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Story about this guy & his girlfriend being in a open relationship
Posted 8/3/15 , edited 8/3/15
It was from a old Reddit post.

Long story short;

This guy wasn't satisfied with his big girlfriend, & wanted to go out and date more hotter women so he asked her if they could have a open relationship. She agreed to it. And she ended up dating & sleeping with tons of hot men while this guy couldn't even get one woman to date him.
So he wanted a closed relationship again because he thought it was unfair lmao.

Like...wow. I laughed for 5 minutes reading that.

Here's the full story

Also, how do you guys feel about open relationships by the way?
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Posted 8/3/15 , edited 8/3/15
Open relationships remind me of friends w/ benefits.
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Posted 8/3/15 , edited 8/6/15
Whatever floats your boat tbh... as long as you're not doing anything illegal or grotesque and both partners consent.

Certainly not my thing.
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Posted 8/3/15 , edited 8/6/15
Honestly, I think it takes a special type of person to be in a healthy open relationship. Personally I couldn't ever be in one, I would imagine that I view sex and intimacy differently than the required type of person in an open relationship would.
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Posted 8/3/15
Never been in any kind of relationship (too shy and quiet).

Though I can say that I definitely don't like the idea.
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Posted 8/4/15 , edited 8/6/15
Karma is a bitch xP
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Posted 8/4/15 , edited 8/4/15
closed for me
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Posted 8/4/15
Closed relationship. 100% my views on relationships conflict with those of an open relationship.
Posted 8/4/15
That was really funny....... In a really sad sense.
Posted 8/4/15
I'd only have a closed relationship.
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Posted 8/4/15
To be honest, I've never been in a relationship. If I ever do get into a relationship, it would probably be closed. However, if I did decide to be in an open relationship I would require my lover to take an STD test every time before I'd let him sleep with me.
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Posted 8/4/15 , edited 8/4/15
You know...I'm going to be one of the weird ones here...even though I'm in a monogamous relationship now, I've previously been in open relationships. It requires being open with all participants and it requires trust...well, and a lot of self-confidence. Most people want an open relationship for the sex, thinking that open relationships just mean that they can sleep with anyone and everyone while still having someone to go home to at night. And, perhaps nowadays, that's true to an extent. Really, though...it should be about finding what fits you. People who have been in a relationship always find their partner lacking in some way...whether it's physical (wrong hair/eye color, body type, breast size, etc) or mental (too obsessive, has trust issues, has daddy issues [or mommy issues], etc)...an open relationship is to find people who fit/satisfy you completely.

Anyways...it's hard to do, generally trust is the first thing to go...gets worse once sex becomes involved...gets even worse when partners are allowed to watch...(anyone who has watched Chasing Amy knows where that comes in).

Personally...I can't wait for polygamy laws to be lifted...not that I want a polygamous marriage...but talk about a way to stick it to the divorce lawyers.
Posted 8/4/15 , edited 8/4/15
I have very traditional views on relationships, but I'm not one to judge another if they prefer a different approach. I'm a believer in true love and all that nonsense, so open relationships, one night stands and the like are a no go for me.
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Posted 8/4/15
Seems like a terrible idea to me. But if people wanna do stuff like that, they should just keep me out of it.
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Posted 8/4/15
Personally, I wouldn't be in an open relationship. However, if both people agree and no one is hurting anything, I couldn't care less if others are in open relationships.
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