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Post Reply How do you react to being flirted with?
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21 / F / Fort Worth, Texas
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Posted 11/21/15
Given what happened to me today, I wanna ask this question.

If we are caught off guard or the person of interest has a strange dynamic with us, we seem to react in very bizarre ways. Such as if a boss or former teacher is showing sexual interest in us. Sometimes it can be a handicapped person and you can't stop looking at the wheelchair. Or in my case today, the guy-... Boy that was showing sexual interest in me was 14. I'm guessing a similar reaction can be gained from a very old person flirting with you.

I guess I don't have as much dynamic social experience as I thought, I choked during the interaction. Felt like my words and actions weren't even controlled by me. Lol

Some of you are really young. Some are really old. How do you react when someone out of your "vanilla" range is showing overt sexual interest? Not just light flirting, but coupled with the visual and physical cues associated with sexual interest.

Do you shrivel up and turn into a mangina?

Do you choke up like I did?

Do you go full on alpha bitch mode and be a bitch? Tell me!
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Posted 11/21/15 , edited 11/25/15
If anyone has ever flirted with me, I was and remain oblivious...
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19 / M / UK
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Posted 11/21/15
i kinda like

be a Stone Cold bitch and ignore them usually
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26 / F / Cleveland, OH
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Posted 11/21/15
Not oblivious, but awkward.
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23 / M / Texas
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I'm indifferent about it.
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21 / F / Fort Worth, Texas
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Posted 11/21/15

Somewhat_Insane_Monkey wrote:

I'm indifferent about it.


Middle Aged Woman: "Hey there, tiger..."

You: "Meh."
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Posted 11/21/15

Magical-Soul wrote:


Somewhat_Insane_Monkey wrote:

I'm indifferent about it.


Middle Aged Woman: "Hey there, tiger..."

You: "Meh."


Pretty much
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22 / M / England
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Posted 11/21/15 , edited 11/23/15
I don't get the point of flirting.
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Posted 11/21/15 , edited 11/22/15
I've got the flirting awareness of a typical anime character.... either I over think it or over ignore it =/

I might as well roll a die to determine if people I don't know are flirting with me as it will be right more times then I am.
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Posted 11/21/15

Magical-Soul wrote:


Somewhat_Insane_Monkey wrote:

I'm indifferent about it.


Middle Aged Woman: "Hey there, tiger..."

You: "Meh."


If the woman is within 4 years younger, or 15 years older, free game. If they are really old (I had a 62 year old ask me out when I was 16!), or jailbait, then I tend to just make it clear "You should just give up. I wont have any interest in you."
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Posted 11/21/15
I wake up!

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Jk I have encountered flirting once, although this guy was about 4 years older than me. I'm 14. It was creepy af. He asked me for my number, and me being extremely naive, I almost told him, but stopped 3 numbers into it, claiming I'd "forgotten" it.
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21 / F / Fort Worth, Texas
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Posted 11/21/15

Dark_Alma wrote:


Magical-Soul wrote:


Somewhat_Insane_Monkey wrote:

I'm indifferent about it.


Middle Aged Woman: "Hey there, tiger..."

You: "Meh."


If the woman is within 4 years younger, or 15 years older, free game. If they are really old (I had a 62 year old ask me out when I was 16!), or jailbait, then I tend to just make it clear "You should just give up. I wont have any interest in you."


Jailbait is actually part of the most delicious range for men. (studies have it at 15-19)

You wouldn't know she's underage. But even if she was, it's not abnormal for 17 to hit on 22 year olds.
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Posted 11/21/15 , edited 11/21/15
I am one of those "Force Dense" people. I know they are flirting but I just don't believe it so I don't think of it much.
Well, that is when it actually happens, which is never.
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Posted 11/21/15
Stuff like that never happens to me.
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