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Posted 9/3/15 , edited 9/3/15

Ssomething wrote:

I like being forever alone. ^_^ why?

1. I'm a perfectionist.

2. I have very high standards that are hardly met by most guys these days. Some people tell me to lower my standards but I'm like 'hell no'.

3. I'm the kind of person who likes one person today and gets bored with them by tomorrow. I don't fall in love. I hate to admit it but this is always true....my brother is the same (he says he changes women like he changes underwear and he gets bored with them fast that's why he will never marry). We got it from our father who never realized his problem and got married like 4 times and has kids everywhere...I have like 10 step brothers/sisters and probably more

4. I'm 100% independent, an introvert, kind of anti-social and a Taurus. We like our space, love to have things our own way and hate clingy people (in my case, at least).

5. I'm not romantic at all, so I'll not get easily impressed. You can be smart but if you're arrogant you're dead to me. More important, if you have no ambition in life and respect for animals you better stay away from me by 1000 miles.

Needless to say, I stopped dating when I was 15 and only have one night stands with guys that meet certain standards.

I think that's all... btw, I'm not proud to be this way, I often get jealous of lovely dovey couples because I can't be like that and you always want what you can't have.



Gee you sound pleasant
Posted 9/3/15

biscuitnote wrote:


Gee you sound pleasant


I'm only that way when it comes to romance
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Ssomething wrote:


biscuitnote wrote:


Gee you sound pleasant


I'm only that way when it comes to romance


Irl I suck at talking to women I am going to have to resort to legal prostitution soon to get my rocks off.
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Damn! Seems like there are so many people with self esteem issues on here.
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Posted 9/3/15

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Nalaniel wrote:

I am ugly, don't know how to do anything but play LoL and watch anime and I'm too lazy to make something out of my life.


Simple Play LoL -> Get rich off of it -> sleep and play LoL and watch anime repeat


Unfortunately, I'm not Korean.
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Posted 9/3/15

Eviltwinkee wrote:

Damn! Seems like there are so many people with self esteem issues on here.


Well that happens when people treat you like an outcast your whole life
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AwkwardlyMikki87 wrote:

Because, no one wants to deal with someone who is permanently disabled.


This makes me cringe when I read it. I feel like I want to help you and tell you they have meet ups in my area but how is that helping you I don't know how?
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Because I'm shy and quiet and guys in my classes are the exact opposite. This honestly wouldn't be a problem if they were nice people but they just don't treat people with any respect.
A few people have actually asked me out, but i said no, so it's my own fault i'm forever alone really.
But imagine trying to explain and introduce anime to a super judgmental boyfriend who thinks it' stupid in the first place!
I think i dodged a few bullets by not getting together with anyone yet.
Posted 9/3/15 , edited 9/3/15
Gays aren't attracted to me, and I'm also feminine which is a big no no in the gay dating world.

Bi guys don't seem to mind my femininity, but ultimately, I think most of them want to be with a woman and start a family.
Or they want to be secretive and treat me like a side chick, and I don't want to be nobody's concubine, this isn't China 1689.

It's not like I'm out of options though, lots of older men want to court me, but I don't like them. It feels weird to date someone my dad's age... it feels like I'm dating my dad... even if he's of a different race....




And one time, I turned down a date because he is bald (involuntarily)... I still feel bad, because looking back, he seemed like the most genuine guy I've ever met. But oh well. I'm meant to be alone...


I don't think I have the personality for dating anyway... I get bored of things fast. I only want something if I don't have it, once I've obtained it... I tend to forsake that thing.
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Posted 9/3/15
No one is meant to be forever alone,it just takes longer for someone to find that someone!
Posted 9/3/15
There's actually some true evidence that holding this desperate and angsty attitude toward love is unattractive and repels mates.
Posted 9/3/15 , edited 9/3/15

biscuitnote wrote:


Irl I suck at talking to women I am going to have to resort to legal prostitution soon to get my rocks off.



lmao xD there's no shame in that so good luck!


For other people I believe love exists and that everyone has that special someone somewhere(except myself because I chose to be this way).

From what I have seen (not really an expert about it) If you're shy then you only need an extrovert or someone who is able to break your comfort zone. I find that extroverts and introverts usually get along because opposites attract and you don't need to be a good talker to have chemistry with another person.

I found this interesting post for everyone who is shy and a bad talker:

http://psych2go.me/post/127756413952/various-helpful-videos-about-relationships-love




GayAsianBoy wrote:

Gays aren't attracted to me, and I'm also feminine which is a big no no in the gay dating world.

Bi guys don't seem to mind my femininity, but ultimately, I think most of them want to be with a woman and start a family.
Or they want to be secretive and treat me like a side chick, and I don't want to be nobody's concubine, this isn't China 1689.

It's not like I'm out of options though, lots of older men want to court me, but I don't like them. It feels weird to date someone my dad's age... it feels like I'm dating my dad... even if he's of a different race....




And one time, I turned down a date because he is bald (involuntarily)... I still feel bad, because looking back, he seemed like the most genuine guy I've ever met. But oh well. I'm meant to be alone...


I don't think I have the personality for dating anyway... I get bored of things fast. I only want something if I don't have it, once I've obtained it... I tend to forsake that thing.


I feel you! I "suffer" from the same problem

I didn't know that feminine guys are a big no in the gay dating world o_o interesting...
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Posted 9/3/15
I don't like the idea of sex
Having someone's privates near my face would freak me out
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Posted 9/3/15
Because I'm ugly as fuck. That's about it.
Posted 9/3/15 , edited 9/3/15
My fortune changed when i grew up lol. I swear i had intimidating good looks when i was younger, i was the type of kid you followed as they walk home. So i guess i don't really mind being single and i don't think i can be bothered to have any relationships with anyone i'm not 100% sure to like
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