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28 / M / CA, USA
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Posted 10/21/15


this 'obscure sorrow' is pretty much why i'm single. i can deal with getting to know someone, but people tend to be on guard with who they really are.

as to what i think about being single, i think it's fine if you are comfortable being alone. even if you're not comfortable being alone, i think it's good to be single so that you know that you can deal with things by yourself.

...but it sure is nice sleeping next to someone you care about. nothing can replace that.
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26 / M / Winland
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Posted 10/21/15
I'm used to be single and fine with it, but at times it makes me feel like being in emotional quicksand. I also tend to repeat making the same mistakes over and over again with girls during the time when dating / building a bond, which always backfires and put me into that quicksand feeling. I kind of a have a longing for a relationship but being single is better than a relationship with a wrong kind of girl.
Posted 10/21/15 , edited 10/21/15
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27 / M / USA
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Posted 10/21/15
What do you think about being single, virgin, kissless? Cause that's what I am
Posted 10/21/15
I'm fine with it.
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15 / F / pakistan
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Posted 10/22/15 , edited 10/22/15

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yeah i also thought that freedom is very important but now i think that no this is not but i wan't to be single eventually if someone come up then it will be different
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22 / M / Michigan
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Posted 10/22/15 , edited 10/22/15

macht_gut wrote:

The only thing about being single in the USA is taxes. Married couples have an advantage: more deductions.


Yeah where I work it's unionized and since we're all under the same contract we all have the same insurance plan, family insurance plan. So me and all the other single guys are getting screwed and paying the same medical/dental insurance as a guy with a wife and 4 kids. I hate it ,but I put up with it :/. The job is good though.

I don't mind being single for now other than ^. I'd rather have my own place before I think about going onto that part of my life. What woman doesn't dig a guy with his own house? LOL
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37 / M / Virginia USA
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Posted 10/22/15
It has its ups and downs. But, so too does being "taken."
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18 / F / Portland
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Posted 10/22/15
I'm not going to dress up and spend my money on some temporary person in my life when I can buy husbando pillows and have them forever, smh.
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Posted 10/22/15
Single life is ok. Being able to do things with a partner though is tons better though in my opinion~
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Posted 10/24/15 , edited 10/24/15
I've certainly felt the pressure of my peers, all who have a partner or are married, to get into the dating scene. It's as if societal values expect someone of my age to at least have a significant other.

I'm ok with being single. Plus I have my reasons. I do feel those lonely lapses, yes, but they don't last.
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28 / F / Illinois
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Posted 10/24/15
I'm more or less fine with it, as I've grown used to being single. Being as introverted as I am, it's always difficult for me to allow myself to get close to others, so I just tend to naturally shy away from people. There are moments where I get lonely, and moments where I wish I had someone else in my life to help me get through problems, but it never last for long. I also have some good friends to help me through the tough times, so I'm in no hurry to go out looking for a relationship.

Plus, I kind of like the sense of freedom that comes with it.
Posted 10/27/15
I am free and I can do what I want without telling to anyone.
No boyfriend since birth, yay!
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23 / M / Angel Island, Met...
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Posted 10/27/15
Being single isn't that bad anyways plus if you kind of think about it....You can work things that needs some fixing in your life or whatever. But that's just me though..
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25 / M / United States
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Posted 10/27/15
I just have several international girls I talk to on Skype or WeChat (China friends) - so I travel two or three times a year to see them which works out cuz they make good tour guides haha. Found a girl in China who I hooked up with in Lijiang, took a three day hike across Leaping Tigre Gorge. Met up with a girl from Kazakhstan in Italy this August, now that was good times - One of my favorites was the trip to Croatia, girl from Daka met me there...

Being single is so much more fun.
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