyes, which are comforting for me. Looking back, I may have started dating him just so I could play with his hair (when I say curly I mean ringlets). I didn't know him before that. Usually what draws me to a person is their compassion and understanding for others. He had this in spades with a lot of other things. When I fell for him, I felt a little resentful because I hadn't dated him to fall in love with him. I dated him because we had good times together, I hadn't really planned on this big long future together and now we're married. This only came as a shock to me apparently. It's funny how these things work - don't look for a husband and you'll find one.


It's certainly funny how it works sometimes. Often it's the people we least expect to end up with that we do. Sometimes it's just a matter of comfort and when that starts happening it's like ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh shit...this is happening. I guess some of the best relationships certainly feel like good friends behind it all.

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Nightblade370 wrote:


Ryulightorb wrote:

Just curious.

I myself find Clingyness and obsessiveness and moodswings attractive.

What do you find attractive in a potential SO









So from one to Gasai Yuno, how clingy and obsessive (and possibly yandere) do you want your soulmate, OP?



Jokes aside, I guess I can say that even at college age, I'm still trying to figure that out. I know what I'm attracted to personality wise and even physically (although I'm more flexible there) and I've dated before, but I've never fallen in love.

If anything stands out, though, I'd say someone who is strong and intelligent, but perhaps more because I respect and admire strong, intelligent women. I also love creativity, but I'm a creative person myself.




Funny enough Yuno is my fav anime girl hahaha would take her if i could :)

So probably close to the Yuno side minus the murders :)

Creativity is a wonderful thing to be attracted to also :o


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Dariamus wrote:


Ryulightorb wrote:


Nightblade370 wrote:


Ryulightorb wrote:

Just curious.

I myself find Clingyness and obsessiveness and moodswings attractive.

What do you find attractive in a potential SO









So from one to Gasai Yuno, how clingy and obsessive (and possibly yandere) do you want your soulmate, OP?



Jokes aside, I guess I can say that even at college age, I'm still trying to figure that out. I know what I'm attracted to personality wise and even physically (although I'm more flexible there) and I've dated before, but I've never fallen in love.

If anything stands out, though, I'd say someone who is strong and intelligent, but perhaps more because I respect and admire strong, intelligent women. I also love creativity, but I'm a creative person myself.




Funny enough Yuno is my fav anime girl hahaha would take her if i could :)

So probably close to the Yuno side minus the murders :)

Creativity is a wonderful thing to be attracted to also :o




I could easily see myself falling for Yunno at that age. She's intelligent, strong willed, and yes, I like clingy.

Her jealousy would not have been an issue, I had few friends at that age and have none these days outside my family.
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anzn wrote:

OP are you talking about a yandere?

Also people I find attractive & might eventually fall for are usually...
- assertive
- confident
- has good sense of humor
- intelligent
- witty
- down to earth
- chill
- intriguing

Also someone who surprises me, but in a way like...someone who seems quiet, shy and docile is actually not once you get to know them and see how they're like behind closed doors.


I guess thats what multiple people have said when i explain my dream girl haha.
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Their ability to support themselves and go after their dreams.
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They need to be able to incite a tickle in the back of my mind. I don't know what it is or what causes it, but that is what is required.
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I usually fall in love because of personalities. I have a crush right now because he's kind and he's simple. He's not that attractive but I just like him. I just like everything about him. We always talk in LoL (League of Legends) but we barely talk in personal which is normal xD
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Down to earth, has a great sense of humor, a beautiful smile along with a hearty laugh. Lady in the streets, freak in the sheets. Innocent with a hint of naughty mmmmm.
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severticas wrote:

Smells nice and breezy, is warm and peaceful.. etc okay, fine. I fell in love with a fabric softener.


Nice and breezy, fresh and easy
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