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Can you date somebody who is narcissistic or possessive of you ?
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Really its not about them. Its about you. Understand one thing... Your not going to change them. So what you see is what you get. If its bothering you now, then the irritation will continue growing and make you miserable. Some people don't mind or are excepting of the faults in their companions. We all have faults. To Err is human. But if it is something that really bothers you. Then you should end the relationship before wasting any more of your time. The only thing that happens if you prolong it, is to drag out your misery on something you cannot change. And time is finite and no one knows how much time they have less in this world. If you could see a timer that showed you had 6 weeks to live would you want to spend those 6 weeks in misery ? So you should not be asking what you should do from other people. You need to look inside of yourself then you will know what you need to do. Either you need to except it or you need to end it.

For me, I cannot stand either of those traits. Perhaps that why I do not stay in relationships for a very long time.

On a scale of 1 to 10
Both bother me about 10/10
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Narcissism would probably prompt warning sirens in my head to avoid that person, and I'd probably tolerate up to a maximum of 4/10. I wouldn't mind possessiveness, depending on how possessive they'd be. I'd accept up to a 6. A 7 would be pushing their luck, and an 8 would likely be my maximum.
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Dariamus wrote:

Narcissistic, no.

Possessive: I need to be needed. I married a very possessive woman and have never regretted it.

I would have little to worry about with a girlfriend like Yuno. I enjoy that level of attention from someone I love and, in return, I would never even dream of straying.


I just find this really quote worthy and I'm happy for you and your woman ~
i hardly ever meet guys with this way of thinking but i'm glad some still do exist XD
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I wouldn't really mind to be honest. Don't think either of those two qualities would annoy me in a woman hahaha
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That might be the problem with me now that I think about it....
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lol ew

this just gave me a throwback to all the stupid chicks in high school
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I cannit answer this question as you failed to mention whether the potential partner in question is either extremely attractive, or rich, or both.
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irnperf wrote: I hardly ever meet guys with this way of thinking but i'm glad some still do exist XD
what guys do you meet? also it really depends on location and how to interact since not all people like to be in contact but once you known them they are like a treat just have to crack that shell first! (so long you don't break anything execpt the shell..)

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I can't and won't date either of those types of people. When I was younger I dated someone that I realized a bit in was possessive and got jealous easily. I stayed with him for far too long, it was an awful experience. At least I learned from it though, relationships with people like that are really toxic.
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Not knowingly no. If I hadn't known before and it came out in the date, I'm leaving.
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KarenAraragi wrote:

So can you do it ? From 1 to 10 how strong is their f narcissistic or possessiveness of you, are you willing to tolerate ?

Do you find narcissistic or possessiveness attractive ? Or do you have a limit about how narcissistic or possessive somebody can be with you ?


Edward Cullen tho
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Posted 9/29/15

irnperf wrote:


Dariamus wrote:

Narcissistic, no.

Possessive: I need to be needed. I married a very possessive woman and have never regretted it.

I would have little to worry about with a girlfriend like Yuno. I enjoy that level of attention from someone I love and, in return, I would never even dream of straying.


I just find this really quote worthy and I'm happy for you and your woman ~
i hardly ever meet guys with this way of thinking but i'm glad some still do exist XD


they're everywhere......................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................

but can u handle the neeeeeeeeeeeeeeedineeeeeeeeeeeessssssss
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lambofgenesis wrote:

they're everywhere......................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................

but can u handle the neeeeeeeeeeeeeeedineeeeeeeeeeeessssssss

LoL

Is why I married a girl who is very possessive. Our personality quirks mesh well together.

She calls me every morning after I get to work, every day at lunch, and every evening on my commute home. I look forward to the calls

There was a period I was not able to be there for her. I went out to sea for a few months with no phone or e-mail access. She had a complete mental breakdown. I left the military to spend more time with her. I would like to think she is a lot more stable now than she was then. I've even encouraged her to go back to college. I'll be helping her with her math homework tonight


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thekevin4 wrote:

I cannit answer this question as you failed to mention whether the potential partner in question is either extremely attractive, or rich, or both.


WIN!!


Although I am not sure I could handle it, I like my personal space. Someone blowing up my phone constantly could be pretty difficult for me to deal with.
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thekevin4 wrote:

I cannit answer this question as you failed to mention whether the potential partner in question is either extremely attractive, or rich, or both.


WIN!!


Although I am not sure I could handle it, I like my personal space. Someone blowing up my phone constantly could be pretty difficult for me to deal with.

Neither wealth nor extreme beauty would make a relationship worthwhile for me.
If I don't like the person, I cannot be with them in any meaningful way.

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