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Post Reply Do you find dating multiple people at the same time an acceptable practice?
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Posted 7/3/16 , edited 7/4/16
If you are just dating then it's fine. Back in my day (ugh I fell old) this was a common thing. Dating more than one person allowed you to see who you were most compatible with. Once a "relationship" begins, then you commit to one individual
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Posted 7/3/16 , edited 7/4/16
I don't date anyone but I wanna try that. Sound interesting.
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Posted 7/5/16 , edited 7/5/16
If EVERYONE in the hypothetical Relationship scenario was Happy....NO; TRULY HAPPY....Then "Sure". However, if even ONE Person's feelings were of ANY sort of difference than the Others are displaying....Then "No".

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Posted 6/13/17 , edited 6/14/17
NO! in a relationship, you should be bloody loyal
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Posted 6/13/17 , edited 6/14/17
If everyone's happily consenting to it, sure. If it happens to be behind someone's back, you should be ashamed of yourself.
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Posted 6/13/17 , edited 6/14/17
Serious relationships are difficult in the best way. Most people have difficulty dealing with lots of emotion, but people can manage to be honest and intimate in a weird number of different ways. I think generally it is a no and a very harsh one, but...

I've been stuck in some really awkward "this one time at band camp" type scenes where relationship lines were...Like castles of sand built right next to one another. First wave from the rising tide and no one can tell where one border starts and another begins.

Due to a lot of energy medicine practice, coupled with lack of social graces, I tend to notice odd things in plethora.
That being said, my ability to get along with "dating" multiple people is draining on my mentality. (It also requires remembering a lot of things about their preferences, schedules, and likes/dislikes.)
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Posted 6/14/17 , edited 6/14/17
Imo, if you aren't going to stay loyal to who you like/love, might as well break it off because once the other person finds out, there's going to be so much distrust and drama..
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Posted 6/15/17 , edited 6/15/17
Doesn't really bother me all that much if others do it. I wouldn't be open to that personally though.
Posted 6/15/17 , edited 8/26/17
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Posted 6/15/17 , edited 6/15/17
I don't think I could do it myself, but for others if everyone is consensual to it I can't see how it would be a problem.
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Posted 6/15/17 , edited 6/16/17
i don't think i can handle that
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Posted 6/16/17 , edited 6/17/17
I don't personally (or will ever) do it, but I think if it's in a cheating situation then it's wrong, but if it is a polyamorous situation in which everyone understands and are perfectly fine with it, then it's okay (unless one wants a baby with a certain person, then I'd advise against it for the time being since the multiple lovers thing might make it confusing on who's baby is who's).
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Posted 6/18/17 , edited 6/18/17
I don't think dating multiple people is becoming more socially acceptable. I think it's becoming more popular to stay single and just get off with people when you need to.
Posted 6/18/17 , edited 6/19/17
No.
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Posted 6/20/17 , edited 6/21/17
no its cruel and people who do that deserve to live a lonely life
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