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What was your experience like when you lost your virginity?
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Posted 8/19/15

Drkhao wrote:

It took me forever to even get to a point with talking about it to my respective partners, but nah being alone works out well too. Idk, I think it's interesting how your sub conscious reacts even when you seem mentally okay with it. Repressed feelings and such.

Totally didn't mean to throw this into a tangent tho! My bad.


When my husband first kissed me it was a huge deal that for some reason, I was finally okay with it. A previous boyfriend had asked if he could kiss me, and then upon saying no, he tried anyway so I hit him with my umbrella. With my husband, he just leaned over and for some reason, it was finally okay. I felt for the first time in a while that I could give up my control of the situation because I trusted him on an instinctual level. I think you can meet someone like this too.


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I think you sound like a woman with incredible morale fiber from your posts and poll results. Your husband is a lucky man btw I do construction so my hands are rough and I wear steel toe boots lololol

All good points for excitement levels biting drawing blood dosing someone talk about a turn off no thanks all weak attempts at excitement in my humble opinion


Aw, thanks! I find your polls very interesting, they really make you think.
Men with rough hands and rough boots are the best, I'm surprised you don't have lots of good women throwing themselves at you. I'll give you a tip: if you do something domestic like cooking dinner or washing dishes, it's even better! Only manly men don't care about their tough image, which ironically makes them more manly.

I totally agree though - when did sex become so boring that people had to start biting each other? It's one thing if the person is into pain play, but it makes me sad to think that there might be people who do it because it's pop culture when they don't even enjoy it (nor take the proper precautions). As for the dosing, that's just scary stuff.


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Oh I see :). Well we spoke in PMs too, but you know, I'm sure you talk to lots of people and you forgot (btw how is Ef? :D).

I'm glad you told your friends about it. Keeping it to yourself if it was a little shocking, kinda is harder to become comfortable with without peer support.



I remember you recommended Ef to me, it made me very happy because I was looking for something like it at the time (I'll write to you about that elsewhere). Telling my friends wasn't really that difficult since they're really good people and they know better than to judge things at surface value.


MonologueWolf wrote:

People with lots of experience who'd judge other people with lots of experience would just be pure hypocrisy. It isn't so much being "pure" but a guy/girl with no experience wouldn't want to take the chance to catch something on their first time from someone who's had multiple partners. But that's just my view of it, others might see it differently.


If you're worried, it's okay to ask your sexual partner to get tested before you get down to it. I don't know if this is the case for you, but it's also good to set some ground rules about protection during certain acts. As they say: "If you're not old enough to talk frankly with your partner about sex, then you're not old enough to have it."
Posted 8/19/15

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anzn wrote:

I doubt that knowing that 50 shades of gray was originally a twilight fanfic.


The whole biting thing from Twilight was pretty awful too. Giving someone a hickey (sp?) is one thing, but biting their neck so hard that you leave marks or they bleed sounds like an excellent way to get an infection.

Lol ikr. But people like that stuff. Its their fault if they ever get foolish about it & get an infection.
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Getting tested is a must last time we made it into a date was kinda fun because I knew I was getting sex that night lolol. Sad reaity in todays age condoms are also a must in my humble opinion to many variables in todays landscape not easy being single. I am also taking a cooking class to increase my appeal lolol
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I grew up in a nudest colony, and I was not very sociable, so I spent a lot of time by myself. There was a secluded spot in the colony where I went to think, and when the hormones kicked in I started pleasuring myself there also. One day, I had just started the process, when this girl came out of nowhere and "mounted" me. I didn't last very long, and after that I helped her pleasure herself. When it was done, she kissed me and said "Next time, we'll do it the right way". I never saw her again, I don't even know who she was.
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First time was in college with a girl I knew for awhile. I was clumsy and awkward and so nervous I had...err...issues
But she was nice and patient (she was an experienced girl) and she told me what she wanted. Doubt it was all that great for her but for me it was quite memorable. We even dated for awhile after but she broke up with me to go back to another guy she had been dating. No hard feelings though, cleanest breakup I've had.
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anzn wrote:

Lol ikr. But people like that stuff. Its their fault if they ever get foolish about it & get an infection.


It's the same as piercings, really. Some people look after them and keep them clean, and other people let them get infected. At least with piercings and tattoos the place usually gives you care instructions, unlike the Twilight books.


scoobydew wrote:

Getting tested is a must last time we made it into a date was kinda fun because I knew I was getting sex that night lolol. Sad reaity in todays age condoms are also a must in my humble opinion to many variables in todays landscape not easy being single. I am also taking a cooking class to increase my appeal lolol


Those kinds of dates are the best, since you can enjoy yourself thoroughly afterwards. It's a wonder more people don't do it.
I am definitely in the "use everything that you can" camp. Condoms combined with properly taken birth control pills seem like the dream team to me.
Uh oh, a cooking class? Be careful you don't end up with a harem.


Timmn wrote:

I grew up in a nudest colony, and I was not very sociable, so I spent a lot of time by myself. There was a secluded spot in the colony where I went to think, and when the hormones kicked in I started pleasuring myself there also. One day, I had just started the process, when this girl came out of nowhere and "mounted" me. I didn't last very long, and after that I helped her pleasure herself. When it was done, she kissed me and said "Next time, we'll do it the right way". I never saw her again, I don't even know who she was.


Whoa. That's like almost exactly the story of how Mokuren was born in the Please Save My Earth manga.
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My first time? ...
Oh jeez..

I had just moved into my first place.

So first off, it was terrible. I'm highly over it tho. I was like 19 she was visiting from another country. We had talked several times before, kicked it off pretty well. Anyways, things got hot and heavy with kissing. I ended up feeling really light headed and drowsy. Turns out she had laced my drink with something. Anyways, she ended up on top of me, and forced herself on me. I don't really need to explain the rest.. I mean I'd be more then happy too if someone wanted to PM and ask but not here. Lol.

Also when I finally came too I had this awful bite mark...
Should also mention that she thought it was everyone's fantasy..

Interestingly enough because I was too much of a man to admit what had happened... She stayed at my house for several weeks. To this day.. It takes me forever to get comfortable with anyone.. intimate touches feel like razor blades on my skin.


Glad you feel okay man. Thats horrific.
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Around 11 or 12 years old I think. This girl was older than me and well she kind of bat crazy. I mean she accuse a lot people of trying to rape her. Even her own dad or step dad. I try to remember what happen during and after the sex. But all I get is a blank memory of the events. And I also get this embarrassing feeling in my face. To the point I put my hands in my face and can't look anybody. I think something bad happen around that time to me but can't see to remember what it is.



Thats messed up that girl should be locked up.
Posted 8/19/15

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KarenAraragi wrote:

Around 11 or 12 years old I think. This girl was older than me and well she kind of bat crazy. I mean she accuse a lot people of trying to rape her. Even her own dad or step dad. I try to remember what happen during and after the sex. But all I get is a blank memory of the events. And I also get this embarrassing feeling in my face. To the point I put my hands in my face and can't look anybody. I think something bad happen around that time to me but can't see to remember what it is.



Thats messed up that girl should be locked up.


To late for that. She marry and has children.
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megahobbit wrote:


KarenAraragi wrote:

Around 11 or 12 years old I think. This girl was older than me and well she kind of bat crazy. I mean she accuse a lot people of trying to rape her. Even her own dad or step dad. I try to remember what happen during and after the sex. But all I get is a blank memory of the events. And I also get this embarrassing feeling in my face. To the point I put my hands in my face and can't look anybody. I think something bad happen around that time to me but can't see to remember what it is.



Thats messed up that girl should be locked up.


To late for that. She marry and has children.


God help that man, whoever he may be. Then again, he's probably asking for it by marrying someone like her.
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I don't think he know her true colors. She like a Yandere. Piss her off and you will see her dark side.
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Not awful but not great. Still fun but sort of like the way that pizza still tastes good even when it is cold. It was with my first girlfriend on some random Valentine's Day in my room and it was the first time for both of us. We eventually drifted apart since it wasn't a very serious or sensible relationship. It was my longest relationship at 1.5 years or so, but meh. The pregnancy scare was horrible, though. She didn't have a period for like four months. She was always irregular but the timing of it was bad.
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I don't think he know her true colors. She like a Yandere. Piss her off and you will see her dark side.


Hopefully he divorces her ass and takes the kids.
Posted 8/19/15

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KarenAraragi wrote:



I don't think he know her true colors. She like a Yandere. Piss her off and you will see her dark side.


Hopefully he divorces her ass and takes the kids.


I don't see that happening any time soon. It has been years since they marry.
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I pretty much practice celibacy at this point., so I wont ever be losing it. It's not for religious reasons or to feel pure or anything like that though. It's just a personal choice.
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