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Ugly and ugliness
Posted 8/4/15

descloud wrote:

Because the United States media has a way of setting standards for what is good looking. Ironically these same people have the worst kind of personalities.


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Posted 8/4/15
Well I have been brought to think I am ugly honestly. it was a bad time for me, I have been learning to build my self esteem and confidence back up.. But really it's harder to build it up then bring it down. I usually feel my confidence, and I will truthfully have times where I just bluntly statethat I feel ugly(which I'm sure I don't actually think that way)

I'm a person who goes by personalities though. they can be one of the best things AND first thing to judge someone for. people with nasty personalities theow me off.. Not meaning I will hate them maybe dislike. those with good personalties just differ from everyone but that would be the true reason someone could be ugly. Especially if their personality fits their appearance.
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Posted 8/4/15 , edited 8/4/15

belxfran-desu wrote:

Well I have been brought to think I am ugly honestly. it was a bad time for me, I have been learning to build my self esteem and confidence back up.. But really it's harder to build it up then bring it down. I usually feel my confidence, and I will truthfully have times where I just bluntly statethat I feel ugly(which I'm sure I don't actually think that way)

I'm a person who goes by personalities though. they can be one of the best things AND first thing to judge someone for. people with nasty personalities theow me off.. Not meaning I will hate them maybe dislike. those with good personalties just differ from everyone but that would be the true reason someone could be ugly. Especially if their personality fits their appearance.


It's not easy. The only reason I figured it out was I really knocked myself down enough to make or break. Pick myself up or drown.

I hope you feel better soon! It can be helpful to write down reminders to read when you're feeling down about it, eventually you won't need them anymore.
Posted 8/4/15
We have low self esteem and nobody pays us any attention irl.
Posted 8/4/15 , edited 8/4/15
We have low self esteem and nobody pays us any attention irl.
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Posted 8/4/15
Being ugly builds character. Needless to say I could have my own sitcom :/
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Posted 8/4/15
I did not just assume i was ugly. The way i kept getting turned down for better looking guys or constantly getting dumped/cheated on because of someone better looking.

It put it in my mind.
I used to think i was just average but it dropped.
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Posted 8/4/15
I'm ugly.
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Posted 8/4/15

saksiss wrote:

I'm ugly.


Your beautiful.
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Posted 8/4/15 , edited 8/4/15

GayAsianBoy wrote:

We have low self esteem and nobody pays us any attention irl.


This

I also have low self esteem, and I'm shy
Posted 8/5/15
I feel like I am ugly. I also have low self esteem and have had situations that just proved my point.
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There are different types of ugliness, but usually ugliness in one's personality is an ultimate red flag for me. even if they got a pretty face, no siree, i ain't dealin' with that crappy personality.
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Posted 8/5/15
It's easier to make myself down when I say I'm ugly rather than saying I am not satisfied with my looks. I kind of enjoy making myself down, whereas making others down just feels wrong. I wonder if that makes me a masochist.

Concerning ugly appearance and personality, I'd prefer hanging out with someone whose appearance is ugly. Personality is what I look for in a person who I want to be friends with, so I consider it to be a bonus if they look fabulous.
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Posted 8/5/15 , edited 8/5/15
Ah this topic is killin' my feels. I wish the low self esteem weren't such a pandemic around here!

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