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Post Reply How do you react to being flirted with?
Posted 11/21/15 , edited 11/21/15

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I hope he didn't go to jail, she the one who lie about her age and all. Yeah I know they are horny has hell. There was this girl I mention early who refuse to take no for answer. I don't mind being friend or even dating, but if you want to date me, ask your parents girl. They say is OK I go with it. But sex is off limit until you hit 18 years old. I no going to jail for something so stupid.


He is fine, minus the mental scaring that he had sex with a kid. I did have one girl I was sweet on back in the days. She said she was a freshman in Highschool when I was a senior. I was like, okay. I can do this (this was on Runescape, at least she wasn't a catfish! We still talk). About 2 years later I find out she was 12 when she told me that. She had such a mature way of typing. On that day, I felt like a pedophile. Internet be scary, yo.


Hahaha. But seriously that doesn't make you a pedophile. There a certain criteria you must meet before being label that legally. Just having sex with somebody under 13 years old wouldn't qualify you has one. A least in the medical correct way. Anyway are you still friend with her or did you run away ? Because I be like NOPE NOPE AND HELL NO.
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I get hit on all the time but I am so shy; I avoid eye contact and run as soon as I find an exit. I really don't know how to fix this problem. Unless someone chases after me I am going to be forever alone.
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I hope he didn't go to jail, she the one who lie about her age and all. Yeah I know they are horny has hell. There was this girl I mention early who refuse to take no for answer. I don't mind being friend or even dating, but if you want to date me, ask your parents girl. They say is OK I go with it. But sex is off limit until you hit 18 years old. I no going to jail for something so stupid.


He is fine, minus the mental scaring that he had sex with a kid. I did have one girl I was sweet on back in the days. She said she was a freshman in Highschool when I was a senior. I was like, okay. I can do this (this was on Runescape, at least she wasn't a catfish! We still talk). About 2 years later I find out she was 12 when she told me that. She had such a mature way of typing. On that day, I felt like a pedophile. Internet be scary, yo.


The thread is for in person encounters and about showing sexual interest. Everyone here is talking about their personality and their way of how they would handle it rather than how they did. Lol

I fucked up though, I got gamed pretty hard. I think his forward attitude and general confidence in what he was doing is what made him successful. I don't think I did anything "wrong" since he's the one that courted me. I ended up giving him my number(I didn't know what to do).

So while 14 is two years older. Still pretty young.

I didn't know children were capable of pulling me though.

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Flirt back and know it means fuck all, just friendly banter.
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Hahaha. But seriously that doesn't make you a pedophile. There a certain criteria you must meet before being label that legally. Just having sex with somebody under 13 years old wouldn't qualify you has one. A least in the medical correct way. Anyway are you still friend with her or did you run away ? Because I be like NOPE NOPE AND HELL NO.


We still talk. I also tutor her in math and science, for free too. Or at least I try. She keeps buying me in game currency in which I cant deny. Smart little fucker. Her nickname used to be Lolleh. I now call her Loli. That or Kinky Asian Friend. She told me a long time ago that she wanted to mess with a whip. To someone who's mind is as far gone as mine... Hehehe. Actually bought her a whip in RuneScape for loll's.

Of course, there is no romantic feelings on my end. I cant say much on her end. She still tries to flirt. I just ignore it, which royally pisses her off. I think I need to give her hell for 2 more years until she turns 18. Then its free game again (though no way in hell am I ever going to date).
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I was hit on for the first time in my life last semester. I tried to not let it show on my face how happy I was. Even though I wasn't interested in him sexually, it was still a nice boost to my self-esteem.
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The thread is for in person encounters and about showing sexual interest. Everyone here is talking about their personality and their way of how they would handle it rather than how they did. Lol

I fucked up though, I got gamed pretty hard. I think his forward attitude and general confidence in what he was doing is what made him successful. I don't think I did anything "wrong" since he's the one that courted me. I ended up giving him my number(I didn't know what to do).

So while 14 is two years older. Still pretty young.

I didn't know children were capable of pulling me though.



I gotta give that boy mad props in that case! Older girls are definitely the best way to go. Of course, I will still flirt with the girls younger than me, but older girls are so much more fun (they also know what they are doing *wink wink*).

I think of the girls I courted... when I was 16 I dated an 18 year old, when I was 17 I dated a 23 year old and when I was 19 I dated a 27 year old. I see a slippery slope here. I also was going to date a girl I really liked. Never got the chance. I was 22 and she was 25. Not bad compared to my last few!
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Dark_Alma wrote:




I hope he didn't go to jail, she the one who lie about her age and all. Yeah I know they are horny has hell. There was this girl I mention early who refuse to take no for answer. I don't mind being friend or even dating, but if you want to date me, ask your parents girl. They say is OK I go with it. But sex is off limit until you hit 18 years old. I no going to jail for something so stupid.


He is fine, minus the mental scaring that he had sex with a kid. I did have one girl I was sweet on back in the days. She said she was a freshman in Highschool when I was a senior. I was like, okay. I can do this (this was on Runescape, at least she wasn't a catfish! We still talk). About 2 years later I find out she was 12 when she told me that. She had such a mature way of typing. On that day, I felt like a pedophile. Internet be scary, yo.


The thread is for in person encounters and about showing sexual interest. Everyone here is talking about their personality and their way of how they would handle it rather than how they did. Lol

I fucked up though, I got gamed pretty hard. I think his forward attitude and general confidence in what he was doing is what made him successful. I don't think I did anything "wrong" since he's the one that courted me. I ended up giving him my number(I didn't know what to do).

So while 14 is two years older. Still pretty young.

I didn't know children were capable of pulling me though.



I feel you. The girl I mention early was 13 years old and was putting me in the same situation. I was like nope nope, hell no. She got in my face and I didn't know what to do! Seriously she grab me by the face to make me look her. I never have to deal with somebody so young and didn't know how to reject her. After a time I just move in the opposite direction when I saw her. That girl didn't know how to take no for answer.
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Happens more than I'd like but depending on my mood I'll either react even more smart-ass/sarcastic than usual or just be brutally honest and make it clear it's not going anywhere.

The struggles of looking younger than my age implies...


Yep I know that feeling. Reason why I grow facial hair


Except I'm 39 lol
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I get hit on all the time but I am so shy; I avoid eye contact and run as soon as I find an exit. I really don't know how to fix this problem. Unless someone chases after me I am going to be forever alone.


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I get the pepper spray and spray myself.
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The only time I've ever been flirted with was when I was 16 down in Dallas, TX for the National Forensics League national tournament. I was dressed up in a somewhat expensive, tailored suit in a Quiznos eating lunch. At the table next to me was this woman in her early 40s that was trying to fill out a form and I could see that her pen wasn't working. Being in a competition with lots of writing, I had like six pens on me that I wasn't going to use. I approached her and offered one of my pens. She proceeds to tell me how she was recently laid off and she's filling out food stamp papers until she gets back on her feet. She then begins touching my leg and saying how she needs a responsible man in her life. I laughed nervously, wished her the best of luck and told her to keep the pen, then left the Quiznos with the remainder of my meal.

So to answer the question, I guess I react in a polite, awkward way to flirting?
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Hahaha. But seriously that doesn't make you a pedophile. There a certain criteria you must meet before being label that legally. Just having sex with somebody under 13 years old wouldn't qualify you has one. A least in the medical correct way. Anyway are you still friend with her or did you run away ? Because I be like NOPE NOPE AND HELL NO.


We still talk. I also tutor her in math and science, for free too. Or at least I try. She keeps buying me in game currency in which I cant deny. Smart little fucker. Her nickname used to be Lolleh. I now call her Loli. That or Kinky Asian Friend. She told me a long time ago that she wanted to mess with a whip. To someone who's mind is as far gone as mine... Hehehe. Actually bought her a whip in RuneScape for loll's.

Of course, there is no romantic feelings on my end. I cant say much on her end. She still tries to flirt. I just ignore it, which royally pisses her off. I think I need to give her hell for 2 more years until she turns 18. Then its free game again (though no way in hell am I ever going to date).


Hahaha. OK I need to breath. OK let me say this. But you are in the no escape zone. When I was 15 years old or something there where a lot of girl going out with guys in their 20. Has soon has they them self hit 16 years old or 17 years old of age. You know the legal age of consent. Depending where you live. They hit on the dude like there no tomorrow. And most of them are marry to them. Including My female cousin. Who marry this guy who is in his late 30 right now. She like 22 or something. Well this is from My experience but I think she playing the waiting game with you. Go luck surviving thou.
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I feel you. The girl I mention early was 13 years old and was putting me in the same situation. I was like nope nope, hell no. She got in my face and I didn't know what to do! Seriously she grab me by the face to make me look her. I never have to deal with somebody so young and didn't know how to reject her. After a time I just move in the opposite direction when I saw her. That girl didn't know how to take no for answer.


Wow, I never had it quite that rough. Thank you for that mental image though. I laughed a lot harder than I should have! I did get valentines day chocolate from a 9 year old though (I was 21). The sad thing is... while I prefer older women... the young girls flock to me. No joke. I even had my little cousin hitting on me! O.O I mean, if that isn't from an anime, I don't know what it.

Btw, lifeguarding is bad when it comes to that. You save an active drowner, and the girl will love you for the next 2 years. I all but had a harem of jailbait. My post was the little waterslides. The little boys and girls would get up the stairs. I would think "this little brat cant swim, calling it..." I ask and they say "I can swim." 5 seconds later I am getting wet and dragging their crying arse out of the pool. On that day, you become the kids hero. I can tell you, being the hero SUCKS. I literally couldn't get the brats away from my post X). They would just get up to the top and want to talk. Not even slide X) I found the best way to deal with them in that regard was to hint that I am old (and lie that I am taken if need be) and just smile.

Edit: What game is your profile picture from. I need it for research purposes. Namely to get revenge on my friend for making me play MGQ. 100% worth.
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It happens to me all the time irl and online. Most of the time I have no idea what to do so I just remain silent and hope they eventually leave me alone.
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