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What are some clear signs you have to end a friendship? I know it will be subjective to what another person will tolerate, but I just wondered what some clear signs are that you will know when it is time to just call it quits with "that" friend.

For me one sign is ..It is their way or no way.

Another is they suddenly remember you're around when they break up with their romantic partner and "need" you to fill in the gaps left by that now non existent romance...until they are in another romance...then it's bye bye again.

They don't notice when they have hurt your feelings or don't care because they are a narcissist.

What are some signs for you? Stories are okay to share too.
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When they start doing drugs or drink a lot, and try to pull you down into their "ecstatic" world?

When they say something like, "I have decided never to watch anime or read manga again!!!!!"

When they ditch you for "better" friends often, and only hang out with you when they have no other choice.

When you're nothing but a tool to help them with hw, rides, etc.

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"You're a bad friend."

It's like alright. Fuck off with yah then.



I dumped both 'friends' that continuously tried to convince me I was a bad friend and person because they were frustrated by a lack of 'closeness'. Oh yeah you want my trust? Getting mad at me is a great way to do it!

Fucking idiots.

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Being in a friendship is usually a sign that I should end it 90% of the time for me.
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When they talk crap behind my back, or they simply just use me. Sometimes they get into a bad influence and try to bring me into it. If someone constantly makes me feel uncomfortable, I'll end it. OH YEAH. Honesty is a big one for me. If you're not honest, get out.
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Buckerss wrote:

Being in a friendship is usually a sign that I should end it 90% of the time for me.


^

no seriously though. When you're used to not having friends, and if suddenly you meet people who are suddenly your friends in a short period of time, it's almost always too good to be true and they must have some ulterior motive or things might just be crashing soon.
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A full clip emptied at you.
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As long as you don't do stuff like steal from me or w.e, I'll put up with most shit.
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I put up with most of peoples stupidity I have all kinds of friends but the ones I trust the most are the ones that keep the constant flow with me and even if we dont talk for years for reasons we step right back into place when together. My closest friends are the ones I fight with the most but then when we recover from the fight we go back to normal. Those kinds of friends are more family at that point than friends.
Posted 8/29/15 , edited 8/29/15
For me, it depends on who is a true friend and what makes a true friend. You have to also check what it is about you that they must like, if you're just a nice friend... you don't leave much of an impression. Being understanding.. etc..

A bad friend would be someone who steals your gf or if you have a hot gf, acts close to you and waits for you two to break up so they can get with your ex.
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A full clip emptied at you.


Just wait for the PING and return fire.
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When you don't like what they're doing, or doing to you, or you start to no longer trust each other & become more distant.

Had to learn this the hard way.
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VZ68 wrote:


pirththee wrote:

A full clip emptied at you.


Just wait for the PING and return fire.


Any of my friends that would empty a full clip and doesn't waste my sorry ass is no friend of mine.
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When you no longer enjoy their company, or when they intentionally do something that has a negative effect on you.

Most of my ended friendships were because of the former. Changing interests and priorities will cut friends out of your life more than anything else, but this kind of separation doesn't tend to be hostile, or ill-willed at all, really. It's just the natural course of things.

I've had one friend screw me over before by bailing early on an apartment lease. Left my brother and I to do all the cleanup before vacating the place; it was a huge hassle. I was not pleased.
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Friendship needs to end if you not feeling comfortable in their company. Other signs thing are going south might be they don't return your texts or calls. Arguing for no apparent reason your the outlet of their anger and frustration
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