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Posted 11/19/15 , edited 11/19/15

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Far from an innocent request i mean what do i look like a freaking manwhore?!

That's offensive as fuck to me and other people -.-


How dare any hypothetical woman ever find you desirable!


She can find me desirable but saying something like that is offensive and honestly disgusting and i would not want to associate with them.

It's just offensive to me and disgusting someone would just randomly ask a stranger that.

I mean go on them but stay away from me or else be expected to be yelled at


EDIT: that being said i understand to some people asking a stranger for sex isn't offensive but when your dealing with strangers you don't know what they do or don't find offensive.

So if you ever ask a stranger for sex don't be surprised if they are offended or disgusted
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Posted 11/19/15

Magical-Soul wrote:


Ryulightorb wrote:


Magical-Soul wrote:

How to get a(higher than trash) quality girl.

1. Work out. Don't be a fat bastard and hope your "charms" work.

2. Don't be a mangina, look your best, ignore her shit tests, tease her, etc. don't be afraid to do stuff she might not understand.

3. Do not buy/reward her unless she gives you what you want. Whether that's a kiss, a blowjob, doesn't matter. Shit ain't cheap, make her get a job.

4. Dress like you have lots of money.

5. Have other girls around you, chicks are competitive by nature.

That's my guide to getting a girl. And yes, she will be hot.

If you're looking to meet your reflection, as in an anime nerd, a shut in type girl than there's no way to do that.

Also, talk kinda loud in public areas, it makes you seem alpha.

There you go, rinse and repeat, go to places. And most important rule is not to snap back into a simp mangina/beta male,

Not that you're either one of those things, of course. Well, there we go.




1. Eww i don't want muscles

2. I'm ignorant to all things socially and don't care about my looks
3. Why would i spend money on someone for no reason

4. but i don't that would be dishonest...

5. I would rather be alone then surrounded by females.


I have done the exact opposite of everything you have said and have dated a hot/intelligent person :P

Also talking loud in public areas makes you seem like an idiot...i would honestly tell someone doing that to shut the fuck up myself.



Best way to get a good looking girlfriend is to be yourself honest , nice and willing to help others.
Show that you care and just be a good person in general if a girl goes for you because of

Muscles , Money , you seem alpha ...they are not worth dating in the first place and are to me....pieces of trash :)

This is coming from someone with multiple experiences in dating 6+ girls sure most of them ended badly due to distance and other variables mostly them being mentally weak

But my point stands.....no one should waste there time doing any of that your just going to attract someone who doesn't care about you.


Do what works for you, you should be proud of what you can do with your own methods.

However, what I say still holds true, even if they don't appeal to your sensibilities.

EDIT: No offense, but advice like mine wouldn't work for men like you, you have a type. And you won't have to worry about women approaching you.



True that's a good point and i guess it does for the average guy.
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I would never go out of my way to change for a person, and I would never expect anyone to do the same for me. If you have similar characteristics, hobbies, opinions, etc. it will work. There is no way around it. Don't stress yourself being something you're not just to please your partner. You will make yourself miserable. And please don't mistake change for compromise in this context. Naturally, there are compromises in relationships.
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Magical-Soul

Short version: The kind of man I want isn't going to keep me around if I rode the cock carousel to his place. As you know, I have nothing against girls with many sexual partners. It just won't work for me because I will get rejected if I do.



Now you've got me curious. What exactly is the kind of man you want?


A masculine man. Basically, I want a natural man who hasn't been touched with ill disgust of gynocentrism. The disdain of the right, or the mental gymnastics of the left.

It's hard to describe in few words, plus, if we start talking about ideal men, we'd probably be up all night.

Though, if that interests you, than I will definitely engage you!
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Ryulightorb
1. Eww i don't want muscles
2. I'm ignorant to all things socially and don't care about my looks
3. Why would i spend money on someone for no reason
4. but i don't that would be dishonest...
5. I would rather be alone then surrounded by females.
I have done the exact opposite of everything you have said and have dated a hot/intelligent person :P
Also talking loud in public areas makes you seem like an idiot...i would honestly tell someone doing that to shut the fuck up myself.
Best way to get a good looking girlfriend is to be yourself honest , nice and willing to help others.
Show that you care and just be a good person in general if a girl goes for you because of
Muscles , Money , you seem alpha ...they are not worth dating in the first place and are to me....pieces of trash :)
This is coming from someone with multiple experiences in dating 6+ girls sure most of them ended badly due to distance and other variables mostly them being mentally weak
But my point stands.....no one should waste there time doing any of that your just going to attract someone who doesn't care about you.


Well I'm happy if your happy! But having a good healthy relationship can be work.... even when you don't want it too be. It doesn't have to be, if the work isn't worth the person then you have every right to leave them, but if you find a person is really worth it, then the least you could do is care a little bit about keeping yourself groomed and styled. Not that you need to but the statement about not caring at all... well... if you don't care about your looks then she probably wont, but that might not be good. :(

Best of luck in all relationships! After speaking with you I know you could get girls really easy bud!



Also @Magical-soul, senpai.... I told you to stop with the tsundere..... behave yourself.
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I think the real problem here is desperation.
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I think the real problem here is desperation.


I actually can't sense any desperation here. Maybe your senses are better than mine at the moment.
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Magical-Soul wrote:


Ruby804b wrote:


Magical-Soul

Short version: The kind of man I want isn't going to keep me around if I rode the cock carousel to his place. As you know, I have nothing against girls with many sexual partners. It just won't work for me because I will get rejected if I do.



Now you've got me curious. What exactly is the kind of man you want?


A masculine man. Basically, I want a natural man who hasn't been touched with ill disgust of gynocentrism. The disdain of the right, or the mental gymnastics of the left.

It's hard to describe in few words, plus, if we start talking about ideal men, we'd probably be up all night.

Though, if that interests you, than I will definitely engage you!


Well, in general I don't really get the, "My ideal person is," thing. I've tried to think about what that kind of person would be, but it's never really come through as anything specific. I like all kinds of people, I guess.
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Ryulightorb wrote:


Best way to get a good looking girlfriend is to be yourself honest , nice and willing to help others.
Show that you care and just be a good person in general if a girl goes for you because of

Muscles , Money , you seem alpha ...they are not worth dating in the first place and are to me....pieces of trash :)

This is coming from someone with multiple experiences in dating 6+ girls sure most of them ended badly due to distance and other variables mostly them being mentally weak

But my point stands.....no one should waste there time doing any of that your just going to attract someone who doesn't care about you.


Ryu is that you? Love seein' that lovely confidence.

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Ruby804b wrote:


Magical-Soul wrote:


Ruby804b wrote:


Magical-Soul

Short version: The kind of man I want isn't going to keep me around if I rode the cock carousel to his place. As you know, I have nothing against girls with many sexual partners. It just won't work for me because I will get rejected if I do.



Now you've got me curious. What exactly is the kind of man you want?


A masculine man. Basically, I want a natural man who hasn't been touched with ill disgust of gynocentrism. The disdain of the right, or the mental gymnastics of the left.

It's hard to describe in few words, plus, if we start talking about ideal men, we'd probably be up all night.

Though, if that interests you, than I will definitely engage you!


Well, in general I don't really get the, "My ideal person is," thing. I've tried to think about what that kind of person would be, but it's never really come through as anything specific. I like all kinds of people, I guess.


I can see how that works. I very few chances to get the "right" one. And I do sometimes fantasize about the "ideal man" but honestly, I only need one quality in a man: masculinity, most people are nice, most people can be funny, most people can have deep conversations, etc.

Look at it this way, you don't have a limit to your lovers and your belt notches are of no importance to you or your lovers. Which makes for a healthy arrangement and seems easily manageable.

For me, I have children on my mind and lots of things to focus on that don't necessarily involve just the relationship itself(the children). So while I can be friends with everyone/anyone. I can't simply lay down with all of them, I'll scare off the kind of man I'm trying to lure in.

r/RedPillWomen have the struggle I do if you'd like to understand where I'm coming from. Most men today seem to focused on appeasing the woman as a prize rather than trying to build a healthy environment to start a family and ensure their safety and happiness. That's if they even want kids at all.
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Posted 11/19/15

PrinceJudar wrote:


Ryulightorb wrote:


Best way to get a good looking girlfriend is to be yourself honest , nice and willing to help others.
Show that you care and just be a good person in general if a girl goes for you because of

Muscles , Money , you seem alpha ...they are not worth dating in the first place and are to me....pieces of trash :)

This is coming from someone with multiple experiences in dating 6+ girls sure most of them ended badly due to distance and other variables mostly them being mentally weak

But my point stands.....no one should waste there time doing any of that your just going to attract someone who doesn't care about you.


Ryu is that you? Love seein' that lovely confidence.




Well i have to be confident sometimes!
Posted 11/19/15

Magical-Soul wrote:

I actually can't sense any desperation here. Maybe your senses are better than mine at the moment.


Only people so desperate to be liked by someone / be in a relationship would think that they need to try so hard.
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Well i have to be confident sometimes!


All the time!


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MissKittenVicious wrote:


Magical-Soul wrote:

I actually can't sense any desperation here. Maybe your senses are better than mine at the moment.


Only people so desperate to be liked by someone / be in a relationship would think that they need to try so hard.



You have a point however i'm not desperate for anything but my love of Videogames
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Ryulightorb
1. Eww i don't want muscles
2. I'm ignorant to all things socially and don't care about my looks
3. Why would i spend money on someone for no reason
4. but i don't that would be dishonest...
5. I would rather be alone then surrounded by females.
I have done the exact opposite of everything you have said and have dated a hot/intelligent person :P
Also talking loud in public areas makes you seem like an idiot...i would honestly tell someone doing that to shut the fuck up myself.
Best way to get a good looking girlfriend is to be yourself honest , nice and willing to help others.
Show that you care and just be a good person in general if a girl goes for you because of
Muscles , Money , you seem alpha ...they are not worth dating in the first place and are to me....pieces of trash :)
This is coming from someone with multiple experiences in dating 6+ girls sure most of them ended badly due to distance and other variables mostly them being mentally weak
But my point stands.....no one should waste there time doing any of that your just going to attract someone who doesn't care about you.


Well I'm happy if your happy! But having a good healthy relationship can be work.... even when you don't want it too be. It doesn't have to be, if the work isn't worth the person then you have every right to leave them, but if you find a person is really worth it, then the least you could do is care a little bit about keeping yourself groomed and styled. Not that you need to but the statement about not caring at all... well... if you don't care about your looks then she probably wont, but that might not be good. :(

Best of luck in all relationships! After speaking with you I know you could get girls really easy bud!



Also @Magical-soul, senpai.... I told you to stop with the tsundere..... behave yourself.



Thanks and good luck to you also
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