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uhmmm... If I were you....
I'd keep it to myself...
but your not me...
you should probabaly tell...

There are numerrous situations as to when to tell or not...
the NOT and probably never ever...
is when the two of you are friends...
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hardwick11 wrote:
im a female..hehehe...



I know. I call everyone "dude", it comes with the surfer grammar, haha. =)
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keep what you feel with that person...eventhough its hard..keeping..it...
and like have patience
maybe it will happen
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T4iNT3D wrote:


hardwick11 wrote:
im a female..hehehe...



I know. I call everyone "dude", it comes with the surfer grammar, haha. =)


im also thinking...that.
if i tell it to him...maybe...

our friendship...would not be the same...as before...
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T4iNT3D wrote:


Asrarabbit wrote:

For me, The person i fell in love with was a playboy but i loved him all the same.
But then it became nervewrecking for me i knew i had to change.
I gave up.


Don't say you gave up, turn it positive. You let it go and accepted the fact that you deserve better, because you strive for better.


Awww....Thanks:)
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WOAH I read all the post now im ready to confess in monday cant wait to be rejected
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We have all concluded that the OP should an hero

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hardwick11 wrote:

im also thinking...that.
if i tell it to him...maybe...

our friendship...would not be the same...as before...


It probably won't for a while, but what would you rather have: 1) Constant pain at being around someone you believe doesn't love you, and hiding the truth or : 2) Finally letting go of a massive strain on your happiness and accepting the rejection in order to hopefully continue with the friendship. You can tell him in a way that will make him feel comfortable due to your honesty with him, and your friendship SHOULDN'T be tainted. Just try not to cry in front of him, or anything that might make him uncomfortable. If you do, don't sweat it..just talk to him another day and explain that you had to tell him because it was bothering you not to, and apologize for making him feel uncomfortable. Either way, you guys should be okay, and maybe it will even bring you closer as friends.


n_n303 wrote:

this lovey dovey thread must die.. there are hundreds of love threads, go and ask them there.. *sigh*


I'm sure you'll live dude. No reason to post something like this when someone is asking for some help. *sigh*

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Asrarabbit wrote:


T4iNT3D wrote:


Asrarabbit wrote:

For me, The person i fell in love with was a playboy but i loved him all the same.
But then it became nervewrecking for me i knew i had to change.
I gave up.


Don't say you gave up, turn it positive. You let it go and accepted the fact that you deserve better, because you strive for better.


Awww....Thanks:)


No problem. =)

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n_n303 wrote:


T4iNT3D wrote:

I'm sure you'll live dude. No reason to post something like this when someone is asking for some help. *sigh*



its a personal thread my dear. She can go and ask in one of the other hundred lovey dovey threads. *sigh* plus her condition is pretty pathetic. Why are people so fricken scared to get rejected? big deal its not like after you get rejected the guy is going to come after you with a knife. shit.


I dare to admit i'm scared of being rejected. But reading your quote, i'm very sure you aren't.
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n_n303 wrote:

its a personal thread my dear. She can go and ask in one of the other hundred lovey dovey threads. *sigh* plus her condition is pretty pathetic. Why are people so fricken scared to get rejected? big deal its not like after you get rejected the guy is going to come after you with a knife. shit.


A lot of people fear rejection. Whether or not you care is not her concern, as I recall she didn't ask you, nor did she ask you to openly judge her condition. And yeah, it is a personal thread, which she has the right to post. She CAN go ask someone else, but she didn't. Get over it, it didn't effect your life in a negative way, and if it did, you should probably rethink things a bit for letting something like that get to you. You're only busting down your own self-image that you seem to be trying to show off with arrogant remarks.

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monsteranime1 wrote:

WOAH I read all the post now im ready to confess in monday cant wait to be rejected


Heh, maybe you'll be surprised. =) If not, oh well, keep your eyes open because something better will come along someday. Guarantee it.
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if you're afraid of rejection....dont talk but it's also bad if the person you love hears it from someone else,,,,,,,,don't you think..?? but being hurt inside or outside is nothing.......cause even though thing turn out to be like that it will heal so....i guess you should start talking
Posted 2/8/08

hardwick11 wrote:

what is more good...

reveal what you feel with that person who doesn't love you

or..

keep what you feel with that person...eventhough its hard..keeping..it...

i'm also afraid of rejection...thats why...im thinking...

i want to know you ideas...

because i somewhat need it...

right now..


Hmm, aren't the help thread the great option of you?

The Help Thread
http://www.crunchyroll.com/forumtopic-1291/The-Help-Thread.html

If you wish for some ideas between two things you should post it here

**Choose between two options
http://www.crunchyroll.com/forumtopic-769/Choose-between-two-options.html
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