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How do you stop the pain when your really hurt?
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Posted 2/6/08

Lonely-Goddess- wrote:

Ive been hurt quite a lot of times, and I always tell myself that I will never love again. But unfortunately, that never happens, after a few months or weeks, I fall for another guy, even if I don't intend to.
I wanna stop falling for jerks... no offence to the guys, kay? O_O

How can I stop myself? What should I do?

P.S. Dont say I should start dating girls..



If you wanna know what happened in my love life.. PM me.. and add me.. But, it's not pretty..

-= Sigh. =-


this response prolly isn't what you're looking for, but this kind of thing can't be helped. it's natural to fall in and out of love when you're young, and you can't stop yourself because it's a natural part of life (for most people). no one here can really give you any thoughtful and constructive advice because the fact is, we don't know who you really are. the only thing i can say right now is, don't try to avoid falling in love, because you will no matter what. and if it doesn't work out, cry until you can't cry any more. let your feelings out, and your friends will be there to support you.

as the old saying goes (i think), "it's better to have loved and lost than to not have loved at all"
and don't worry, true love will find you someday.
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well its up to you.If you can stop it or not.
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ptownboi, I like what you just said. Lonely, just add that to the end of my message and you're all set
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Im glad SimpleXl and I were able to help you out Lonely
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i was like you!

the solution is:

sell your soul to the devil (:

but seriously, don't fall so easily
and be glad when you do
just.. control ur feelings more
and don't be so weak
cuz it's kinda pathetic after a while
falling again and again and getting hurt right?
so remember to keep your pride & dignity
and let HIM be the one that chases you next time (:

besides loves not that impt,,
go out & have fun
and it'll eventually just come to you==v
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still shitload of mean people on Crunchyroll...

well I sent u a pm , hope i can help you out

and please stop with jerking, cause next time u are in trouble.. believe me u wont find someone to help you.. -.- crazy people
Posted 2/6/08
I know you're a bit young, but start thinking with your head more instead of your hormones, it works wonders. As for the pain sweetheart, grin and bear it theres more to come, that's just how life is.
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*Smiles back* Not a problem, Im glad to make you smile. And Im sure SimpleXl will agree that people need to show more kindness. Everyone has problems, they dont need people making it worse.

Edit: Im glad to see so many more nice people coming out to offer help! =)
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JpAnim4 wrote:

people need to show more kindness. Everyone has problems, they dont need people making it worse.



I agree with you.. its just pathetic taking joy of other people pain by humilating them and making fun of them.. thats just the worst

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You should not let that bother you that much. You fall for who you fall for. It is not something that you can really control. You try to resist, you just fall further and further. Everything will pull off at some point. Don't worry about it (:
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obigan wrote:


JpAnim4 wrote:

people need to show more kindness. Everyone has problems, they dont need people making it worse.



I agree with you.. its just pathetic taking joy of other people pain by humilating them and making fun of them.. thats just the worst



Yeah, instead of that they should help. Its much better than hurting.
Posted 2/6/08

RyosukeZ wrote:


x_elf wrote:

omg. people on crunchyroll doesn't help at all!!!
just cry it out. when i have problems, i just cry it out and sleep. the next mornning i was fine.


Just go to sleep. Nothing else, And it will recover.


crying all the problems help too. sleeping just lets you rest and stuff O.O

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obigan wrote:

still shitload of mean people on Crunchyroll...

well I sent u a pm , hope i can help you out

and please stop with jerking, cause next time u are in trouble.. believe me u wont find someone to help you.. -.- crazy people


ummmmmmmmmmm .. yeah ..... if thats YOUR picture .....you seem pretty high .......i wouldnt give advise if I was in your place ...
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Wow guys.. >__>; These are just SOOOO helpful, right? x]

ANYWAYS. I know it hurts, but you just always have to keep on looking forward ^-^ Everyone has good points about them, not ALL of them are jerks.

I think you should just keep on looking and don't give up on love because if you give up now, the lonelier you'll be )`:
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x__candiess wrote:

Wow guys.. >__>; These are just SOOOO helpful, right? x]

ANYWAYS. I know it hurts, but you just always have to keep on looking forward ^-^ Everyone has good points about them, not ALL of them are jerks.

I think you should just keep on looking and don't give up on love because if you give up now, the lonelier you'll be )`:


i bet you're still looking
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