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What Do You Think Of The Word Whore/Slut? What Sexual Behaviors Does a Person Need to Do To Qualify?
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Posted 11/29/15
Well, I usually see that term being employed as an insult by those who feel threatened by the way somebody expresses their sexuality, but I'm sure it's justifiable in some cases; the whole thing can fall into really subjective territory, and I've seen it used too universally to define it's use with precision.

Surprisingly, I've rarely used the term during a confrontation, which is really weird because I have resorted to other 'harsher' insults. I think the only time I've used it is when I spoke to an idiot who liked to sleep around with criminals and enjoy their blood money, she was like "well, I'm innocent, I'm just enjoying the money that they give me".
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You only qualify to be a whore if you're actually a prostitute. You're a slut if you sleep around without caring about your significant other's feelings. Nothing much is wrong with the former if you're professional about it but people have reason to hate the latter.
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Used jokingly, I'm not really phased. If it was used as a deliberate insult, I would still likely find it amusing because to assume that a complete stranger knows about my private life is, well, laughable. I understand that some women take real offense to this, but ladies, just chalk it up to them being pathetic and leave it be. You're better than that.
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Whore - a prostitute. Sombody who has sex for money.

Slut - sombody who sleeps with multiple people without engaging in a relationship or engaging in multiple relationships without telling those they're in a relationship with.
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25 / F / New Jersey, USA
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Meh. I can care less what people do in their free time. Those words don't phase me.
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28 / M / USA! USA! USA!
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Posted 11/29/15 , edited 11/30/15
They are entirely appropriate and useful descriptors.



If someone, male or female, wants more emotional investment in a relationship then they might probably do not want to bother with someone who fits those labels.


Conversely, someone who wants a purely physical relationship may be more inclined to seek out people who fit those labels.
Posted 11/29/15 , edited 11/29/15
Well, I prefer not to call my mother a whore, because that would be insulting to whores.

My mother gave up her duty as a parent, an emotional foundation, and overall maternal figure, to pursue "love" through the tip of a dick. Sure, my mother raged in my face, when I was a kid, that her sex life was none of my business, and I guess, since I was just a defenseless kid I had to agree, and I guess due to her brainwashing I still have to somewhat agree, that it was none of my business when my mother put my life on hold, my future on hold, and dragged me with her across the country just so that she could get some dick; just so that I would have to sit in some stranger's house and listen to the bed creak and my mother moan from getting porked upstairs by some man I had never met before, then, when they got downstairs, I had to watch this stranger fondle my mother's tits right in front of me, and I got told to "get the fuck out", so they could go on louder. And this, was just one short and mild story out of dozens. That is not to mention how she also put her career ahead of me, that she once stabbed me, and that she on numerous occasions simply abandoned me, one time in another country (she abandoned me at a restaurant in Turkey when I was 10 years old so she could get shagged by a carpet salesman).

And you wonder why I have mommy issues, lol.

So, I say, that when your own child is insignificant in comparison to your compulsive need to consume dick, then you are the epitome of a slut, even by the standards of those with personal ads on Craig's List. If your child can no longer count their number of stepdads on one hand, then you are a slut, and no one should ever have to apologize for reminding you of that. Because that is in no way the same as expressing your sexuality, you are in no way a responsible human being, and you are perhaps the most egotistical piece of shit in existence.

If I call you a slut, or a whore, or in any way compare you to my mother, and you feel offended by that, then you should be. I will never regret calling you that, if I do. In fact, even if you somehow got me to me bend my knees (I doubt it) and apologize (I doubt that even more), I will continue to be under the impression that you should be ashamed of yourself, and that it would be best for future generations if you climbed out of the gene pool before you caused any more harm to society.

I don't particularly fancy men who do it neither, but since I don't have an emotional connection to men who do it, you won't get a reaction out of me. My father was and still is a decent man in regards to relationships. He's an idiot, probably much like myself, but he's not a disgusting manwhore. Someone mentioned that this is a subjective matter. Yes, it is. When someone calls you a slut, it's likely an emotional reaction, like mine, and you can just forget about trying to invalidate that. You can try to invalidate someone's emotions to your improper behavior, but you'll likely only escalate things further by doing that. In fact, you're an asshole for trying to invalidate someones feelings.

What I find funny, though, is that the people who have been called sluts, who don't like it, and refer to their sluttish behavior as "expressing ones sexuality", are the same people who end up with children whom later in life will be repulsed by them, call them sluts, and disown them. It's like some tragic comedy, really.
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I am not a big fan of either word and its sad people automatically think of a female but in reality the word isn't gender specific. TBH I like the words better than abbreviations people throw around when describing issues. I am guessing the word whore has been around before Christ so has some real staying power. SJW or redpill will fade like Trump- I am out!
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I don't think I've ever used those words being quite prude myself, I avoid most words with sexual connotations.
Posted 11/29/15
Whore/Slut?

If I used the word, I may do so with somebody I know. But is more of me ether you are doing something bad or just having a lot sex. Or just being friendly.

For example. You sleep with somebody else who already has somebody else. You are a whore. You say you don't have a lot of sex. Bitch you are a Slut. You sleep with every man you see.

But the way I use it, is to describe your actions. Witch depending on the situation, it can be good or bad. Meaning to me is no insult but something to JOKE around or to describe your actions.

Or sex. You know, some girl like being call that.

In another note. I hardly ever use those words.
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I very rarely use these words. However, to me, "slut" is defined as someone who uses their sexuality in an unethical fashion. It doesn't matter how often they engage sexually or how many people they've slept with, but whether they've used sex to hurt someone else (i.e. cheating on their SO). It's not cool.
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Really though, whore is a word for a lady of ill repute. Slut is the name for someone with the morals of an alley cat. Some ladies enjoy being called these things when you are doing the naughty.

Different strokes for different folks.

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Didn't the word slut originate from servant girls who worked in the horses' stables, and because she worked there so often that she became dirty from cleaning out manure and mud as a result?

I remember reading the word in Roald Dahl's Revolting Rhymes (I still have that book to this day) and I wasn't offended by it at all. I never even used it because I didn't know or bother to know what it meant. Though I learned later that it was turned into and often used as a word to describe women of promiscuous reputation.
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Posted 11/29/15

JCat188 wrote:

Didn't the word slut originate from servant girls who worked in the horses' stables, and because she worked there so often that she became dirty from cleaning out manure and mud as a result?

I remember reading the word in Roald Dahl's Revolting Rhymes (I still have that book to this day) and I wasn't offended by it at all. I never even used it because I didn't know or bother to know what it meant. Though I learned later that it was turned into and often used as a word to describe women of promiscuous reputation.


It's dated, but in a way, slut was used for dirty women, IE unclean.
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Posted 11/29/15
I don't use the word "slut" to insult sexual activity. I use it facetiously whenever I lose in a video game though. I actually kind of like blunt, harsh insults like "slut" or "cunt". I don't know, they seem to have more impact.
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