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When love becomes miserable
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isn't it just when the relationship becomes a routine.. well not that but its when you realise its a routine.. thats when your too used to the relationship..
with out sadness there would be no happiness right? so if your too used to what ever was making you so happy int he first place.. it begins to grow dull and you lose interest but the real fear that makes you miserable is that you are scared of hurting ur partner.. or just care too much about their happiness that you'd rather put yours on hold.. but that'd only last so long..
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when they stop listening to how much their heart loves you and they start listening to what others think about you
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so it girl fault or man fault???
Posted 7/4/07
when you dont want to be with someone and yet you cant leave them. when its one sided. when you feel pity for the other person and dont want to hurt them, thats pretty miserable right there
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when you stay in the relationship because of familiarity and comfort...you may love the person but its not the romantic love, more of a family/friend love if you catch my drift

when you find yourself asking what makes you love this person, and why you are still with them...

sometimes people fall out of love.
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but, what is love? answer me that
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^ there is an infinite number of topics on love already. Don't encourage another one.

I don't want to get off topic, but I don't really believe in love, so I can't say how the non-existant can become miserable...
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^^ lol well.. if love can only be proven by the absence of happiness.. then i suppose no wait.. i just confused myself... (like you i don't really believe in it either) but like its not love that makes u miserable.. it is simply the absence of it.. when you slowly realise that it isn't there anymore
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chilli123 wrote:

^^ lol well.. if love can only be proven by the absence of happiness.. then i suppose no wait.. i just confused myself... (like you i don't really believe in it either) but like its not love that makes u miserable.. it is simply the absence of it.. when you slowly realise that it isn't there anymore


u think that there is no miserable in love

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Well seeing that people talk so much of love why dont they just define it.
People need to recognize that its just a weakness.
For those who surround them selfs with in happiness, they are in true denial and wont express their disposition. Speak only what you feel and that might just cure the misery.
I cant really give a more appropriate response. Only because its not phrased correctly.
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Posted 7/4/07
.....when a couple have too much debts to pay.
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Posted 7/4/07

hayaaaty wrote:


chilli123 wrote:

^^ lol well.. if love can only be proven by the absence of happiness.. then i suppose no wait.. i just confused myself... (like you i don't really believe in it either) but like its not love that makes u miserable.. it is simply the absence of it.. when you slowly realise that it isn't there anymore


u think that there is no miserable in love



not exactly..just that don't we feel sad when we lose the thing thats keeping us happy?
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hayaaaty wrote:

i want to know when the love becomes miserable??


http://www.drphil.com
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^ LOL
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haha exactly. end of discussion.
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