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What was your experience like when you lost your virginity?
Posted 8/18/15 , edited 8/18/15
This thread is not for virgins, I'm sorry.

Well, here's my sordid tale.

I was 18, and had known this guy for a while. He was older, close to 30 but we were friends because we had a lot in common and he was funny, smart and kind - the type of person in general I always liked. I knew that he had way more than "friendship" feelings for me, and I wasn't sure if I liked him more than a friend or not. So, because I was an idiot, I ended up sleeping with him in the most cliche setting - back of a pick-up truck, under the stars, early fall night. Oh boy.

It was one of the worst decisions of my life. Not only was I pretty bored throughout and couldn't see what all the fuss was (still don't see what the fuss is), I also realized that I didn't like him more than a friend at all. This act of course, ruined our friendship very quickly and he hated me for not liking him back, feeling that I used him when really, I was just a confused, foolish idiot.

We haven't spoken since and what I regret most of all is losing a truly great friend.

Man...fuck that.
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Posted 8/18/15
Too long ago to remember lol
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horrible; she was the most BORING person in bed.. I think I broke up with her shortly after because it was such a shitty experience. The thing was, she wasn't a virgin and yet I somehow knew more about sex and what to do to let her have a great time and she was selfish as all hell. In the past 5 years of my life, I have never been with such a boring partner since. aren't first times supposed to magical? I didn't feel like I accomplished anything.
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Posted 8/18/15 , edited 9/15/15
Yeah, damn, this thread really isn't for virgins is it. >.>
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Posted 8/18/15 , edited 8/18/15
You want me to go back 20+ years? Damn... well long story short it was so so compared to everything I've had since. Not sure what all the hoopla is about for virgins these days but I'll take a more mature woman who knows what to do than a virgin with no experience. A tight body will only get you so far you know...
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Posted 8/18/15
Pretty wild
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Posted 8/18/15 , edited 9/14/15
mabe ill find out in another 28 years lol
Posted 8/18/15 , edited 8/18/15
Mine was boring....it wasn't like everybody said it was, no big deal. It's actually one of those memories I wish I could erase from my mind forever. on top of it, the guy wanted to have sex everyday, I often had to lie about having the period because I didn't feel like doing it....sex is something you should enjoy and not something you see as a task. My first time/first guy was boring as hell it almost made me hate sex lol
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Posted 8/18/15 , edited 8/19/15
It was ok, as I can recall from all that drunkenness.
Posted 8/18/15

AzazelOfNexium wrote:

horrible; she was the most BORING person in bed.. I think I broke up with her shortly after because it was such a shitty experience. The thing was, she wasn't a virgin and yet I somehow knew more about sex and what to do to let her have a great time and she was selfish as all hell. In the past 5 years of my life, I have never been with such a boring partner since. aren't first times supposed to magical? I didn't feel like I accomplished anything.


She sounds like a real keeper.
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Posted 8/18/15 , edited 9/15/15
I'll let you know when it happens.
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Posted 8/18/15 , edited 8/18/15
It was okay, I guess. I don't think your first time is supposed to be good, or even sexy - especially if you're a woman. I don't think my experience was that bad though, my friend had worse. I had my first time in a threesome, actually... I recommend it, because having another woman there who knows what you're going through is really nice.

I think because of that it didn't hurt that badly for me. My friend told me this horror story about how the guy wasn't gentle with her at all so it really hurt. To add insult to injury, he said some pretty insensitive things to her about her technique too. I was much happier having the experience I had then going through what she must have gone through.
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Posted 8/18/15 , edited 8/19/15
It was degenerate and I still regret it to this day.
Posted 8/18/15
>_> was .. yeah. boring
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Posted 8/18/15
I'm going to continue telling myself that I have no memory of it, in the hopes that one day I really do forget.

Though in all seriousness it was just pure lmao. So bad. Much mistake. Not wow.
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