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Story about this guy & his girlfriend being in a open relationship
Posted 8/4/15 , edited 8/4/15
I heard this quote in an anime "I believe you can love only 1 person at a time" and I agree.

Open relationships is not about love but about sex. If you feel the need to date other people because the person you're with right now is lacking something then that relationship is not based upon love.

Everyone gets jealous, especially when they love someone. As you can see, I don't believe in open relationships unless I don't really care for my partner and I just want sex (like friends w/ benefits).
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Posted 8/4/15

Ssomething wrote:

I heard this quote in an anime "I believe you can love only 1 person at a time" and I agree.

Open relationships is not about love but about sex. If you feel the need to date other people because the person you're with right now is lacking something then that relationship is not based upon love.

Everyone gets jealous, especially when they love someone. As you can see, I don't believe in open relationships unless I don't really care for my partner and I just want sex (like friends w/ benefits).


To some people the act of sex is the ultimate of being vulnerable or letting your guard down kinda of a tight rope with emotion false move and splat lol
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Nope. Might as well just not be in one honestly. No point to it.
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Oh lol. That guy was slapped hard by karma.
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Nope, not going to happen for me. The guy had it coming, though. XD There are guys now that are into bigger women (no pun intended). lol
How I feel about it is people can be in open relationships (swingers) if only the other person said yeah, not push that person into saying yeah just because that person loves you enough to do anything for you and hold onto you.
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Not my thing.

I don't like sharing, neither does my wife.
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I'd rather remain a virgin for life than be in an open relationship. I don't need someone else for pleasure. Duh.

Sex alone is way less important to me than love and I'd always expect the same from my man. If you don't want the whole package, flaws and all, then you can fuck off. I'm your everything or I'm your nothing policy. I want to settle, I don't care for the pants dropping party life and never will.

I don't view open relationships well, despite it maybe working out for a very small few. Seems more to me like 'hey I'm not really sure about us and I want to try other people before I fully decide' or 'I got an itch in my pants and like I care about you romantically, but sexually I got this itch you can't reach, it'll just be more exciting with different people'. They rarely work, because it means the relationship hasn't settled down and they aren't ready to finalize a commitment to the other person solely. Doesn't mean they won't end up in a relationship afterward, but when it's open, it's not finalized either at all. It just takes more time and you can easily get stuck wasting time with the wrong one because they aren't forced to face whether they get bored of having 'just you' until much later.
Posted 8/4/15
No, thank you. I have a boyfriend, and we would never agree to such a thing. I mean why would we want to
to jeopardise what we have when its perfect as is? I can understand why some would want that, but not for us, lol.

To me this guy got what he deserved for not appreciating what he had, karma is a bitch.
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I'd rather remain a virgin for life than be in an open relationship. I don't need someone else for pleasure. Duh.

Sex alone is way less important to me than love and I'd always expect the same from my man. If you don't want the whole package, flaws and all, then you can fuck off. I'm your everything or I'm your nothing policy. I want to settle, I don't care for the pants dropping party life and never will.

I don't view open relationships well, despite it maybe working out for a very small few. Seems more to me like 'hey I'm not really sure about us and I want to try other people before I fully decide' or 'I got an itch in my pants and like I care about you romantically, but sexually I got this itch you can't reach, it'll just be more exciting with different people'. They rarely work, because it means the relationship hasn't settled down and they aren't ready to finalize a commitment to the other person solely. Doesn't mean they won't end up in a relationship afterward, but when it's open, it's not finalized either at all. It just takes more time and you can easily get stuck wasting time with the wrong one because they aren't forced to face whether they get bored of having 'just you' until much later.


I have gay friends that use to think all relationships where open because it was against the law for them to get married kinda funny today they are like oh Fuck got to buy ring.
By your definition of being a virgin have you ever thought about being a nun if you don't use what you got it might fall off or metamorph jk lol, plus losing your virginity is kinda overated
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I do not think having one of those in the immediate future . - Closed -
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PrinceJudar wrote:



I'd rather remain a virgin for life than be in an open relationship. I don't need someone else for pleasure. Duh.

Sex alone is way less important to me than love and I'd always expect the same from my man. If you don't want the whole package, flaws and all, then you can fuck off. I'm your everything or I'm your nothing policy. I want to settle, I don't care for the pants dropping party life and never will.

I don't view open relationships well, despite it maybe working out for a very small few. Seems more to me like 'hey I'm not really sure about us and I want to try other people before I fully decide' or 'I got an itch in my pants and like I care about you romantically, but sexually I got this itch you can't reach, it'll just be more exciting with different people'. They rarely work, because it means the relationship hasn't settled down and they aren't ready to finalize a commitment to the other person solely. Doesn't mean they won't end up in a relationship afterward, but when it's open, it's not finalized either at all. It just takes more time and you can easily get stuck wasting time with the wrong one because they aren't forced to face whether they get bored of having 'just you' until much later.


I have gay friends that use to think all relationships where open because it was against the law for them to get married kinda funny today they are like oh Fuck got to buy ring.
By your definition of being a virgin have you ever thought about being a nun if you don't use what you got it might fall off or metamorph jk lol, plus losing your virginity is kinda overated


I never understood why people can't wrap their minds around celebacy, to them its as if sexuality defines life. These are some of the same who can't grasp romance as separate from sex.
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Posted 8/4/15

DawnofSorrow wrote:


scoobydew wrote:


PrinceJudar wrote:



I'd rather remain a virgin for life than be in an open relationship. I don't need someone else for pleasure. Duh.

Sex alone is way less important to me than love and I'd always expect the same from my man. If you don't want the whole package, flaws and all, then you can fuck off. I'm your everything or I'm your nothing policy. I want to settle, I don't care for the pants dropping party life and never will.

I don't view open relationships well, despite it maybe working out for a very small few. Seems more to me like 'hey I'm not really sure about us and I want to try other people before I fully decide' or 'I got an itch in my pants and like I care about you romantically, but sexually I got this itch you can't reach, it'll just be more exciting with different people'. They rarely work, because it means the relationship hasn't settled down and they aren't ready to finalize a commitment to the other person solely. Doesn't mean they won't end up in a relationship afterward, but when it's open, it's not finalized either at all. It just takes more time and you can easily get stuck wasting time with the wrong one because they aren't forced to face whether they get bored of having 'just you' until much later.


I have gay friends that use to think all relationships where open because it was against the law for them to get married kinda funny today they are like oh Fuck got to buy ring.
By your definition of being a virgin have you ever thought about being a nun if you don't use what you got it might fall off or metamorph jk lol, plus losing your virginity is kinda overated


I never understood why people can't wrap their minds around celebacy, to them its as if sexuality defines life. These are some of the same who can't grasp romance as separate from sex.


True statement but society uses the words like a sexless marriage meaning usually negative results. Not sure if society is ready for a celibate love relationship might be to advanced or intellectual for simple male minds to grasp
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Posted 8/4/15

scoobydew wrote:

I have gay friends that use to think all relationships where open because it was against the law for them to get married kinda funny today they are like oh Fuck got to buy ring.
By your definition of being a virgin have you ever thought about being a nun if you don't use what you got it might fall off or metamorph jk lol, plus losing your virginity is kinda overated


Lol, gay marriage ruling was awesome.

Nah nuns don't watch porn. I'd be a shitty nun.

I feel like it is overrated, I just don't think sex is all that important, I'm sure it'll be fun and blah blah. It's not life changing like love is though.

Posted 8/4/15
I think it would be impossible to love
two people at once for myself personally.
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