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By the time I hit college I was 50/50 with asking girls/women out. I'd say my worst was a 5/10 (I'm sorry and walking away without as much as an excuse or explanation). After that I stopped asking and just let things take their course. It helps a lot relieving the stress n both sides of the coin when you're hanging with someone and she asks "are we going out?" and you just answer "do you wanna be?". With a yes you say "me too", with a no "me neither" and all is well and good .
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Never been rejected well unless you count me tricking my friend into thinking i liked her and getting her to reject me for the fun of it (i love messing with this friends mind)

never xD
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Tehnery wrote:

I rather be rejected then be used...twice


Story of my fucking life (not exactly but cheaters.....fml)

Bitches be crazy friend ._.
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Posted 9/16/15 , edited 9/16/15

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Dariamus wrote:

You seem like a really nice girl, one day you'll meet the right guy



Aw thanks! I actually did. I rejected him too.



He stuck around though. We were just friends when I rejected him. He took it badly at the time. After that though we were best friends for years and then something more for years after. Still hoping we can make things work out.










...are you sure your life isn't the plot form the anime "My little monster"

Girl rejects guy
Girl falls for guy
guy rejects girl

they end up together...

That's what i got from your post xD
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Dariamus wrote:


HolyDrumstick wrote:


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How does anyone even get above a 1.... I rarely actually ask girls out but when I do get rejected it's always a 1 kind of excuse. But how the heck doesssomeone get more than that? I mean the only way I'm seeing is if you tried asking random girls for sex. or tried raping someone -_-


How have you not?

I've had more than one girl just look at me and say "Eww" when all I did was ask if they wanted to have coffee or something.


Never, but I never tried to date a girl I was not friends with.

Now, if your talking about picking up a random girl at the bar for a one night stand - I've been rejected harshly more than once, but there was no emotional involvement. /shrug and move on. Or just find a girl that takes cash; made things simpler and everyone knew what the expectations were. (When younger, I spent a lot of time in countries where prostitution was either legal or the laws were not enforced. Given how introverted I am, bar girls were my best answer. The woman of my choice for the evening, never a chance for rejection. I knew a few that were really sweet and always remembered my name.)




why would you date a girl your not friends with at first @_@
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...are you sure your life isn't the plot form the anime "My little monster"

Girl rejects guy
Girl falls for guy
guy rejects girl

they end up together...

That's what i got from your post xD


Almost, he never rejected me though

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Worst burn I ever got was after having about a 30-45 minute conversation with a girl I met at a little Irish pub. We had a ton in common. Liked a lot of the same music. Had the same favorite band as a matter of fact. Liked a lot of the same movies. She was into comic books and sports, etc. I thought I was hitting it off for sure so as I was finishing up I bluntly asked if I could call her sometime and take her out.

In an instant her entire attitude, posture and face changed to an almost angry and "how dare you" kind of look and feeling and she point blankly replied back "What makes you thin I would ever go out with you?"

Burn level = 11.

That still lingers in my mind to this day some 14 years later. Yes I remember when it was. and also I have been cheated on/used twice as well. It all sucks. but that comment itself still burns.
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It's definitely not worth putting yourself out there. Best case scenario, you get in a relationship but your life is still pretty much over.
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'let me think (one time I was heading to the bar there was but one stool left, it was by a girl so being a friendly person, I asked if I could sit there being its the only seat open.. She replied with "I DON'T KNOW YOU!!!! DON'T TALK TO ME!" I was thinking excuse me for wanting to sit down at the bar! What would you call that a 7 or 8? I don't even need to ask someone out to be rejected.
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Posted 9/16/15

PrinceJudar wrote:


Ryulightorb wrote:

...are you sure your life isn't the plot form the anime "My little monster"

Girl rejects guy
Girl falls for guy
guy rejects girl

they end up together...

That's what i got from your post xD


Almost, he never rejected me though




so you got together in the end and have a Happy end :D?
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so you got together in the end and have a Happy end :D?


Yeah basically, just crossing my fingers it works out and all that.

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so you got together in the end and have a Happy end :D?


Yeah basically, just crossing my fingers it works out and all that.



Don't hope believe! just believe!
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Worst burn I ever got was after having about a 30-45 minute conversation with a girl I met at a little Irish pub. We had a ton in common. Liked a lot of the same music. Had the same favorite band as a matter of fact. Liked a lot of the same movies. She was into comic books and sports, etc. I thought I was hitting it off for sure so as I was finishing up I bluntly asked if I could call her sometime and take her out.

In an instant her entire attitude, posture and face changed to an almost angry and "how dare you" kind of look and feeling and she point blankly replied back "What makes you thin I would ever go out with you?"

Burn level = 11.

That still lingers in my mind to this day some 14 years later. Yes I remember when it was. and also I have been cheated on/used twice as well. It all sucks. but that comment itself still burns.


Comments like this ^^^^^^^^^^^ are hard to shake confidence crushers why do woman suck so bad why?
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Yamstarch wrote:

Worst burn I ever got was after having about a 30-45 minute conversation with a girl I met at a little Irish pub. We had a ton in common. Liked a lot of the same music. Had the same favorite band as a matter of fact. Liked a lot of the same movies. She was into comic books and sports, etc. I thought I was hitting it off for sure so as I was finishing up I bluntly asked if I could call her sometime and take her out.

In an instant her entire attitude, posture and face changed to an almost angry and "how dare you" kind of look and feeling and she point blankly replied back "What makes you thin I would ever go out with you?"

Burn level = 11.

That still lingers in my mind to this day some 14 years later. Yes I remember when it was. and also I have been cheated on/used twice as well. It all sucks. but that comment itself still burns.


Comments like this ^^^^^^^^^^^ are hard to shake confidence crushers why do woman suck so bad why?


Yep. Probably why I tend to date younger/shier gals than myself. They tend to be less daring in the bitch department.

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Yamstarch wrote:


scoobydew wrote:


Yamstarch wrote:

Worst burn I ever got was after having about a 30-45 minute conversation with a girl I met at a little Irish pub. We had a ton in common. Liked a lot of the same music. Had the same favorite band as a matter of fact. Liked a lot of the same movies. She was into comic books and sports, etc. I thought I was hitting it off for sure so as I was finishing up I bluntly asked if I could call her sometime and take her out.

In an instant her entire attitude, posture and face changed to an almost angry and "how dare you" kind of look and feeling and she point blankly replied back "What makes you thin I would ever go out with you?"

Burn level = 11.

That still lingers in my mind to this day some 14 years later. Yes I remember when it was. and also I have been cheated on/used twice as well. It all sucks. but that comment itself still burns.


Comments like this ^^^^^^^^^^^ are hard to shake confidence crushers why do woman suck so bad why?


Yep. Probably why I tend to date younger/shier gals than myself. They tend to be less daring in the bitch department.



Younger is tough because she might not be all there in the head still immature but rocking solid body not really into tutoring on life these days dating sucks ass sometimes
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