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I feel the same exact way about my mom. Man, shes been sick for a while and it's pretty painful to watch.


My mom has a cold. I'm sorry to hear that about your mom.


yea and my mom has had cancer, is an alcoholic who still continues to drink a fifth a day, smoke even though she's in remission. Just gets worse and worse, and she refuses to get help.


Sorry to hear it.
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qualeshia3 wrote:


stoner789 wrote:


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I feel the same exact way about my mom. Man, shes been sick for a while and it's pretty painful to watch.


My mom has a cold. I'm sorry to hear that about your mom.


yea and my mom has had cancer, is an alcoholic who still continues to drink a fifth a day, smoke even though she's in remission. Just gets worse and worse, and she refuses to get help.


Sorry to hear it.


Don't be sorry. Nothing for you to be sorry about. Everyone was throwing out the conditions of their mothers/ loved ones or what not so I joined in. Well some of you people hardly have it bad. ( I guess that was my point, I been dealing with this shit since I can remember)
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Okay then.
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Let me know if a thread like this one exist or not.
Thanks a bunches.

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Have you ever had a conversation with someone you knew and felt that will be the last conversation you will have with that person? Like, after that conversation that will be the last time you ever talk to that person due to something terrible that has happened to the person. I get this feeling when it comes to my mother and it bothers me sometimes. I try to ignore it but it happens ever so often that it's annoying. I haven't spoken to her about it because I'm not so sure how she will respond. And I don't know how to explain it to her. I love my mother and I worry that I'm gonna lose her. I don't want that just yet. It doesn't help that I get this thoughts about random and horrific things that happen to her. Maybe I worry too much or something but I can't help feeling like this.

Does anybody else feel like this?


Let your mom know how you feel, whether your worried about talking to her or not you're her daughter and she would likely listen to anything you have to say and love you all the same. Sometimes parents need to be reminded that we appreciate everything they've done for us and that we care about how they feel too! Hope this helps

Not really related per-se, but when i was 10 or 11 me and my immediate family were called to the hospital because the decision was made to take my grandpa off life support. I knew he going to die and I was okay with that because he lived a proud life and I knew he was a good person. I was the last one to leave the room and I felt the urge to hug his dead body one more time. Glad his nerves didn't react and hug me back or something >_>, lol
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Okay then, I will.
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ive never talked to him, but every time I see the President talk I think its the last time
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Feeling, not exactly. I will make the decision not to have certain conversations with a person after I've realised that nothing positive is coming from that particular topic. That doesn't mean that I'll avoid every dark topic. Good can come from discussing difficult or terrible things. It's when you noticed that talking about a certain topic with a certain person ends up causing more harm than good then it's best to let them know that this isn't healthy and that maybe they'd like to talk to someone else who could help them.
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ive never talked to him, but every time I see the President talk I think its the last time


Oh okay.
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qualeshia3 wrote:

Let me know if a thread like this one exist or not.
Thanks a bunches.

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Have you ever had a conversation with someone you knew and felt that will be the last conversation you will have with that person? Like, after that conversation that will be the last time you ever talk to that person due to something terrible that has happened to the person. I get this feeling when it comes to my mother and it bothers me sometimes. I try to ignore it but it happens ever so often that it's annoying. I haven't spoken to her about it because I'm not so sure how she will respond. And I don't know how to explain it to her. I love my mother and I worry that I'm gonna lose her. I don't want that just yet. It doesn't help that I get this thoughts about random and horrific things that happen to her. Maybe I worry too much or something but I can't help feeling like this.

Does anybody else feel like this?


I've pretty much lost a person this way, I can't easily describe why it had happened. And I could not find myself faulty of it. Let's say it was a summer of memories. Both of good and bad, and the feeling and nightmares that struck me - knowing that I'd lose; tore me apart.

Well the nonchalant poetic version I gave, up there; probably won't say a thing. This is not about a subject of losing a person in a way that it dies. It's more of the type of way, that no matter what I did - no matter how hard I pushed, a simple dream realized with the gap widening; till I was swallowed by the hole, unable to reach that person.


It was the one and only time that I had met one very special person from online-gaming for the first time in real. It was a beautiful summer, and everything about it was completely off. I don't even know, if the reason why I lost the opportunity was because I was initially depressed for the first and last time of my life; but that speculation simply gives me heartache.

The first day, it was pretty much spending the whole day of fun. Even seeing shooting stars; it all felt magical. And the following night; a nightmare too vivid to be real. No matter how hard I pursued in the dream; I was struck down, killed, chained. I chased with my willpower endlessly. The first night I was able to conquer the nightmare.

I really wished it was a coincidence. And I still had the chance to meet with the person another time. There hadn't been any gap yet and seemingly nothing had changed. I had already recovered from the ugly grief that I had suffered. And the next night the same nightmare repeated, but I lost. No matter what, it took a few nights of the repeated same dream and the distance between us grew. No matter how perfect match it seemed. Even as friends - not talking about romance in here. Everything in common, and only an otherworldly feeling breaking down the walls.

However these dreams progressed in a similar manner as my emotional recovery. The harder I was beaten down in the nightmare, the healthier I have been. And at same time the distance between me and that person has gone far too distant. I've still sighed after the memory that was once lit, over two years ago but this summer and fall finally snuffed away that flame.

It isn't fair. Life isn't fair. I am not making this to seek sympathy, I feel this is more of a scary story to show what that 'creeping' fear can be at it's worst. This isn't the only experience I have with this type of stuff but it is the strongest and most concrete. (Like with pets, dying away - knowing it before had is scaaary)


And one of the things, I was said by her was that: "You have a heart made of steel - unbreakable" That one quote still hurts me to this day. Perhaps I have a strong heart and I don't become depressed, but it STILL HURTS. Still, if I had the choice, I'd rather not forget the time; it taught me the things that are important for me in the life. Despite I am still searching, I know they exist. I learned to nourish and take care of my smile and being myself, not being something that someone else wanted me to be.



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And for the OP about her experiences; it is a scary emotion. And it really is hard to know whether to take it seriously or not. It might only be something of symbolic. Or then it might be something subconscious. There might be something happening or there might not. Perhaps another question is how often it has happened, with the feeling that something has really happened. The more accurate the intuition is, the more frightening it is. Since that stuff is pretty much in the gray zone.

I think the best advice is: Follow your heart, not your reason with that feeling. And see, if it helps - or not.


ps. Though this is not necessarily about losing, I've once saved a person's life when I got an eerie feeling that something was wrong; I did something really out of characteristic to me - and I remember I was listening to music back then. I called the ambulance when I found the scene.
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Thank you so much and I'm sorry for your lost.
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Reading this topic, made me spill my heart. Though now I am regretting it, chest pain decided to go against me in the late train.

But I really hope it is of use.
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It is.
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nope

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there was an OP from a few years back generalschrimpf, i'd like to know if he's doing well. his thread was just depressing so i remember it clearly.
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qualeshia3 wrote:

Let me know if a thread like this one exist or not.
Thanks a bunches.

Explain your opinion in great detail.


Have you ever had a conversation with someone you knew and felt that will be the last conversation you will have with that person? Like, after that conversation that will be the last time you ever talk to that person due to something terrible that has happened to the person. I get this feeling when it comes to my mother and it bothers me sometimes. I try to ignore it but it happens ever so often that it's annoying. I haven't spoken to her about it because I'm not so sure how she will respond. And I don't know how to explain it to her. I love my mother and I worry that I'm gonna lose her. I don't want that just yet. It doesn't help that I get this thoughts about random and horrific things that happen to her. Maybe I worry too much or something but I can't help feeling like this.

Does anybody else feel like this?


Things like this happen a lot, it doesn't mean she is going to die. But it means you're afraid to lose her. Stay strong talk to your mom a lot, because one day you're bound to lose her from age, so spend what time you have with her! Tell her of your feelings, explain it just like you did here, she will understand! I often have thoughts of this nature, the best thing to do is to fight them, to refuse to believe that will happen.

You never know when the last time you may talk to someone is, so make sure you tell them you love them ^^

Hope everything goes well for you, don't let these feelings and thoughts rule your life.

I hope I could be of help
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