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jazijaz wrote:


Nightblade370 wrote:

Has anyone on here ever had someone lead them on? Like they pretend that they are interested in you only to call you creepy, clingy, desperate, or try to put you down the minute you try and take initiative to get to know them better?



Maybe they are just being friendly and you misinterpreted the situation.

The majority of girls, like myself, usually don't show interest in a guy when they are interested and are very friendly with guys they are not interested in...or is it just me? XD



Well, it was a dating site in this case, so idk how I'd misinterpret that : / In theory, it should be very straight-forward. Get to know them, as you are both interested somewhat, then when you know them well enough, meet & go on a date and see if it goes anywhere. If she hadn't appoached me first, it'd been one thing. If she had been more straight forward that she didn't want to pursue dating (on a dating site of all places), I still would've been like "ok" and moved on. It's the fact that she was deceptively nice and flirty at first and ended up verbally bashing me when I tried to ask her out by calling me a clingy creep (the 180 in attitude) that pissed me off and I wasn't even texting her that often.
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Buckerss wrote:

I see a similar attitude to people who believe in the friend zone too much. Just because someone is nice to you, doesn't mean they like you. Not even if they kiss you or whatever else. Stop taking every little thing as a sign unless they straight up tell you. If they tell you they like you when they don't, then by all means be pissed off.


Should clarify; it was on a dating site and she approached me. If she decided she wasn't interested, she could've told me and I would've backed off. The situations too straight-forward for misinterpretation...
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Not much of a pursuer, so it's never happened to me romantically. But as far as friends go, it happens to me all the time.

As far as I'm concerned, it's one of the worst things people can do to me. I hate being lead on about anything. I value honesty and reliability above everything else, and needless to say, I tend to go through friends a lot.


Yeah, unfortunately, I am the same way. If one of my friends makes me suspicious, I get ancy. Then, if they do something that stokes the fire of my worries, I am out. Sad truth is, They probably would've screwed me over later some time, so probably did the right thing.


That sounds like my life (in the context of friends)... -_-
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tell her off.

me: noooo~ you no do this. this is bad. youuuuuuuuuu bad person. i will tell my mommy on you.
Posted 10/20/15
Never happened to me, but I've been accused of doing this which is just ridiculous because I always tell people right off the bat that I am not available. -_-
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I've never had that happen to me and I don't know anyone its happen to
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Urboistar wrote:

I might've done that before without realizing.
ooo we have a player in the house
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Urboistar wrote:

I might've done that before without realizing.
ooo we have a player in the house


People just mistake kindness for other things far too often.
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Urboistar wrote:

People just mistake kindness for other things far too often.
I know, I'm just playing

playing hah yeah, not funny got it
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The funniest part is most people who are "lead on" really just misinterpret and make false assumptions about the situation, if that's the case, it's really your fault. Now, if I said, "Yeah, I love you and I see us going somewhere" then insult you, ignore you, etc, that's leading you on and it would be my fault in that case.
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I've had something similar happen, yes, and they were a total asshole. Good riddance.
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Urboistar wrote:

People just mistake kindness for other things far too often.
I know, I'm just playing

playing hah yeah, not funny got it


Cheesy... but applaudable.

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Posted 10/21/15 , edited 10/21/15
That has never happened to me before, but i've been told before that I lead people on???? I had a guy friend and I was being friendly to him because he was being friendly to me. I think he misinterpreted it as flirting, although I was showing very clear signs that I was not interested in him whatsoever.
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A pizza once led me on. I took care of that bitch.
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