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Post Reply I'm a 26 year old virgin :(
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Next week I turn 26 years old and I'm still a complete virgin... I've never dated a girl, kissed a girl, or had a girlfriend. I've never even held hands with a girl!! Is this normal? I am immature for my age and have only had teenagers for friends
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Then you probably have never put yourself into a situation with girls or probably haven't tried hard enough.
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lol, don't worry about it

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Well... I don't know what struggles you face with meeting women and being in a relationship, but I will say that the good news is you still have that to give to the RIGHT woman. Trust me, it is more valuable than you know. :)




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I'm 19, virgin. Got a feeling I will stay this for a long time too
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That sucks.
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ayesharocks wrote:

Then you probably have never put yourself into a situation with girls or probably haven't tried hard enough.


I have no confidence at all. I would be so afraid to ask a girl out because if she were to turn me down, I would turn suicidal.

That's how pathetic I am
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trueshinobi01 wrote:

Next week I turn 26 years old and I'm still a complete virgin... I've never dated a girl, kissed a girl, or had a girlfriend. I've never even held hands with a girl!! Is this normal? I am immature for my age and have only had teenagers for friends


So you're whole reason to be is to get rid of the burden of virginity?

I'd say stop making virginity to be a big issue and get on with your life.
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Posted 10/21/15

tkayt wrote:


trueshinobi01 wrote:

Next week I turn 26 years old and I'm still a complete virgin... I've never dated a girl, kissed a girl, or had a girlfriend. I've never even held hands with a girl!! Is this normal? I am immature for my age and have only had teenagers for friends


So you're whole reason to be is to get rid of the burden of virginity?

I'd say stop making virginity to be a big issue and get on with your life.


Easier said than done, kiddo.
Being a virgin for guys most of the time really takes away some confidence :L
Maybe I am wrong and it only counts for me? IDK
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We totally need someone to test the theory!

If only OP would take one for the team.
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Honestly virginity or when you lose it isn't a big deal.

Probably the main issue is like others have said and just putting yourself out there. Don't go looking for something just to pop that cherry. it will be much more fulfilling if it is with someone you care for and that has mutual respect for you.

Do NOT be afraid of being rejected. It IS going to happen. If you ask 99 girls out and they all spit in your face and you stop, what if that 100th girl was THE ONE that could make you into the man you're supposed to be? You'll never know unless you try. As humans we learn more from failing than from succeeding.

Hell I am 36 and single with no kids. Some would call that a blessing. I don't. I want a family, but I am also not about to rush into anything.

Sex is amazing. not going to lie there, but it is much better for the right reasons. In order to be happy with someone else, you have to be happy with yourself first.
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there are more shits in life than virginity

don't rush, you might regret giving it to wrong person.
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I am nearly 34 and have been haven't so much as kissed a girl since I llast had a girlfriend around the age of 19-21-ish? (it's been so long I forgot).

I actually go out of my way to slip out of situations where women show interest because I have fuck all idea what to do anymore.

Sure, there's being out of practice, which sucks, but more so the implications of being with someone, being in a relationship, having someone close to me... those terrify the ever loving fuck outta me. Especially when it seems like taking on any of that implicitly seems to put me in the role of dispensing comfort and reassurance and/or having to initiate for most relationship-y things. Granted, the most forward women are the ones I've been least attracted to, but still.

People in general burn me out. And when it comes to relationship stuff I am beyond fried... The last one just killed it for me.
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