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Post Reply Does Having Sex Ultimately Symbolize a Couple's Intimacy?
Posted 10/6/15
In regards to if it should be the ultimate symbol of a couples intimacy, probably not I would rather think of it as a part of the whole that is intimacy.
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Posted 10/6/15 , edited 10/6/15
To me no it doesn't, its just a base desire. A kiss alone can have even more intimacy than sex if its between two people that truly love each other; even a couple simply having idle talk can even go beyond it. Emotional attachments, love, and trust go farther in general than sex will ever accomplish as far as I'm concerned. Don't get me wrong sex is an element of relationships, its just not a key/core thing nor something that stands as the pinnacle. Also if someone says they don't want to or any form of 'no' at any point, then the other party needs to back off (no pressuring, no forcing, etc)
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Posted 10/6/15
It can be a way of expressing intimacy, but it is not the only way.
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Posted 10/6/15
Yes imo
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Posted 10/6/15
Depends if there is butt stuff
Posted 10/6/15 , edited 10/6/15
Yes?

If I can't open up enough to someone physically like that, then that would be an issue.. a red flag even. But that's just me.. and I'm a bit messed up in the head.
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Posted 10/6/15

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explode in your face


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Posted 10/6/15 , edited 10/10/15
For me, and you can call me old fashioned I guess, sex is symbol of trust between two people as well as commitment. This whole trend towards casual sex and the "hook up" culture feels like it represents a quick decline in morals and standards.
I don't want someone who is willing to just give themselves up. I want someone who cares about themselves and their bodies.

It's becoming increasingly difficult to find someone like this, dating has definitely slowed down.

Well, there is my rant for the day. .

Question to any women, what's your opinion on this idea?
Posted 10/6/15 , edited 10/6/15

Saemonza wrote:


KarenAraragi wrote:

explode in your face




Don't encourage him. I swear people here have their mind in the gutter.

Edit What manga is that profile pic from ?
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Posted 10/6/15

KarenAraragi wrote:


Saemonza wrote:


KarenAraragi wrote:

explode in your face




Don't encourage him. I swear people here have their mind in the gutter.

Edit What manga is that profile pic from ?


It's from a hentai manga titled, "Suzuka-sama's Servant" by 774/Nanashi.

It's pretty wild, but it's one of my favorites. :]
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Posted 10/6/15 , edited 10/6/15
"Crunchyroll and Cuddle" is something I'm going to use on my girlfriend.
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Posted 10/6/15

nekobi wrote:

Really Sex doesn't mean anything. Its something you do when your bored, drunk, or high. Sure it can be symbolic but at the end of the day you just had sex. Ever hear of the one night stand? What is imamate about that? Nothing you hit it and quit it and if you enjoyed it you got back for round two otherwise you leave them in the dust. So sex has nothing to do with intimacy unless the couple is married.


Sex can mean everything and nothing. Depending on who you're doing it with. And it can be an act of initmacy even if the couple isn't married. Mariage doesn't equal intimacy. A loving relationship does.

However, I think it is even more intimate to show and accept flaws and weaknesses. It takes more courage and trust to show these than to just get naked and do it. And of course, you can also do both.


As for ONS, I am no big fan. I prefer meaningful relationships over having pleasure but I think everybody should make this decision for themselves.
Posted 10/6/15


Well I reading it right now.

So far it get a 10/10 from me.

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Posted 10/6/15
Yes- sex seals the deal and helps you define compatibility in a relationship. You are most vulnerable when naked and sharing your body with your partner.
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Posted 10/6/15

KarenAraragi wrote:

So far it get a 10/10 from me.



That's some good taste right there.
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