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Post Reply Does anyone here get the feeling of not going on anymore?
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Posted 10/21/15
As for me, it seems like I can't do much anymore.
But that is just the "School is over, what now?" kind of feeling that is talking.
But I am so shy that I probably can't work that easily. So I stay home, doing nothing...Every day. NEET style.
I get the feeling of, if I wanna go on or not.
And no, I am not talking about suiciding.
Other things like, "why get up from bed?" or "just eat, no one is gonna like you anyway."

What do you guys feel? Ever get this feeling? Or am I just insanely stupid?
Most likely the last one.
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Posted 10/21/15

Mrcreepday wrote:

As for me, it seems like I can't do much anymore.
But that is just the "School is over, what now?" kind of feeling that is talking.
But I am so shy that I probably can't work that easily. So I stay home, doing nothing...Every day. NEET style.
I get the feeling of, if I wanna go on or not.
And no, I am not talking about suiciding.
Other things like, "why get up from bed?" or "just eat, no one is gonna like you anyway."

What do you guys feel? Ever get this feeling? Or am I just insanely stupid?
Most likely the last one.


Well your not the only one.
You'll get this feeling a lot in life, I have it from time to time. Don't let feelings like this rule you, yes life isn't easy but never give up.
I know it's easier said then done, but remember to always push forward and never give up.

Find something you enjoy doing, something to dedicate yourself to, something that inspires you to get up and start moving. That's the best advice I can give, as I am a person who has had the same feeling as you. Try to find reasons to move on, hell dedicate yourself to volunteer work its a good start.

I myself am shy and know your pain, do your best to fight this.

I wish you the best of luck man.
Posted 10/21/15 , edited 10/21/15
but.. but.. but i like you T_T
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Posted 10/21/15 , edited 10/21/15
I've had similar thoughts before, basically what helped me (in my case) was thinking about it like this:

Will I be able to live my life knowing that I wasted my parents hard earned money doing nothing? They came here with no money or education, and they're putting their hard earned money into feeding me and putting me in school. Wasting their efforts would only make things worse rather than actually getting off my lazy ass and stop making shit excuses.
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Posted 10/21/15 , edited 12/3/15
yes ive been through this for the past 3 years but i realized that i should work hard in my studies to not make my mom's hard work go to waste
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Being shy is a really bad excuse....you won't be able to get anywhere in life if you don't take the first step. Volunteer at a child daycare or an after school program for kids. You'll be surprised how vocal you can be while working with children.
Posted 10/21/15
I've always felt like this like I've got nothing going on for me.. I'm just letting every day pass me by.
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I've been feels this for several months now. I wake up every morning wondering what the heck I'm doing with my life and if there is any meaning to it. It's very hard for me to make friends and I rarely see the ones I do have.
The only thing that keeps going is my mother.
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Every day, but then I watch a few videos from my favourite Youtubers and I'm good for another day, then I rinse and repeat.
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this is a phase but life goes on and changes and us with it our feeling too. Little by
little you will come out of your shell whether it's by meeting new people or maybe
something changed to change you. But things don't stay the same so look forward
not backward and watch where you step eventually you will come to that fork in the
road and it's up to you to take that first step and keep walking. Life isn't easy but
experience is how we grow as people . And if it takes you a little time to figure out
what you want that's fine and when your ready take your first step .
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If you're very shy and don't want to be confronting people how about becoming a free lance web programmer or something like that? Watch tutorials and read up, you'll get that "fulfilled" feeling again if you make progress with your learning.
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Yes but I usually just get up and do something regardless and I feel better afterwards. Being shy sucks I used to be the same way and still am to an extent but you gotta start talking to people more. Try conversing with random people if possible. Open yourself up more. That sounds somewhat tough and it is but that's what you gotta do if you want to be less shy. And usually I get those feelings when I'm lazy and I realize that I should ignore it and just go so that helps too
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Does the concept of clinical depression not exist outside of the U.S.? I see this kind of question from Europeans semi-frequently.

That is low level depression, generally treatable by some lifestyle changes. If a kickstarter is necessary you can see if a doctor wants to go with low dosage medicine.
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