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what is more good...

reveal what you feel with that person who doesn't love you

or..

keep what you feel with that person...eventhough its hard..keeping..it...

i'm also afraid of rejection...thats why...im thinking...

i want to know you ideas...

because i somewhat need it...

right now..
Posted 2/8/08
i dont know... that's hard....

i think there's a thread similar to this..

oh well...
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Reveal what you feel with that person who doesn't love you.
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If you're sure that they don't like you, I would not say anything if they were a friend. I wouldn't want to jeopardize our friendship and comfort to express my feelings if I knew that they didn't like me back. I'd hang out with them a bit less and go talk to other girls (in your case, guys). It's more of a question of trying to get over it and moving on to other stuff.

Well she isn't really hurting the guy since he doesn't have feelings for her. It's only her feelings that are at stake. When a girl I don't have feelings for likes me (and I find out), I try to be as normal and comfortable as I can but I'll know that she likes me so I'll watch what I do and say around her. I want girls to be comfortable expressing their feelings so I find it cute when a girl confesses. But I think it ends up being harder for most people if I don't feel the same way since they'll feel uncomfortable (unless they don't really worry about confessions). But if she didn't worry about confessing, she wouldn't make this thread. So, I'm assuming it's a big deal to her; it's probably safer to not say anything. IF he definitely doesn't have feelings for you. If you are good friends, you can tell them that you used to like them in the future.
Posted 2/8/08
i dont know. to tell u the truth i was just thinking about this today but i didnt do anything so....
Posted 2/8/08
reveal what you feel with that person who doesn't love you
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Tell them the truth, they deserve the honesty. It will save you from far greater pain later, even if it will hurt you now to be turned down. Then you need to get on with your life instead of wasting it with someone who doesn't love you (not in a harsh sense , but you are losing potential valuable time with someone who does love you), you deserve that much. Basically, they have a right to know how you truly feel and they should understand, even if they don't show it at first. And even if they feel different it is a natural strive to hang on to affection, but later on it will be for the best and you may even thank them for being so honest with you from the beginning.
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Mumii wrote:

Reveal what you feel with that person who doesn't love you.

same here...

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For me, The person i fell in love with was a playboy but i loved him all the same.
But then it became nervewrecking for me i knew i had to change.
I gave up.
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T4iNT3D wrote:

Tell them the truth, they deserve the honesty. It will save them far greater pain later, even if it will hurt them now. Allow them to get on with their lives instead of wasting it with someone who doesn't love them (not in a harsh sense), they deserve that much. Basically, they have a right to know how you truly feel and they should understand, even if they don't show it at first. And even if they feel different it is a natural strive to hang on to affection, but later on it will be for the best and they may even thank you for being so honest with them from the beginning.


i still dont know what to do...

i cant...think the right thing to do...

my one friend said to me..that i should reveal it because...were already graduating by march...
but..the others told me that...

if im afraid of rejection..then why should i say...it...cause they believe that the person i like..will just reject me...and give me so much pain...

...
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Asrarabbit wrote:

For me, The person i fell in love with was a playboy but i loved him all the same.
But then it became nervewrecking for me i knew i had to change.
I gave up.


Don't say you gave up, turn it positive. You let it go and accepted the fact that you deserve better, because you strive for better.
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hardwick11 wrote:


T4iNT3D wrote:

Tell them the truth, they deserve the honesty. It will save them far greater pain later, even if it will hurt them now. Allow them to get on with their lives instead of wasting it with someone who doesn't love them (not in a harsh sense), they deserve that much. Basically, they have a right to know how you truly feel and they should understand, even if they don't show it at first. And even if they feel different it is a natural strive to hang on to affection, but later on it will be for the best and they may even thank you for being so honest with them from the beginning.


i still dont know what to do...

i cant...think the right thing to do...

my one friend said to me..that i should reveal it because...were already graduating by march...
but..the others told me that...

if im afraid of rejection..then why should i say...it...cause they believe that the person i like..will just reject me...and give me so much pain...

...



Most likely you will feel pain. Rejection is never truly a wonderful thing to experience, but it will happen in some way shape or form, even in things other than love. But it will also strengthen you, and instill bravery with less fear of rejection in the future so that someday, you will walk up to the girl who DOES love you with absolutely no fear at all, and you'll realize that it was because you built confidence and stood up to something you truly are afraid of. Nothing ever came from running, other than tired feet...and in the end you run out of breath and must succumb regardless. So stand up to your fears and move on dude, trust me it will be for the best.
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T4iNT3D wrote:


hardwick11 wrote:


T4iNT3D wrote:

Tell them the truth, they deserve the honesty. It will save them far greater pain later, even if it will hurt them now. Allow them to get on with their lives instead of wasting it with someone who doesn't love them (not in a harsh sense), they deserve that much. Basically, they have a right to know how you truly feel and they should understand, even if they don't show it at first. And even if they feel different it is a natural strive to hang on to affection, but later on it will be for the best and they may even thank you for being so honest with them from the beginning.


i still dont know what to do...

i cant...think the right thing to do...

my one friend said to me..that i should reveal it because...were already graduating by march...
but..the others told me that...

if im afraid of rejection..then why should i say...it...cause they believe that the person i like..will just reject me...and give me so much pain...

...



Most likely you will feel pain. Rejection is never truly a wonderful thing to experience, but it will happen in some way shape or form, even in things other than love. But it will also strengthen you, and instill bravery with less fear of rejection in the future so that someday, you will walk up to the girl who DOES love you with absolutely no fear at all, and you'll realize that it was because you built confidence and stood up to something you truly are afraid of. Nothing ever came from running, other than tired feet...and in the end you run out of breath and must succumb regardless. So stand up to your fears and move on dude, trust me it will be for the best.



im a female..hehehe...
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hardwick11 wrote:

what is more good...

reveal what you feel with that person who doesn't love you

or..

keep what you feel with that person...eventhough its hard..keeping..it...

i'm also afraid of rejection...thats why...im thinking...

i want to know you ideas...

because i somewhat need it...

right now..



An hero please.
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