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Post Reply What do you find attractive when you fall for someone
Posted 8/1/15
We love who we love, it can't be a pure virtue like altruism or chastity.

Defining honesty as transparency is a temporary observation. Instead, honesty is better defined as a lifelong, gradual evolution.

Its not flirting or cybersex, its more than carnal imagery and skillful seduction.

Its not chemistry,, its not lust. With age, beauty wilts and fades. Love comes through pain, it transcends death.
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Posted 8/1/15
I've fallen for girls who are lonely...
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Posted 8/1/15 , edited 8/1/15

woodygirl97 wrote:

Someone who likes RPG and MMORPG. Definitely mature but with a little immaturity. I love tattoos but I'm not a fan of piercings. Honest, caring (but not clingy) good sense of humour, not judgemental and likes pizza!


Adopt me please you're like my ideal mother
Posted 8/2/15 , edited 8/2/15

SelfConsciousParadox wrote:

I've fallen for girls who are lonely...


I am attracted to vulnerability too. There's my necro- files and other advances towards the over 80s. Don't judge me.

I'm kidding.I haven't gotten that far yet but never say never.
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Posted 8/2/15
I love people with deeply emotional and strong personalities. All else comes second.
Posted 8/2/15 , edited 8/2/15
Someone I can work well with and laugh with. Someone who is willing to bring up an issue and talk through it. We don't need to share the same hobbies, but as long as they enjoy physical activity too then we'll be all set. I enjoy my independence so I prefer someone who doesn't want to hang out 24/7 and so on. As for looks, I just know I like baby faces and dark hair with light eyes.
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Someone who is smart and cultured.
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Posted 8/2/15
The fact that they even talk to me ._.
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26 / M / Chicago,IL
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Posted 8/2/15
When they realize i am the best thing to happen to them.
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Posted 8/2/15
I like when people are passionate about something. It doesn't matter if it's gobbldygook to me, if her eyes light up when she talks about it and she fills with energy it's hella attractive.
Especially if she then is willing to push me into learning about that thing.
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Posted 8/2/15
Its always personality - I've got to like the person for who they are to be interested
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22 / M / Arizona
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Posted 8/2/15
The first thing I notice is a pretty face, after that their personality is what keeps me interested.
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Posted 8/2/15 , edited 8/2/15
Someone who is happy with who she is and values her own like, wants and opinions over those of others (not conceited or vain just happy with herself). Someone who isn't afraid to be herself in public (not put phony faces on). Someone who will support me when I'm right but chastise me when I'm wrong (honesty truly can be the best policy in a relationship). Someone who is empathic toward others but not wishy-washy (it's okay to help others but not allowing others to take advantage of you). Someone who can both give a caring hug to a child or beat the living tar out of a bully (yin and yang). Someone who is happy enough with what she has that she never worries about what she could have instead (envy and regret can eat away at any relationship slowly).
Posted 8/2/15
Reading all this makes me realize how not over someone I am.
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Posted 8/2/15
Someone who has a career doesn't need a man to feel whole but needs a man for a partner and lover not jealous and has confidence in her sexuality
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