Post Reply Help a friend out?
5169 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
19 / M / San Antonio Tx
Offline
Posted 12/3/15
So I need help with something kinda big here. Its not something normal and I have no Idea if it would work or not but hey, I know that most of the people in this community are funny and friendly so I thought I may as well give it a shot. You see a little while ago I had gotten into a pretty bad accident. This accident had forced me to lose bits and pieces of old memories. I had not only lost some of my childhood memories, but it feels like I've lost some emotions as well... Sadly I haven't been able to remember what it feels like to have fun or to have a real smile on my face, and it really pains me. I feel like the old me has some what been lost and that I'm not the same person I once was, which makes me feel even worse for those who have known me for a very long time. I'm really nervous to talk to these good friends of mine because I really don't know what to say to them and I don't want to make them worry even more. So I thought that maybe If I did some things that people thought were fun or exciting, then maybe it would spike some memories of mine or something and that I might possibly go back to being my old self. Now I know that this is really strange and it may be hard for you to believe, but if you could help me out I would be eternally grateful. I feel like I need to repay all of my friends for the kindness that they have shown me, and in the state I am in now I really don't think that it's possible. So that being said, I would love to hear some ideas about what yall think is fun. Either that being alone, or in a group.Or if you have an idea on something that might help me remember my past then I would love to hear it! Anything helps and hopefully one day I can repay you all for everything you have done for me. I really appreciate the time you took to read this and I hope you are doing very well in your life.
3352 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
M
Offline
Posted 12/3/15
You didn't happen to write a journal, did you? Reread that if you have one. Look at old photos, ask family about your relationships with people. And really, don't worry about telling people what happened. Honesty is the best policy.
Memories fade, but IME, personalities generally remain the same, even if character changes. Be a nice guy, and it won't matter if you forget the "old you" because people will like the "new you".
If you want to try smiling, try googling some jokes. There are different jokes for different folks, so if one place doesn't make you laugh, look somewhere else.
1297 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
15 / F / pakistan
Offline
Posted 12/4/15
oh so bad to hear hoshinokaabi - san is right well i want to tell you that the same thing was happened to my bro and from me i advise you that be happy and be good with everyone and please look your old photos/albums and ask your best friends to help you thats all i can say
You must be logged in to post.