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Post Reply Do you find dating multiple people at the same time an acceptable practice?
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Posted 6/23/16
If everybody is aware of it and they're fine with it I don't see a problem.

If they are keeping is a secret though that's cheating and that's not okay.
Posted 6/23/16 , edited 6/23/16
People should be able to do what they want if they're not hurting others. But dating multiple people doesn't usually work out in the end. Most people are too prone to feelings of jealously and possessiveness, so it isn't realistic to view dating multiple people as a healthy way to go about forming relationships.
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21 / Australia
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Posted 6/24/16
I don't like it.
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Posted 6/24/16
Well,if it worked in anime and manga.....
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Posted 6/24/16 , edited 6/24/16
Generally speaking, it's not a good thing to do, if only because it isn't exactly a date when more than just two people are going out. It's just another social event if many people are going out at the same time. But if someone tries to make it a date out of it, then it leads to quite a lot of problems more often than not. I just don't like the thought of it, but at long as it doesn't come across as cheating, then it should be alright if the realization that there are others is present.
Posted 6/24/16
It's not even dating at that point.

It completely devalues everything that commiting to a relationship should mean. This gets me really angry.
Posted 6/24/16
Not really for me but wouldn't judge anyone else.
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21 / M / U.S.A.
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Posted 6/24/16
Voted circumstancial. Reason being as long as it's mutual and everybody involved knows and accepts it.

Obviously, I'm against it if someone in the end feels like they've been had.
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Posted 6/24/16
As long as everyone in the said relationship are aware of all parties and consent to 'sharing' then sure...why not...but in a serious relationship (like a marriage) or if there are any 'secrets' being kept then...HELL the F'*** NO! That crossing into cheating and cheating is NEVER EVER acceptable. You're either with someone (legally or otherwise) or you're not, end of story.
Posted 6/24/16
No- I am about commitment not open marriage
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99 / F / In Your Heart
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Posted 6/24/16
That's terrible though.
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24 / M / TEXAS
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Posted 6/24/16 , edited 6/24/16
it just depends on the person personally, I wouldn't date multiple people at the same time. that just not my thing. However I do believe if someone going to do that, let the other people know that you're are dating multiple and set some rule and If all parties are aware of the situation and everyone consents then it should fine . However, if your getting serious with one then make sure you break up with the other people.
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Posted 6/30/16
polyamory sounds complicated and probably never works out well
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Posted 7/2/16
I guess if both people consent to dating multiple people then that's fine, but in my opinion, no no no.
Posted 7/2/16
No. I believe a relationship should be between two people. I know I'd rather have it that way.
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