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Post Reply You feel your boyfriend/girlfriend is cheating on you, what do you do?
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Posted 11/30/15
I was curious what other would do, not saying my partner (which I don't have at the moment) is cheating.
Posted 11/30/15
Confront them about how you feel.

All those other options sound like a waste of time.
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I think talking about it is the best thing. If I knew for sure that she was cheating on me, I would calmly tell her, but also break up. I don't think people who cheat understand the beauty of a relationship.
Posted 11/30/15
TBH, if someone is scum enough to cheat, they are going to lie if you confront them.
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Posted 11/30/15
1. Go into there phone when they're gone or busy and not looking.
2. Stalk them throughout the day.
2. Manipulate they're cell phone and receive they're calls and messages.
4. Confront them about how you feel.

This is how i did it when it happened to me.

If she was cheating then

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Posted 11/30/15 , edited 11/30/15

Callia122500 wrote:

I was curious what other would do, not saying my partner (which I don't have at the moment) is cheating.


I've moved this to the Polls forum, which is where all the Poll Topics go regardless of subject matter.

"Confront" is a slightly strong word for what I'd do, but it's accurate I guess. I'd open up a conversation telling them I have the feeling, and why, and seeing what they say. Then we can go from there to more conversation or decisions about appropriate actions.

(It's kind of hard to cheat on me in any "traditional" way, since I only do open relationships and atm I can't think of anything we'd likely have an agreement about that could be broken in a way that would constitute cheating.
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Posted 11/30/15
Just talk to them about it. Don't be aggressive just try to have a calm level headed conversation
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16 / F / Always my room
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Posted 11/30/15
I'd confront them
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