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20 / M / Everywhere
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Posted 12/30/15
It takes a lot of work for it to be fulfilling. Iv'e tried but it has not worked out. I guess it just depends on the people, and your expectations.
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Posted 1/12/16
no no no no no no no no no.
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31 / M / Universe
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Posted 1/22/16
It only works if you two feel the same like a soulmate. Thinking the similar stuff in a way of sweet arguments. That's how I see it.
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24 / F / Daly City, Califo...
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Posted 1/22/16
i dont believe with that one but well its up to the couples but for me i never believe with that one of you will cheat or its up to you haha
Posted 1/26/16
My bf of ten years was from an online relationship. We have bought a house together and are really happy. They do work but you both have to make changes and have no regrets.
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33 / F / U
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Posted 1/26/16
Well... not sure if it's been mentioned, but you're not obligated to reveal to anyone your girlfriend is long-distance. You're at an age where a girl leaving to go off to college wouldn't be out of place. *shrugs* Not really their business, so just don't tell them more than they need to know.

It's not like anyone has a guarantee a local-contact relationship will last either, you could point out.
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25 / M / Bmore
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Posted 1/26/16 , edited 1/26/16
I know a few couples that met and started to date online and eventually got married. From experience if the couple is old enough to visit each other sooner rather than later it lasts.But younger couples like teens usually fizzle out
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25 / M / In Santa's Gift sack
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Posted 1/27/16
You should only do long distance and online relationships if you and/or your partner have the means to meet each other. It would be pointless since you can't actually see each other and make the babies!
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24 / M / PA
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Posted 1/27/16
You do you man, none of mine ever worked out but doesn't mean they won't work for others ya know?
Posted 1/30/16
I don't think it will ever working out well. For me.
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Posted 2/2/16
Who wants to date me?
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Posted 2/2/16
I've never really ha an online relationship, nor do I think I could ever have one bc it seems difficult to be long distance.
But I give props to those who make it work, things can easily fall apart.
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Posted 2/4/16 , edited 2/4/16
Well, me and my ex dated for 4 and 1/2 years long distance/online. We met on deviant art and we just broke up last month, and it wasn't from lack of caring. A lot of it had to do with the pressures of long distance - the costs connected to visiting each other (we were an 11 hour drive away from each other) and who had to pay for those costs. Being a student I didn't have much money, but he came from a very impoverished family and was providing for them. We.. maybe..could afford to see each other for 20 days of the year... and eventually jealousy sets in. Jealous over relationships where that financial strain isn't present, jealous over people who get to see their partner every week... not to mention everyone going "you deserve more" because they couldn't understand while someone wasn't physically there for me that they were still an important part of my life..

well, needless to say... I'm still hopeful that things will get better and that its not a permanent end.. its a work in progress, but if not.. I don't regret my relationship in anyway and part of me thinks thats key... not all relationships have to work out to be worthy of having.

And all I can say for you is don't listen to people who say it won't last.. its more important that you love your relationship then other people understanding it.
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24 / Decemberunderground
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Posted 2/4/16 , edited 2/4/16
Online relationships work oh so rarely.
I know a girl who had one now lives with her boyfriend infact I think her's worked because she put work into it, I have never known a girl to get off her ass and put any effort into making it work it's always the guys job to do so.

Though no I will not believe relationships with people online in diffrent countries work.
If they did I would still be with a very pretty boy that I loved when they moved back home instead of currently with someone I just find attractive but don't really like.

If you're in the same country or state sure. It's not that hard to move to a diffrent city.
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Posted 2/5/16
Ye, i was almost 1 year and that relation made me sick. I don't wanna repeat that experience xD I'm just recovering from it o-o
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