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Posted 12/11/15

xX_Dave_Xx wrote:
Yep if I have kids some day I'm not gonna make sure they get a phone until a certain age.

As for Ipads I'll monitor them and passcode things.

And also thanks for that pic....


If they really need a phone, get them a cheap pre-paid flip so they can't use it that much.
Posted 12/11/15

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And I don't give a rat ass what you think a 8 year old need or doesn't need.


Well then, have a nice day and fuckoff. I think we found that CR member that was sending all the tweets.



I don't use twitter asshole.
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I say good for her and the kid!

If others get offended or see this as something bad, that only shows how bad they are. Always criticizing and trying to shame others for a good action. >_> how sad their lives must be!

If the woman wanted to buy gifts for her kids, no matter how many, it's her right and I see nothing wrong with it.
Posted 12/11/15

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KarenAraragi wrote:


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Well it depends, it says she's a mother of three, is that single mother who claims benefits or does she work? If it's the latter she can do what she wants with her money. If she don't work however then she's a moron.

My opinion, either way the kids will become spoilt, feel left out in school because other kids will be jealous and the fact she had to show it all off all because of bad parenting.


Then let them be jealous. A parent shouldn't value the potential for jealousy of other kids, because their parents lack the means to do the same for them. Nor it should a parent feel ashamed or bad because they decide to show off their kid gifts.
Being friend with kids or people who would isolate you, because you can afford more things than they can. They are scum and are not worth a moment of thou.

And there noting wrong with Spoiling your kids. You can have spoils kids and still have discipline. Your opinion is stupid. Is the equivalent of saying. Don't show off your kid talents, because you may spoil the kid or make other kids jealous. This people and this argument is asinine.


Yeah I do agree to an extent but you can't balance spoilt and discipline, especially in an age where everything is about social media and taking pictures and showing off everything. And you're comment on Talent is different because, that's Talent and not something materialistic. Though some may be jealous of that to of course, but they should not hold themselves back just because of others.


It was analogy. Yes it can be balance. You can have all you want but if you fuck up. You lose privileges. My kids want something? They will get it no questions ask. But if they fuck up. They will lose every privilege they got. They refuse to behave within reason. Your ass wiill land in a military school. Social media can suck a dick. I will buy what I want and how much I want. Show it off. And if social media got a problem, I will tell them all of them to suck my dick. Because I don't give shit what a stranger thinks is the right way to do something. Don't you give me crap about why is no possible to spoil and balance discipline with it. Just because you are unable or unwilling to do it. I know first hand discipline and being spoiled. I know how to do it. So don't talk to me about why you think is no possible, when I know first hand it is.

This apply to everything. Nobody should hold them self back on anything that doesn't harm them or others directly. Fuck people feelings. If I want to buy mine kid a mansion. I am fucking buy him a mansion. Other people thous are of no valued to me.

but they should not hold themselves back just because of others.


It's easy to say 'fuck everyone else' but when you actually have kids you have to put them before you, and while you might be okay with it they might not be. Do you actually have kids and talk from experience or are you just chatting away right now? I agree to some extent though so chill your ass down.


The experience is my mom and dad smart-ass. Sorry but that kid argument is no valid for me. If my decisions cause my kids grief, so be it. I no buying or giving them less, because a bunch of people got salty. I no going to stop saying I love you son, because assholes decide to be assholes to them. That like saying. Don't do something because it may cause people to hate me. Sorry I love you son but I no going to stop doing something I want because it may cause you grief. Sorry but guilt arguments are meaningless to me. If you are going to argue with me, you better use other than the classic trash grief guilt argument with me.


The fuck are you even talking about right now? Spoiling a kid with loads of presents and bragging about it online is very different than saying "I'm not going to stop saying I love my kids incase other people get annoyed". That is a big difference, you went off raging about other topics that I didn't mention.


Is the same shit. You can spoiled kid with love, material, attention. All of them can cause the same effect. This mother love this kid too much, this father give this kid too much attention, now we have the mother who buy too much for their kids. You can't comprehend that is another thing then. People will always find something good you are doing for your family and make a rant about it.
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Posted 12/11/15

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I don't use twitter asshole.


Good for you
Posted 12/11/15

VZ68 wrote:


xX_Dave_Xx wrote:
Yep if I have kids some day I'm not gonna make sure they get a phone until a certain age.

As for Ipads I'll monitor them and passcode things.

And also thanks for that pic....


If they really need a phone, get them a cheap pre-paid flip so they can't use it that much.


How about you mind your own business instead of telling people what they should or shouldn't buy their kids.
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It's time to post this:
Posted 12/11/15

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It's time to post this:


Compared to the Religion arguments about god and what not in the link. This tread is pure.
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Posted 12/11/15

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How about you mind your own business instead of telling people what they should or shouldn't buy their kids.


Spoiled brat detected.


Posted 12/11/15 , edited 12/11/15

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KarenAraragi wrote:
How about you mind your own business instead of telling people what they should or shouldn't buy their kids.


Spoiled brat detected.




I buy everything with my money. I bought my PS4 with my own money, I buy mine own books with my own money. I buy everything with my own money. No my fault you can't afford it.
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I don't find it offensive, I find it to be a stupid thing to do. Now she created an expectation for each year to be like that and any that are not 300 or better then the kid will probably feel disappointed or upset.
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Posted 12/11/15

KarenAraragi wrote:
I buy everything with my money. I bought my PS4 with my own money, I buy mine own books with my own money. I buy everything with my own money. No my fault you can't afford it.


Posted 12/11/15

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KarenAraragi wrote:
I buy everything with my money. I bought my PS4 with my own money, I buy mine own books with my own money. I buy everything with my own money. No my fault you can't afford it.




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Posted 12/11/15

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Put the Christ back in Christmas.


Nah, I love not having to go to school.
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It's time to post this:


This is when it gets fun though!
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