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Posted 10/23/15

nichtmalda wrote:

Open relationships are hardcore powerplay of one of the partners to dread the hell out of the other one, I've never seen the mythical equal one where both are happy with each other and are just having some fun on the side, it's always about power, always. People who claim they love it are either the winning partner or desperatly lying. "I am good enough to have someone else, are you good enough to have someone else?" You get the idea.

So, get the hell out of here, either monogamy or a clean break up. I also don't understand how the disadvantaged partner can be so pathetic to stay in such relationships unless they have something big to loose like a house. Just how little selfworth do they have and how dare they to call themselves human, disgusting, but than again, because they are so disgusting they are an easy target for their predatory partner.


That a very self serving opinion you got there.
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Posted 10/23/15 , edited 10/23/15

Iriamu-chan wrote:

before you decide about that give it a time and get some rest its better than doing without thinking about it


i don't got a gf
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Posted 10/23/15 , edited 10/23/15

latinaloverTX wrote:

i don't got a gf


ooh okay sorry my mistake

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Posted 10/23/15 , edited 10/24/15

KarenAraragi wrote:

So you hospitalize the guy who may or may no know, he fucking your girl. Even thou she will be the one a fault here ? You got some low standards.


Do me a favor and keep your opinions to your self, because Idgaf about your way of thinking.

Posted 10/23/15 , edited 10/23/15

PurpleDjango wrote:

No, my girlfriend would never cheat on me.


If you date a girl and she cheat on you. Is her fault, no the other guy fault, she decide to fuck him. You beat somebody for something that is no their fault. You are a loser, you are even a bigger loser if you try to make her stay with you. After cheating on you, no less! And if he beat your ass. You lose what little face you thou you have. And if she leave you for him. You lose what little self respect you have left.
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Posted 10/23/15
Be nice everyone
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Posted 10/23/15

latinaloverTX wrote:


TheOmegaForce70941 wrote:

A relationship isn't a relationship without the two being for each other. So if someone is with someone else, then their not in a relationship and simply just a bunch of whores... #fact


so far there is 2 people that is for open relationship


Well there's always someone who has another opinion regarding everything. But based on like everyone else you can see that people are clearly against it
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Posted 10/23/15

TheSkyIsUp wrote:

Some of these opinions are making me cringe. My additional thought: Your significant other doesn't have to be thought of as your property... Isn't it nicer to be together because you genuinely want to and not because you've put all other human interaction on lock down and you threaten them if they break your rules?


It a relationship ever get's to threats then you should break up. But it's not good or a lasting relation if one person in the relation sleeps around with like 10 other people, the chance of a good realtionship is even less if both parties involved are sleeping around
Posted 10/23/15 , edited 10/23/15
i think that's lame and some people need to grow up. i don't have a good opinion of cheaters too.

i should probably not hold any judgement since everyone lives their life how they want and they make their own rules... i just don't want to know if anyone i know is in an open relationship because most likely than not, they would wanna show off and i don't care lol.
Posted 10/23/15 , edited 10/23/15
I think it's fine as long as the two parties are mature enough and there is a strong sense of trust and communication, otherwise it's probably gonna end up badly. I would question the reasons why your interested in open relationships and not a monogamous one and decide if your okay with the hopefully genuine answer you give yourself. I personally would do it but thats because I'm not looking for a serious or long term relationship at this point in my life and would rather date a wide range of people to understand myself better in relation to others, and then when I'm ready to settle down I'd hopefully have a really good understanding of what it is I want.
Posted 10/23/15

severticas wrote:

i think that's lame and some people need to grow up. i don't have a good opinion of cheaters too.

i should probably not hold any judgement since everyone lives their life how they want and they make their own rules... i just don't want to know if anyone i know has an open relationship.


Why would it bother you if you knew people who are in that kind of relation ? That like being bother about how people eat their food.
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Posted 10/23/15

KarenAraragi wrote:

Why would it bother you if you knew people who are in that kind of relation ? That like being bother about how people eat their food.


It's having expectations of their friends to live up to at least a certain moral standard. A lot of people would not want to be friends with child rapists either.
Posted 10/23/15

TheOmegaForce70941 wrote:


latinaloverTX wrote:


TheOmegaForce70941 wrote:

A relationship isn't a relationship without the two being for each other. So if someone is with someone else, then their not in a relationship and simply just a bunch of whores... #fact


so far there is 2 people that is for open relationship


Well there's always someone who has another opinion regarding everything. But based on like everyone else you can see that people are clearly against it


We can't take one group opinion has the majority. Otherwise the people who scream their fake opinion about climate change no happening, will be the majority of opinion.
Posted 10/23/15

nichtmalda wrote:


KarenAraragi wrote:

Why would it bother you if you knew people who are in that kind of relation ? That like being bother about how people eat their food.


It's having expectations of their friends to live up to at least a certain moral standard. A lot of people would not want to be friends with child rapists either.


Why so dark ? That a shity way of thinking. Hey I don't like your car, so get rid of it. Because it hurt the climate. You don't get to pick your friends. Ether you get along or you do not. If people are doing something you hate. Ether deal with it or stop being their friend. Having expectation of your friends, is asking to get disappointed. May as well save yourself the trouble about trying to pick a friend and bring them a list of things, you disapprove.
Posted 10/23/15

KarenAraragi wrote:


severticas wrote:

i think that's lame and some people need to grow up. i don't have a good opinion of cheaters too.

i should probably not hold any judgement since everyone lives their life how they want and they make their own rules... i just don't want to know if anyone i know has an open relationship.


Why would it bother you if you knew people who are in that kind of relation ? That like being bother about how people eat their food.


why are you asking? why do you want to know? who are you? lol. i'm kidding.

seriously though, i don't like gossip and i don't want to know what people like or whatever. if i don't know about it, i don't have a problem with anyone in particular.
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