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Post Reply question - Do you think controlling someone is a way of caring about them?
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Posted 11/15/15
Moving this back to General Discussion, since it doesn't look to me like the OP is asking for advice, but is asking for folks to share their opinion about the topic more generally. I'll update the topic to reflect that a little better.
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Not in the least.
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You control people because you have problems in my experience. You dislike disobedience, yet a certain amount of discourse is healthy believe it or not. You want the person like you want an object, and that's not right. Most of the time it's not the motherly control you'd expect from a motherly relationship, but one where the person gets off on dominance because they want to be the ones tipping the scales. Avoid at all cost unless you're willing to look past that.
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lorreen wrote:

Moving this back to General Discussion, since it doesn't look to me like the OP is asking for advice, but is asking for folks to share their opinion about the topic more generally. I'll update the topic to reflect that a little better.


hmm as you like , i think i won't post next time if everytime you will put it in somewhere.
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breathe93 wrote:


lorreen wrote:

Moving this back to General Discussion, since it doesn't look to me like the OP is asking for advice, but is asking for folks to share their opinion about the topic more generally. I'll update the topic to reflect that a little better.


hmm as you like , i think i won't post next time if everytime you will put it in somewhere.


Oh, did you ask to have it moved? It started in General Discussion, and I left it there, but another mod moved it to the "Advice..." forum -- I assumed that because of the title he (or maybe someone who reported it) thought it was for advice. So I moved it back for General Discussion where you originally posted it.

So, are you asking for personal advice, or do you just want people to discuss this idea?

Also, I can change the title if you let me know what it should say. "question" all by itself was too broad, but if I misinterpreted the question let me know what you think would be better.
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Of course it's a way to show your affection.





Everyone knows Toma from Amnesia is best guy.
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Posted 11/15/15
Negative controlling someone sounds like a prison warden or Pet Owner. Unless they are a sub and get off on it
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Akage-chan wrote: Everyone knows Toma from Amnesia is best guy.
Yandere begins,
well they where allways through out the anime... oh well -_(o_o)_- not my problem XP

Posted 11/15/15 , edited 11/15/15
To an extent I guess as long as the person doesn't over do it. If that's possible at all.
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like when your mom tells you to clean your room?
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I mean, it is, whether it is morally ok is a different story. I think the people that control someone out of love is very insecure of themselves, but it is love all the same, ussually it means they have some real problems though.
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Akage-chan wrote:

Of course it's a way to show your affection.





Everyone knows Toma from Amnesia is best guy.


heck yes dem male yanderes are
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