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Posted 8/31/15
No one can tell you that you're too ''feminine'' or 'masculine''' and if they do punch them
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ignitingmemories wrote:

No one can tell you that you're too ''feminine'' or 'masculine''' and if they do punch them


Reacting to their statement at all is giving them power over you. It's best to ignore the opinions of fools.

Posted 8/31/15

Reacting to their statement at all is giving them power over you. It's best to ignore the opinions of fools.





not really. thats all i hear people say is ignore
you can only ignore to an extent duh
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have we finally reached the age where its cool for a guy to shave his arms and legs? cuz I got my razor and cream ready.

I already shave my pits, I hate that hair, I already dislike body hair.
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have we finally reached the age where its cool for a guy to shave his arms and legs? cuz I got my razor and cream ready.

I already shave my pits, I hate that hair, I already dislike body hair.


If it makes you happy, go for it.
Posted 8/31/15

pandrasb wrote:

have we finally reached the age where its cool for a guy to shave his arms and legs? cuz I got my razor and cream ready.

I already shave my pits, I hate that hair, I already dislike body hair.


thought i was the only one
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pandrasb wrote:

have we finally reached the age where its cool for a guy to shave his arms and legs? cuz I got my razor and cream ready.

I already shave my pits, I hate that hair, I already dislike body hair.


I mean it would make me feel better naturally having no armpit hair and light leg/arm hair if guys started shaving. I say do it!
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Posted 8/31/15 , edited 8/31/15

ignitingmemories wrote:

not really. thats all i hear people say is ignore
you can only ignore to an extent duh


I used to feel the same way. I got over it.
Fighting never solved my problems.

Posted 8/31/15 , edited 8/31/15
It's easy for me to see were different people are coming from but i don't like to be affected by it. People's ideas can be poisonous and it's better for me to not get attached to any ideals. For one thing, I've experienced a lot of different countries and personalities but people with moderate views and whose actions are not extreme in any way always tend to leave the best impression.
Posted 8/31/15
Masculine women = tomboy they're actually popular but a feminine guy=pussy/faggot

I don't mind feminine men, everyone can do whatever they want because it's none of my business but it's kind of unfair how society perceives both groups.
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Posted 8/31/15
Personally, I have all the best masculine and feminine traits. Not sure why anyone settles for less.
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Posted 8/31/15

Kitahoshi_Hazel wrote:


Dabossman26 wrote:

TL:DR is there anything wrong with men being feminine or women being masculine?


Nope. Between my husband and myself, I'd say we're both pretty fluid when it comes to gender because 'masculine' and 'feminine' can mean whatever the individual wants them to mean based on their culture and preferences. Just be yourself and do what feels right to you.


Dabossman26 wrote:
So he was bullied for being a hygenic human being??? Like i don't want to smell like trash and having armpit hair makes BO smell terrible! XD


My husband has armpit hair and he never smells bad. It has a lot to do with the fact that he showers everyday, and if smell were an issue, why not use shampoo? Hair is hair, right? He doesn't like shaving because it gets itchy and can cause ingrown hairs, so I don't blame him.


It varies from person to person but people usually don't smell as good when they have more hair. Someone who smokes smells like smoke because it's in their hair, clothes, and breath. Shampoo works but (going off of personal experience) if i forget to put on deodorant with armpit hair, it smells terrible. Without armpit hair, it's a little more bearable...

People can do what they want with their body hair. I'm not gonna force anyone to do anything, but I'm personally going to shave. I don't personally face the issues your husband has to deal with so it isn't a problem for me.
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There is actually a natural phenomenon related to this :

When an organism act differently from similar organisms in its environment, there are chances that communication can become harder if not impossible. And the main reason for communication to exist is actually to find the best potential mate for survival.

This is why people who think "A boy acting like a girl or a girl acting like a boy will be thrown out of society" actually think it because their own survival sense tells them that from their own communications, that's closer to self-destruction than acting straight at all time. (I'm not writing about being gay, but only about acting. Being gay is actually pushing this survival sense to even higher alert mode for those people.)

It's part of our natural behaviour registered in our genes. It's nothing like "Being gay or acting similar to the other gender is not natural", but more toward something as simple as "Being different from majority = Less chance of survival".
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Posted 8/31/15 , edited 8/31/15

Kitahoshi_Hazel wrote:


pandrasb wrote:

have we finally reached the age where its cool for a guy to shave his arms and legs? cuz I got my razor and cream ready.

I already shave my pits, I hate that hair, I already dislike body hair.


If it makes you happy, go for it.





ignitingmemories wrote:


pandrasb wrote:

have we finally reached the age where its cool for a guy to shave his arms and legs? cuz I got my razor and cream ready.

I already shave my pits, I hate that hair, I already dislike body hair.


thought i was the only one





Irishsushi wrote:


pandrasb wrote:

have we finally reached the age where its cool for a guy to shave his arms and legs? cuz I got my razor and cream ready.

I already shave my pits, I hate that hair, I already dislike body hair.


I mean it would make me feel better naturally having no armpit hair and light leg/arm hair if guys started shaving. I say do it!


Totally will now, thanks guys
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Posted 8/31/15

Dabossman26 wrote:

It varies from person to person but people usually don't smell as good when they have more hair. Someone who smokes smells like smoke because it's in their hair, clothes, and breath. Shampoo works but (going off of personal experience) if i forget to put on deodorant with armpit hair, it smells terrible. Without armpit hair, it's a little more bearable...

People can do what they want with their body hair. I'm not gonna force anyone to do anything, but I'm personally going to shave. I don't personally face the issues your husband has to deal with so it isn't a problem for me.


Yeah, I'm allergic to cigarette and marijuana smoke so he wouldn't be my husband if he did those things, lol. He only ever smells like his workplace, and then he showers when he gets home, so he never smells like much of anything at all. Maybe he sweats less because he doesn't have a lot of body fat. I sweat more than he does, so it would make sense.
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