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Can you date somebody who is narcissistic or possessive of you ?
Posted 9/28/15
So can you do it ? From 1 to 10 how strong is their f narcissistic or possessiveness of you, are you willing to tolerate ?

Do you find narcissistic or possessiveness attractive ? Or do you have a limit about how narcissistic or possessive somebody can be with you ?
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Posted 9/28/15
Narcissistic is a straight NO! Possessiveness depends on what her other traits are.

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Posted 9/28/15 , edited 9/29/15
Narcissistic people are usually really annoying to me, usually because they're nowhere near how good they are. When it comes to being possessive, there's a strict line you can't cross. If you're possessive to the point where it feels like I can't have friends, then it won't work out lol Also, I don't think you can rate narcissism, either way, it's a no.

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Posted 9/28/15
Not really, but I have those tendencies. (the narcissism comes from too much time by myself. It's not the "i'm so awesome" narcissism as much as it's the tendency to just focus on my own little world of experiences. The possessiveness? I just like to keep what's mine. BUUUUUUUT, I also tend to just let others live their lives... So maybe I'm not forward enough or possessive enough. :S )

I guess on a scale from 1-10, and 3 being the average person...... about a 3.
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Posted 9/28/15 , edited 9/28/15
We are all narcissistic to a point because we have only ever been ourselves and we will only ever be ourselves. So it just depends on how narcissistic they are. Oddly enough I'm attracted to possessive people even though they drive me crazy. Don't get me wrong I don't like them because they are possessive its just the people that I like tend to be possessive.
for narcissistic people 5 being normal I think I could deal with a 6.7 (because 6.7 just feels right)
for possessive people 5 being average I'm feeling a sole 7.5
Posted 9/28/15
Depends if she's aware of it and how far she's takes it. I could deal with a 6 just to experience something like that since I'm curious but I don't want to dwell into full on yandere territory. I think we all have aspects of wanting to possess or control someone but I think it's not necessary cause would you want to squeeze a baby or caress it? I view romantic relationships in a very similar way I don't want to be squeezed unless I know you have the ability to let go. Overall I would say most of the time I wouldn't date someone who was quite narcissistic or possessive, if I saw that those were traits they didn't want to work on I would just leave.
Posted 9/28/15 , edited 9/28/15
1 for narcissistic
2 for possessiveness
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Nope relationships are hard enough if you know this going in get off before train wrecks
Posted 9/28/15
FUCK NO! I'd kick someone like that out on her ass!
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Posted 9/28/15 , edited 9/28/15
1 for both because I refuse to deal those types of people; for example, I was at a Filipino party at my parent's house, and there were new guests. I introduced myself to the new guests and enjoyed conversations among them. There was one young Filipina (Girl) who was two years younger than me that took it to far by clinging onto me and looking into my eyes like I was "THE ONE AND ONLY ONE." I guess the conversations we had took it straight to the heart for her. The embarrassing moments were when my parents and friends saw what she was doing making me uncomfortable; however I laughed along keep the party atmosphere.
Anyways, when she went to the bathroom, I quickly left the party and told my friends to meet me at a local bar. I never saw her again. Thanks god.

This song perfectly describes my inner emotions during that time frame:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5FjWe31S_0g
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Posted 9/28/15
no.
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Depends if the good qualities outweighs those bad ones. My bf is kinda possessive and we fight a lot about it, but I guess we just had to compromise because his good qualities definitely outweighs his possessiveness so I guess I can tolerate I'd say I can tolerate til 8 maybe.... But narcissistic, idk probably 6 if he can at least admit his mistakes
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Posted 9/28/15 , edited 9/28/15
Narcissistic, no.

Possessive: I need to be needed. I married a very possessive woman and have never regretted it.

I would have little to worry about with a girlfriend like Yuno. I enjoy that level of attention from someone I love and, in return, I would never even dream of straying.
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Posted 9/28/15
I would never date someone who is a narcissist but I would like someone who is a little possessive, like around a 2. Not someone who wouldn't let me do anything out of jealousy cause that would suck
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