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Do you know that feeling when you have to text someone from your buddy list (Skype, a game, Steam, whatever) to talk to them? When they barely ever text you first, because they have a lot of friends they can hang out with and you're all by yourself. That unintentionally caused pain that eats on your soul until you've become but a mere shadow of your former self. Is it real or just a creation of imagination? I'm just a nobody looking for stories. Share your thoughts!

P.S I love vague, short titles. Do not be mad if I took five minutes of your life.
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I go days at a time without texting/calling people or receiving messages or calls. Sometimes I don't even check e-mails. Sometimes my internet sucks and I am not even online most of the time. I'm comfortable with this since I'm an introvert in every sense of the word, though. I'm more stressed out if there's a lot of communication going on with multiple people.

My good friends know that I'm like that and they know I'll still like them even if they don't talk to me for weeks. Even years, in some cases. I'm open to talk whenever but I don't mind when nobody says anything. My best friend made me a groomsman rather than his best man at his wedding since he knew I hated speeches. I wasn't offended by that. People who know me know how I am.
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Posted 9/23/15
Creation that I try to aviod.
Evil may take over to corrupt your mind.
keep working and it will go back to the shadows!
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Posted 9/23/15 , edited 9/23/15
What's it matter who texts who first?

I got a bunch of people that message me on Skype, for example, that I often forget to respond to some for a couple days. It's nothing personal, but I only got genuine friends I can count on one hand. I'm one of those dicks that always responds and doesn't normally start conversation because I like my small handful.

You just message them instead of worrying about it.

It works or it doesn't work. You won't know if yah sit there and fiddle with whether it will or not instead of just trying. At least then you'll know. If it's not working just try finding someone else.

If it's well warranted a friend will drop their shit to listen. Just as I would for people that aren't even my friends. Of course there's a difference between 'my dog shit in my room' and 'my girlfriend just broke up with me and I can't take this anymore' priority conversations.




Morbidhanson wrote:

I go days at a time without texting/calling people or receiving messages or calls. Sometimes I don't even check e-mails. Sometimes my internet sucks and I am not even online most of the time. I'm comfortable with this since I'm an introvert in every sense of the word, though. I'm more stressed out if there's a lot of communication going on with multiple people.

My good friends know that I'm like that and they know I'll still like them even if they don't talk to me for weeks. Even years, in some cases. I'm open to talk whenever but I don't mind when nobody says anything. My best friend made me a groomsman rather than his best man at his wedding since he knew I hated speeches. I wasn't offended by that. People who know me know how I am.


Geez oh mighty, you're the same as I am in that respect.

"Oh you texted me? Oh? A week ago? Shit, sorry, didn't notice."
Posted 9/23/15
I have trouble keeping in contact with people, because I'm too scared to start a conversation. It takes a lot of effort, and it's scary.
Posted 9/23/15
Lmao i used to feel this way when i was younger and played world of warcraft and sometimes my friends wouldn't log on for days or it would be the awkward ''whos going to start the conversation?'' and the same with girls ive dated lol it was like a deep void in your heart because all you wanted to do was talk to someone
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netdisorder wrote:

My chattiness usually depends on whether my few friends have a common game that more than just one of us wants to play at a given time. I used to have a lot of "online friends", but I've lost contact with them and now I mainly just play games with the few people I'm friends with irl.


Where can I buy those IRL friends you're talking about? eBay, right?
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My chattiness usually depends on whether my few friends have a common game that more than just one of us wants to play at a given time. I used to have a lot of "online friends", but I've lost contact with them and now I mainly just play games with the few people I'm friends with irl.

I have an online female "bestie" though that I've chatted/webcam/phonecall with almost every day for a few years now, so I never feel like I have nobody to talk to which is nice.
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Posted 9/23/15

Nalaniel wrote:


netdisorder wrote:

My chattiness usually depends on whether my few friends have a common game that more than just one of us wants to play at a given time. I used to have a lot of "online friends", but I've lost contact with them and now I mainly just play games with the few people I'm friends with irl.


Where can I buy those IRL friends you're talking about? eBay, right?


1 neighbor, 1 kid you were a dick to in 5th grade, 1 kid who bullied you in 6th-7th grade.
That will be $122.98 for my friends, good sir. Would you like a bag with that?
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Posted 9/23/15

netdisorder wrote:


Nalaniel wrote:


netdisorder wrote:

My chattiness usually depends on whether my few friends have a common game that more than just one of us wants to play at a given time. I used to have a lot of "online friends", but I've lost contact with them and now I mainly just play games with the few people I'm friends with irl.


Where can I buy those IRL friends you're talking about? eBay, right?


1 neighbor, 1 kid you were a dick to in 5th grade, 1 kid who bullied you in 6th-7th grade.
That will be $122.98 for my friends, good sir. Would you like a bag with that?


Ain't nobody got money for that. Being alone is a better alternative.
Posted 9/23/15
"That unintentionally caused pain that eats on your soul until you've become but a mere shadow of your former self. "

Bit dramatic, don't you think?
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Posted 9/23/15

severticas wrote:

"That unintentionally caused pain that eats on your soul until you've become but a mere shadow of your former self. "

Bit dramatic, don't you think?


I'm all for drama, baby.
Posted 9/23/15

Nalaniel wrote:


severticas wrote:

"That unintentionally caused pain that eats on your soul until you've become but a mere shadow of your former self. "

Bit dramatic, don't you think?


I'm all for drama, baby.


hahah. well, if your friend is pretty popular, i think you're better of calling them so they can tell you all about whatever drama they've been up to. then you have your stories and you can go on to bitch about them to your other friends. sorted. what do you think of this great plan? :J

unless.... you're texting this person because you have something to say other than what a fucken loner you are xD
Posted 9/23/15

haikinka wrote:

I have trouble keeping in contact with people, because I'm too scared to start a conversation. It takes a lot of effort, and it's scary.


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>tfw you're not Anthony Burch

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