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22 / F / Kaufman, TX, USA
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Posted 11/8/15
Hi.... I'm right now having some difficulty of making friends on here somewhat. The few friends I used to have kind of have 'left' me.... Mainly because me and a few of them don't talk a lot and stuff; but I still feel like I'm having a hard time making friends. I was hardly active on talking with others, posting on the forums, and updating the group page that I had created on my own here on CR. I've been to busy, and have had a lot going on in my life and wasn't able to get as much free time as I needed. I sometimes find myself become exhausted when I have free time of my own which it causes me to not want to do much of anything.... :/
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Posted 11/8/15
I'm pretty active, so you can add me if you want.
I'm usually pretty talkative
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34 / M / Mexico
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Posted 11/8/15
So, are you looking for advice? Or friends? Or friendly advice?

Sounds pretty tough, but don't think you are the only one that has had trouble socializing, you should have seen me at your age Also, sometimes friends don't need to be talking all the time to still remain friends; I have some penpals with whom I rarely talk to and we still send each other personal messages during special occasions. It's really hard to form friendships online anyway, but when you do find a few good friends, they are almost as good if not as good as the ones outside of the net.

Well, if you want a friend who is randomly active, feel free to add me; we can talk about whatever, I guess
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Posted 11/8/15
If that's the reason your friends left you for, then they really weren't your "friends". You were under the illusion you guys were close when it was nothing but spending time with someone you know. As for my advice, I would say don't look for friends, just act natural and someone who is meant to be it will definitely notice.

Ever since the first grade till now(11th) I only had 3 real friends, others were just either nothing but entertainment or simply stared avoiding me because apparently, I was too much of an "asshole" so yeah.

If you're talking about internet, try Skype and stuff. That's where I talk to my fellow internet asshole friends, you'll get hooked before you realize it. Though, please don't try to force yourself to like people and be with them, it will only make you look weird

anyway that's all
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26 / M / Florida
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Posted 11/11/15
I'm always up for making friends! :Shoot me a message if you want to chat.
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I know the feeling. Went off to university for 3 years, tried to keep in contact but they only did when they really needed something, now that I'm back barely any of them contact me apart from 1 mate and he is away back for his final year so I'm by myself at the moment, mainly just looking for a job and playing games, not really active on the forums but feel free to give me a shout
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Posted 11/11/15

TouhouFanGirl94 wrote:

Hi.... I'm right now having some difficulty of making friends on here somewhat. The few friends I used to have kind of have 'left' me.... Mainly because me and a few of them don't talk a lot and stuff; but I still feel like I'm having a hard time making friends. I was hardly active on talking with others, posting on the forums, and updating the group page that I had created on my own here on CR. I've been to busy, and have had a lot going on in my life and wasn't able to get as much free time as I needed. I sometimes find myself become exhausted when I have free time of my own which it causes me to not want to do much of anything.... :/


Hi i know what you mean. shoot me some chat or what ev'. i don't bite
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Posted 11/11/15
I'm in the same boat, ha! making friends is tough, anybody feel free to contact me if you like, in fact, would be great if anybody would hit me up and chat with me!
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26 / F / West Friendship,...
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Posted 12/8/15
I'll chat with just about anyone, anytime, I'm so lonely
Posted 12/8/15
Making friends definitely isn't as easy as it should be at least in my experience.
Posted 12/8/15
I'll be anyone's friend if they really want one. I'm pretty laid back for the most part and get along with most people.
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Posted 12/8/15
meetup.com is a good way to meet people who share your own interests.
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27 / M / USA
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Posted 12/10/15
I know where you are coming from. It is hard to make a genuine connection with people anymore; whether it be friends or dating. Feel free to add me and shoot me a message anytime.
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