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Posted 12/6/15

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The best way to get over it? Stop being a pansy and get over it.


As long as you've been using Mentok the Mindtaker i'm surprised you never get into character with it.
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Came down to her trusting her friends more than me and this really BS rumour went about which was started by her best friend. She believe them over me and here we are.


Why would her friend do that? You two don't get along or something? And did you try to talk it out with your now ex, or did she just ditch you?
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Posted 12/6/15

AkitoMadaka wrote:


thekevin4 wrote:

The best way to get over it? Stop being a pansy and get over it.


As long as you've been using Mentok the Mindtaker i'm surprised you never get into character with it.


What are you talking about? I am Mentok... there is no getting into character....
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Her friend wanted to be with her and we were both going through a rough stage of arguing since her friends and I weren't getting along.
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I'm on good terms with all my ex's even during the break ups, so I can't help you too much.

Find somebody to talk to that you trust, in detail, and express how you feel after the break up as deeply as you can to vent it. Just talking about it can help you. About the self confidence... Maybe find a motivational video, it might not help your self confidence too much, but it's a start and should help you get restarted on your goals.
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She just made a really lame joke and said it's over. Really shit way to end things xD
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I once had a relationship with a girl we will call "K"

She hits me up on Facebook and says she wants to do some military service.
I ask what branch tell her I have a fair bit of family who did some tours
Says Navy or Airforce
Tell her if she ever becomes a seal we have to take her clubbing
She didn't get it
Told her I didn't want to see her anymore
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Jorvac wrote:



She just made a really lame joke and said it's over. Really shit way to end things xD


Well in that case she and her friends just sound immature. I wouldn't even bother with them anymore, delete their numbers / info and get on with your own life. Some idiots just like drama, and like causing it or being part of it, gives them something to do/talk about as their own lives are boring. And the fact she just ended it with you over something she didn't want to put any effort into trying to solve shows she's lazy and not committed. And don't even think for one second she is worth it for you to be the one to try and fix and solve everything.

If this was the other way around, you would put in effort to try sort it out, she didn't so fuck her. After a few days you'll look back and start picking up on things in the relationship that was bad or one-sided anyway, and you'll realize you can do better and glad its over.
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Eat chocolate ice cream
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^this
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Simply don't give a shit.
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There is one way. You got any female friends to talk to?
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Liquor and time.
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