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Post Reply I'm a 26 year old virgin :(
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trueshinobi01 wrote:

Next week I turn 26 years old and I'm still a complete virgin... I've never dated a girl, kissed a girl, or had a girlfriend. I've never even held hands with a girl!! Is this normal? I am immature for my age and have only had teenagers for friends


So you're whole reason to be is to get rid of the burden of virginity?

I'd say stop making virginity to be a big issue and get on with your life.


Easier said than done, kiddo.
Being a virgin for guys most of the time really takes away some confidence :L
Maybe I am wrong and it only counts for me? IDK


No, you are absolutely right. The result of not asking girls out and remaining a virgin this long has destroyed my confidence. Sometimes I do have suicidsl thoughts, no joke
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damn...... dat suks
well it don't matter I mean there is a movie called 40 year old virgin....
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Not losing your V-card is great, don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Don't rush things, make sure you find yourself a nice girl who will cherish that moment as much as you might.
That being said however, I would definitely try to work on your self confidence.
If all it takes is a simple "Not interested' to make you go nuts, you aren't ready for intimate relations with anyone.
Be strong enough to get back up again when someone turns you down, don't let that one moment of negative outcome control the course of your life.
Go at your own pace my friend, you have to love yourself before you can love a significant other.
You are not pathetic, you are an awesome person and do not let others bring you down.
Much Love
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Don't worry Virtual reality is almost there you can have all your waifus in your lifetime... Jokes aside don't let it get you down there is someone out there for everyone and stressing about stuff like virginity isn't going to make you more appealing to a girl, and it's not going to make you feel any better, if you really care that much force yourself into more social situations that will allow you to raise your comfort level when talking to members of the opposite sex, alcohol can help you liberate those feelings also!
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Who cares? Sex is dumb anyway.
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I have a couple of friends in similar positions as you, and I'll tell you what I tend to tell them: it might seem like a big deal, but it really isn't. There are so many wonderful things in life, and while sex can be sorta fun, it isn't massively fulfilling or anything. The key is to find things you are really passionate about and pursue them.

Confidence is fairly important, or at least the air of it. "Fake it 'till you make it." I've suffered a lot with poor self-esteem and depression, but I am pretty good at putting on an air of confidence when I need it. People are more inclined to get close with someone who is positive and at least neutral towards themselves. I'm not very confident in my looks, but at the least, I accept that I'm not ugly and know that I have a lot of other things to offer. That has helped me a lot with finding girlfriends and such in the past.

It hurts to get rejected, yeah, but it isn't that terrible. It is important to realize that, though your feelings for that person may be strong, they aren't the only person out there. Most people won't be cruel when they turn you down, so don't worry about being stomped on. You can normally shrug it off and things go back to normal. But don't let someone keep you as a back-up. It is also important to note that some of the niceties given when someone turns down your advances are just that - niceties. If someone says they want to focus on their career or school or something, it may be genuine, and it may be an excuse so you don't feel as bad. But whichever scenario it is, the result is the same: try to find someone else and don't feel bad.

Anyways, those are just my thoughts, and it probably isn't worth all that much. Just try to be happy with who you are.
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27 years old, still a virgin.

I stopped caring a decade ago, if it happens, it happens, if it doesn't, it doesn't.

No big deal.
Posted 10/21/15 , edited 10/21/15

trueshinobi01 wrote:

Next week I turn 26 years old and I'm still a complete virgin... I've never dated a girl, kissed a girl, or had a girlfriend. I've never even held hands with a girl!! Is this normal? I am immature for my age and have only had teenagers for friends


There is nothing to stress yourself, or worry yourself over.

Don't compare yourself to others: this is a personal thing, and it is YOUR OWN business. It doesn't matter what age you lose your virginity or if you never lose it - all that matter is what YOU want to do.

It is no one's business but your own.

If others have a problem with it, then you don't need those people in your life.

You're normal. You're fine. You're alright.

You'll be okay.

If you want to talk, feel free to PM me.
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It's okay Sex is overrated anyways
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tkayt wrote: So you're whole reason to be is to get rid of the burden of virginity?

I'd say stop making virginity to be a big issue and get on with your life.
Well its better to get the first time sex over with so you don't become crazy.
and things like that -_-


So it can be a life chaning thing but only if its in your head.
Being out in nature and do jobs that needs to be done is one good way to clear these things.
And yes these things matter.

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It's okay Sex is overrated anyways
Sex can be alot and do alot, so it can be much better then what you thought it could be.
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So what? Stop worrying so much about not having romantic or sexual experience, you're not going to go anywhere that way.
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I suggest you go to place where you KNOW woman are and strike up conversations. It's really not as hard to make happen as some might think.
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descloud wrote: It's really not as hard to make happen as some might think.
ofc its not hard.. but as good and worth it?

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It's okay Sex is overrated anyways


I agree with this, also.
Posted 10/21/15 , edited 12/10/15
I heard if you're still a virgin till 30, your dick falls off and becomes a staff of great magical power, a sword that can slice through anything, and a tyrannosaurus Rex that insta-kill anyone who had sex.
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