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As a woman, I feel the most clear way to communicate that you are interested in having sex is to ask if he has a condom.

I don't think there is such a thing as a non-verbal cue that works for every woman.
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Kitahoshi_Hazel wrote:

As a woman, I feel the most clear way to communicate that you are interested in having sex is to ask if he has a condom.

I don't think there is such a thing as a non-verbal cue that works for every woman.


The passion in the kisses was always my biggest cue, but I've only had a serious relationship with a handful of women. I found one I loved and married her. I can always tell her mood by how she kisses.



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I have no idea but I imagine it's something like this


ahahahah I just died
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LMAO These netflix/hulu/youtube jokes are the first I'm hearing this WTF?



Kitahoshi_Hazel wrote:

As a woman, I feel the most clear way to communicate that you are interested in having sex is to ask if he has a condom.

I don't think there is such a thing as a non-verbal cue that works for every woman.


I always suspected that nonverbal signals were a myth and you proved me correct





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It's been my experience that waiting for some sort of cue doesn't get you laid. You really have to steer that boat towards it's destination, or watch the opportunity sail off into the horizon.
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I'd say it would be very foolish to try to use body language or non verbal cues as green light that you're getting sex. Body language can be very subjective and signs aren't universal. It's the same with using code words. Either your date or yourself is going to have to ask. If you look at a date as chore with the goal being sex then you may be setting yourself up for a disappointment. Enjoy your date from the first moment you meet.
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Mugen417 wrote:

LMAO These netflix/hulu/youtube jokes are the first I'm hearing this WTF?



Kitahoshi_Hazel wrote:

As a woman, I feel the most clear way to communicate that you are interested in having sex is to ask if he has a condom.

I don't think there is such a thing as a non-verbal cue that works for every woman.


I always suspected that nonverbal signals were a myth and you proved me correct






It's not exactly that they are a myth it's more there is no universal signal. Non verbal signals tend to be subconscious for the most part or at least you tend to just do them naturally and since every person is different their non verbal signals tend to vary. So if you don't want to be put into that akward spot where you go for it and that is not what she was going for then wait for a verbal que. At least unless you are already intimate with her and know what her exact nonverbal ques are.

As far as verbal ques they can sometimes be indirect but if you pay attention you'll notice when they come
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"Do you want to have sex"

"Yes"

Thats how you know.
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It wasn't a date, I was happening to visit a friend, and the very attractive woman living with her, known her for year now.. Oddly she was eating apple and look me into the eye and told me she love BJ...Friend of Mine and I look at each other.. She was giving me a hint that she like to give me one.. But I turn around and walk out of the room and went into living room where some people are..

Do I regret it.. Probably! :p If I was able to go back in time will I go though it? Probably not!

Answer to your question No, I'm not Gay and yes I love women.
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"Do you want to have sex"

"Yes"

Thats how you know.


Non-verbal cues tend to be iffy.

Just because the girl climbs in bed beside you ..... she might be cold.



On the other hand, her unbuckling your belt while she's kissing you is pretty much a green light.

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megahobbit wrote:

"Do you want to have sex"

"Yes"

Thats how you know.


I have to agree with this gentleman. <3
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Why don't you just, oh IDK, ask.
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When she gives you consent.
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I mean, it's apparently what a lot of girls on Crunchyroll want by reading this thread



so he's in the perfect place to try ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
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When I was in HS people would say "When in doubt, whip it out". I mean I wouldn't advice it but.....
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