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I can't get a job because i have Aspergers and on top of finding social situations exhausting and stressful i have meltdowns.

Because of this i can only last 4-5 hours working before i break down from stress / exhaustion and walk away from things.

Because of this i'm worried about my future because im not sure living on a part time job is possible i mean i do get disability pension but still i want to work and reach my dreams but i know i can't stand more then 4-5 hours of work mentally i even had a job capacity assesment to back that up.

Also because i have Aspergers i am antisocial and alot of us are not independant i can't do alot of things like cooking cleaning washing clothes etc.


Think the pet girl of sakurasou girl but a bit more independent (well as a kid i got my mother to dress me and tie my shoes as i never could do that) (it's also funny cause alot of people have wondered if that girl in that anime has Aspergers)


So basically i'm dependant on help emotionally and physically and i don't cope and i need money to live a life ...im going to die.
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Posted 8/1/15
Nothing, but I am eating cereal.
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19 / M / Future Gadget Lab...
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Posted 8/1/15

Kitahoshi_Hazel wrote:


Nightblade370 wrote:

I moved up about a month ago to another town for college with my folks and sister, but I don't know anybody here. It's kinda boring not being able to talk to anybody, but I have been enjoying my anime and games.

I also did pretty well in high school (was an honor roll student), but I still worry about how I'll fare in college. I'm not going to a prestigious school or anything, but still, my life is about to change drastically.


The CR forums are a great way to socialize until you meet people. I bet you will meet people at college too. I went to college when I was older, so I was in a course full of people with a large age range. I didn't really make any friends because none of us were planning to make friends there, but I noticed the younger students managed to find friends amongst themselves. If there's an anime club, that would be even better.


That's my intended goal...I was the president and founder of my high-school anime club, actually. I'm just waiting for college to start, but managing to keep myself entertained in the moment is really the issue at hand. I will say that the CR forums have been nice, although I do wish I could be around actual people; it just doesn't feel the same.

I guess I'm just going to stick it out and manage until the time comes. Thanks.
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23 / M / AZ
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Posted 8/1/15
The humidity heat are driving me insane!
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Well there is this guy that I like and Im really close friends with him and Im not sure I want to ruin the amazing friendship that we have. He's been really nice and helping me out with this girl who a) stole my boyfriend of 1 1/2 years b) she's a total B and is trying to make me leave my group of friends. After loosing that boyfriend he really helped me out and made me feel needed again. I would love to date him because he is so nice and gentlemanly but I don't want to risk loosing him as a friend.
Posted 8/1/15
My fiance , My daughter , my unborn child

im kinda like stressing on alot. Im getting married in December AND it's alot of preparations and shit

stress ontop of stresss
Posted 8/1/15
School.
I'm anxious for my grades
back for this week
to see if I was able to
bring my grade up to an A
;_;

Then next week I get to have
SO much fun and start
Computer Science & Internet

-_-"

I just wish we had more breaks you know?
We work ourselves to death and it seems
like it would be really easy for some people
to just get sick of the whole thing and drop out.
Posted 8/1/15
This brilliant seat i sat on this week


I'm just burning my bum, as you do.
Posted 8/1/15
These frackin morons who
always gotta bring up the police officers
killing the blacks

the same people who are taking
part of our history as a nation
and shaming it.

The same people who wipe their
asses with our nation's flag.

Who seriously thinks this is okay?

If you hate our police officers
and our Nation that much
then GTFO.

Seriously.
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Posted 8/1/15
Grades. Must... Make... A's... Need job with NOAA...

Also vampires... vampires be eating me (drinking?).
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Posted 8/1/15

Nightblade370 wrote:
That's my intended goal...I was the president and founder of my high-school anime club, actually. I'm just waiting for college to start, but managing to keep myself entertained in the moment is really the issue at hand. I will say that the CR forums have been nice, although I do wish I could be around actual people; it just doesn't feel the same.

I guess I'm just going to stick it out and manage until the time comes. Thanks.


Maybe you could Skype your friends and family? It's not the same thing as being there, but it helps. I Skype with my niece from time to time because she lives overseas and I can't afford to visit.

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Posted 8/1/15

Kitahoshi_Hazel wrote:


Nightblade370 wrote:
That's my intended goal...I was the president and founder of my high-school anime club, actually. I'm just waiting for college to start, but managing to keep myself entertained in the moment is really the issue at hand. I will say that the CR forums have been nice, although I do wish I could be around actual people; it just doesn't feel the same.

I guess I'm just going to stick it out and manage until the time comes. Thanks.


Maybe you could Skype your friends and family? It's not the same thing as being there, but it helps. I Skype with my niece from time to time because she lives overseas and I can't afford to visit.



That might work. Actually, my family moved up with me, as my sister and I are going to the same college (we aren't blood related, but we are practically the same age) so we don't have to go into debt for dorms, but I can do that with old friends, I suppose. Thanks!
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Posted 8/1/15
Life in general Dx
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27 / F / Canada
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Posted 8/1/15
What exactly about life that is upsetting you? If you aren't sure, try journaling your thoughts and emotions to figure things out.
Posted 8/1/15
Mainly waiting for school to start back up again. I'm always asked when I'll be graduating college and it weighs me down a lot when I can't give a clear answer. With there being all of these different course requirements that I can't fulfill right away due to some of them being unavailable until like next summer as well as various financial situations, I've been pretty stressed.

Aside from this, many people whom I would consider friends just don't seem to want anything to do with me it seems. It just always comes down to me always sending messages or texts to see how they're doing or if they want to hang out and such, but never the other way around. I try to interact with them the best I can but don't get the same. I've tried planning specific events like going bowling, going to the movies, conventions, or even something as simple as "hey, it's been awhile let's chat"(more or less) or something. Regardless of what plans I try to make or what conversations I try to start, I get rather simple, short, or ambiguous responses that gives the impression that they aren't all too interested. When mutual friends or acquaintences make the same plans and do the exact same things that I do though, suddenly there's a wildfire of conversations, interactions, etc with them.

The last thing is just that overwhelming feeling of loneliness. With the aforementioned friend situation above, and the fact that it's tough trying to find love (or having it find you). Things get rather lonesome pretty quickly. Have a lot that's eating at me right now haha.
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