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Posted 11/22/15 , edited 11/24/15
This chick in one of my Skype groups was talking about children:

Let me stop here to address this, she was talking about CHILDREN, the best things ever in all of existence. Better than cool sound tracks, cookies, ice cream, porn, sex or even better than anime. I'll go as far as to say they're better than your girlfriend/wife/boyfriend/husband! It always boggles my mind when women say they don't want kids.

WHAT?! How can you NOT want kids?! Who has rewritten your brain?! That's the most important job of any species! Having a child is like giving humanity an extra life!.... Wait, it is explicitly an extra life.

So I was talking with this woman, she was saying how she's being pressured by her mother to have kids, but she doesn't want any.




"How do I get her to stop? I don't wanna make her upset."

Me: "Well, why don't you wanna have kids?"

"Does it matter? I don't."

Me: "So there's not even a discussion here...? Just no you don't and everyone should just respect it?"

"Yeah, that's how freedom works, right? Do you explain why you're doing everything you do?"

Me: "I'm not talking about everything you do, I was just asking why you don't want children."

"Because I don't? I said that the first time."

(Got kinda pissed off here)

Me: "I heard you. I'm asking WHY you don't want kids. Not if you want them, I was going to see if I could reinforce your notion or tell you why you might wanna reconsider."

"It doesn't matter why, not everyone wants to a mother and deal with children."

Me: "There, was that so hard? You don't wanna deal with them, that gives me something to work with at least."


After that, everyone else jumped into the argument and basically took "sides" of the thing. It left me wondering why a woman just wouldn't wanna deal with kids she's never had? Why would a woman not want kids in the first place? That's almost unfathomable.

This girl is in the same position as me, she's well off, she has tons of dough to just drop, she has stable career that she likes, she isn't in debt, she has no financial woes whatsoever, she has a boyfriend "wouldn't mind" kids.

So why isn't this broad pumping out children like a factory already when her mother is pushing her to do so? I have no idea.

I can understand men not wanting kids, I can understand that completely. But women? What! Lol?!?!?!?!?!?!

I know some women say they don't want kids -- they end up getting pregnant and they do a 180 and say they love their children to death and don't regret having them around. Even babies from rape, the women still loves them wholeheartedly and doesn't regret their existence. I don't understand how they can claim to not want something they've never had.

If there's any women on here who can actually articulate a logical reason as to why they do not want kids, I'd appreciate it. People can regret children or not want them if they don't have their life together or have a lover. I get that. But when you have buckets of cash and you live with your boyfriend. How can you not say "Nah, I don't want them. Just don't" Women in stable households with children are probably far happier than women in stable households without children. I don't even care to look up this data, I just have a gut feeling.

If you don't want kids because you don't have a good environment to raise them in, I get that.

But much like our subject, what if she has it made? Wealth, stability and a lover? What else is next step? Eventually all their cruising and vacationing is gonna get dull. Stupid broads these days...

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I.... couldn't read all of that. However I still wanted to post in here. Is that wrong?
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thekevin4 wrote:

I.... couldn't read all of that. However I still wanted to post in here. Is that wrong?


Yes, now go to your room and think about what you've done.
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Magical-Soul wrote:


thekevin4 wrote:

I.... couldn't read all of that. However I still wanted to post in here. Is that wrong?


Yes, now go to your room and think about what you've done.


I'm already there! I thought about it... now what?
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Nothing wrong with not wanting a kid. I know several women who don't. All perfectly capable of handling it both as a parent and from a financial standpoint. Just no interest in it. Can't blame them either. I have no interest in kids, much less raising one. I'll never understand why everyone seems to pressure others into this issue. Not that everyone does mind you, but there is certainly this mindset that as a woman you better be reproducing otherwise there's something wrong with you.

If you want them, good for you. If not, good for you. Don't see why people care either way honestly. I see more unfit people having kids than the other way around. In the end it's personal choice and people shouldn't give a shit either way. My mother used to hound me about that shit in my twenties. No thanks.

None of this is directed at you obviously. Just in general.
Posted 11/22/15 , edited 11/22/15
Kids suck, they need time, attention, actually are a massive pain to pump one out and make sure they turn out decent for veeery little return. If you weren't made to want a baby biologically I doubt many people would make one intentionally
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Not to mention they smell.

Congratulations on breaking the cycle1!!!!
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Nothing wrong with not wanting a kid. I know several women who don't. All perfectly capable of handling it both as a parent and from a financial standpoint. Just no interest in it. Can't blame them either. I have no interest in kids, much less raising one. I'll never understand why everyone seems to pressure others into this issue. Not that everyone does mind you, but there is certainly this mindset that as a woman you better be reproducing otherwise there's something wrong with you.

If you want them, good for you. If not, good for you. Don't see why people care either way honestly. I see more unfit people having kids than the other way around. In the end it's personal choice and people shouldn't give a shit either way. My mother used to hound me about that shit in my twenties. No thanks.


You forgot the explanation part, *pokes your nose*

Care to try again? We all understand why a man wouldn't wanna have children.
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Posted 11/22/15 , edited 11/23/15

Magical-Soul wrote:


dotsforlife wrote:

Nothing wrong with not wanting a kid. I know several women who don't. All perfectly capable of handling it both as a parent and from a financial standpoint. Just no interest in it. Can't blame them either. I have no interest in kids, much less raising one. I'll never understand why everyone seems to pressure others into this issue. Not that everyone does mind you, but there is certainly this mindset that as a woman you better be reproducing otherwise there's something wrong with you.

If you want them, good for you. If not, good for you. Don't see why people care either way honestly. I see more unfit people having kids than the other way around. In the end it's personal choice and people shouldn't give a shit either way. My mother used to hound me about that shit in my twenties. No thanks.


You forgot the explanation part, *pokes your nose*

Care to try again? We all understand why a man wouldn't wanna have children.


Are you asking me why I don't want any? Or are you asking me to speak on that woman's behalf, which I won't do?
Posted 11/22/15 , edited 11/23/15
If this woman doesn't want to have kids, then leave her alone.
It's her life. I think she should get to choose. Does she really need a valid reason to why she doesn't want kids?
Who cares.
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I don't think I'm in the we that you're speaking of there. Can you please enlighten me on why it is understandable for a man to not have children? (ow=")
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Oh, I thought you were on topic, my bad. x3


Kids suck, they need time, attention, actually are a massive pain to pump one out and make sure they turn out decent for veeery little return. If you weren't made to want a baby biologically I doubt many people would make one intentionally
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Not to mention they smell.

Congratulations on breaking the cycle1!!!!


Also, they would make them intentionally, every species would be dead if they didn't have the drive to reproduce.

Also how is very little return? You do know "children" made everything?! Lol, for every woman that says. "Nah brah, kids b gey."

There's a potential amazing person not being born! Just think if your parents felt the way you did! You'd be- nothing!
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Posted 11/22/15 , edited 11/24/15
I don't really get why you're referring to any woman who doesn't want kids as a stupid broad, I didn't realize that you had a final say in other people's lives. If this particular girl doesn't want a child than thats her choice don't go in trying to change her mind or anyone else's for that matter.
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Posted 11/22/15 , edited 11/23/15
I don't see a problem with not wanting kids.

I know a few people who have been married awhile and have no children and have no plans on ever having any, its a choice that someone has the right to. A child is a big responsibility and I see why some people would not want to take that on.
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Posted 11/22/15 , edited 11/22/15
Kids are shit, especially this new generation of fucked up children that are coming now. Other peoples made me destroy my dream of becoming a teacher. So fuck em and if anyone on CR is planning on becoming a parent, make sure to raise them correctly. If you dont, ill come find you and throw sugar in your gas tank.
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If they don't want 'em they don't want 'em.

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