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Can you date somebody who is narcissistic or possessive of you ?
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Narcissist? Ehhh, most likely no. Posessive? If they were a cute type of possessive, then sure, I would enjoy abusing that, but straight up Yandere? Uhhhh no, I would rather not have a crazy bitch with a knife after me......
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You don't date the narcissist, the narcissist dates you.
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trent8513 wrote:

Narcissist? Ehhh, most likely no. Posessive? If they were a cute type of possessive, then sure, I would enjoy abusing that, but straight up Yandere? Uhhhh no, I would rather not have a crazy bitch with a knife after me......


She'll only chase you with a knife if you do something wrong. As long as you're faithful to her and shower her with lots of love, you'll live a long, peaceful life.


Sir_jamesalot wrote:

You don't date the narcissist, the narcissist dates you.


Correction: the narcissist dates himself and drags you along as an accessory.
Posted 9/30/15
Possessiveness is alright with me.

A total no for narcissistic though.
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PhantomGundam wrote:


trent8513 wrote:

Narcissist? Ehhh, most likely no. Posessive? If they were a cute type of possessive, then sure, I would enjoy abusing that, but straight up Yandere? Uhhhh no, I would rather not have a crazy bitch with a knife after me......


She'll only chase you with a knife if you do something wrong. As long as you're faithful to her and shower her with lots of love, you'll live a long, peaceful life.

Truth

A yandere treated right is just a very devoted dere.

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I'm narcissistic myself so I suppose it'd be hypocritical of me to say that I wouldn't date someone who's a narcissist. I don't really have a problem with it per sec, but as I restrain my own narcissism for the sake of other people, I suppose I would have to expect the other to do the same.

Possessiveness? Fuck. That. Possessiveness is disgusting. I expect myself to be both a distinct person outside of the relationship and within it, but I also will be part of the person just as they will be both a part of me and a distinct person. Possessiveness destroys this important dynamic. Without the both of you having your own lives, your own distinct person, you'll be lost without them.
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LITVoid wrote:Without the both of you having your own lives, your own distinct person, you'll be lost without them.

I would be lost without my wife, and she would be lost without me.

We are both happy with the dynamics of our relationship, and that is all that matters.

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That depends on

A.) How attractive she is
B.) How nice she is to me
C.) How feminine she acts

If she is all three, then I could care less about her being possessive or narcissistic. I think a girl who gets jealous easy and is a little possessive is kind of attractive. I'd like to think that my future girl friend would want me all to herself, lol. I'm not dating a girl who tries to act like a man because I don't find that attractive. Our personalities would definitely clash.
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PhantomGundam wrote:


trent8513 wrote:

Narcissist? Ehhh, most likely no. Posessive? If they were a cute type of possessive, then sure, I would enjoy abusing that, but straight up Yandere? Uhhhh no, I would rather not have a crazy bitch with a knife after me......


She'll only chase you with a knife if you do something wrong. As long as you're faithful to her and shower her with lots of love, you'll live a long, peaceful life.

Yeah, I'm the kind of person that will do something stupid and piss a yandere off............
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Dariamus wrote:


LITVoid wrote:Without the both of you having your own lives, your own distinct person, you'll be lost without them.

I would be lost without my wife, and she would be lost without me.

We are both happy with the dynamics of our relationship, and that is all that matters.



If that makes you happy all the power to you. I, however, know for a fact that I would never be able to work within that dynamic at all. To me it's restrictive and suffocating. To be tied to someone in that way? No for me love is that which combines individuality and companionship. But then, you're the expert, you're married after all. And I assure you that last line is not sarcasm despite it sounding like that.
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LITVoid wrote:
And I assure you that last line is not sarcasm despite it sounding like that.

No sarcasm at all.

Each person is different. What works for me may not work for others, and that is the way it should be.

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I probably couldn't date someone narcissistic for long.

Someone possessive might last longer until I get tired of being clung to. But I don't see it lasting long.
Posted 9/30/15
i thought everyone was a bit narcissistic, on a level xD.
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I've dated probably a 7-8 on a narcissism scale. She was barely over my limit. I'd say probably a 6 would be my limit.

I've dated an 11 (on a scale of 1 to 10) on the possessiveness scale (total Yandere), after her I went down to a 2-3 as my top limit.
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Posted 9/30/15 , edited 9/30/15

neugenx wrote:
I've dated an 11 (on a scale of 1 to 10) on the possessiveness scale (total Yandere), after her I went down to a 2-3 as my top limit.

LoL

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