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Posted 12/18/15 , edited 12/18/15

Shenseiken wrote:

It's natural to be attracted to young people. Nature manipulates it well before the age of 18. It's not illegal or socially unacceptable to take certain actions with a minor because they're viewed as unattractive. It's a morality call.


This is true.

The age of consent where I live is 16. It was 14 when I was 14. I remember because when I was 14, my English teacher sat the class down and we had a long discussion about how we felt about, legally, girls in our class being allowed to have sex with 20-year-olds and stuff (one girl actually was, but that''s another story). I also remember the AoC changing to 16 because when a history teacher brought it up (we were talking about young brides being acceptable back in colonial times), a 17-year-old student was worried that he'd be arrested because he had a 15-year-old girlfriend.

So, which is the correct age of consent? 14? 16? 18? When exactly are people able to make that decision and understand the act? Different countries have different answers, and even then it varies sometimes by state/province/etc. So yeah, in that regard, it's really just a cultural/moral thing. The same applies to when other "adult" acts are allowed like driving, consuming alcohol, and so on.

However, the reason why it's illegal is because teens want to have sex, and a significant amount of adults want to have sex with them, and a significant amount of teens look like adults and biologically are adults, but society deems that teens below a certain age are not emotionally or mentally ready for sex -- and they probably aren't, because even most 18-year-olds aren't ready, really. So you need to draw the line somewhere.

Simply put, it's not unnatural to find some 15-year-olds hot. It's because it's natural that it's an issue.
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I find that it is less of an age thing and more of a personality thing. Everybody has a different level of maturity, mentally at least, throughout their early years (and maybe even later ones). Young girls are typically not mentally mature. Older girls are typically mature, and it is the quality of being mature enough to understand atttraction and the nature of sexuality that I find myself attracted to.

However, everybody reaches mental maturity at different points in their lives whether it be because of puberty, life experience, or a mix of both. As such, some people mature earlier in life than others. I have met a number of people who were under the 'age of consent', so to speak, but who had reached a level of mental maturity that I found attractive. One of these girls, I was actually involved with. We were both under the age of consent, but had reached a level of mental maturity to understand what we were doing, and what the nature of our acts would entail. And while some might say this is morally wrong; I believe that most of the time, an individual knows what is best for him/herself better than some fixed rules of society do.

I believe my view of a lolita complex is diffirent from that of others because it seems that many think that 'loli' is being attracted to a girl who has not reached physical maturity and is unrelated to mental maturity. Therefore, I am not sure whether my views do fall under the lolita complex or not. While in this case, I believe loli is acceptable, I still draw the line at pedophilia which I believe is an attraction to girls who are neither physically nor mentally mature.

Sincerely, my two cents on this debate.
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yeaaaaaaaaaaa and I just finished reading Lolita. Good book. Very good book..
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Posted 12/18/15
well since lolicon is tied to a legal standard that changes from state to state, its a little hard to answer your question.
is it weird? depends on the age. ive seen some women that could pass for 14 year old kids.
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No I am not attracted to children.

That said, girls used to get married normally when they were 16, some even as young as 13. There is nothing wrong with being attracted to short girls, or even 16 year olds. It is illegal in the US to act on those feelings if the girl or boy is under 18 but it's not unnatural to have them.
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Sorry, but I've been dying to use this.

In all seriousness I think a Lolita complex is okay. Make sure to check their age though because you don't want to screw yourself over and get with a kid. Like make them show their ID...
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Somewhat_Insane_Monkey wrote:



Sorry, but I've been dying to use this.

In all seriousness I think a Lolita complex is okay. Make sure to check their age though because you don't want to screw yourself over and get with a kid. Like make them show their ID...


Couldn't agree more...
Posted 12/18/15
I live by this rule. Check legal age of consent. After that is nobody business.

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Posted 12/18/15
i'm both i love young anime girls
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I'm not quite sure about Japan, but in the West lolicon only refers to 2D. It's often equated to pedophilia, but they are two different things as loli characters don't look or behave like real children (edit: not to mention that a loli character is not necessarily even a child).


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its pedophilia if they underage

Pedophilia means a sexual attraction to prepubescent children, or theoretically speaking anyone who looks like a prepubescent child. Underage means below the legal age of consent, which could be anything. So if the age of consent were set at 10, then by your definition it would not be pedophilia to be attracted to a 10 year old. This is why people should be mindful of the definitions of words.
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yaboogie wrote:

Personally don't know why anyone would be attracted to anyone that dresses like a 12 year old, but that's just me. Terrible fashion aside, I don't think short girls can physically help being short. Are you attracted to her because she's short? Maybe it's a fetish? But yeah, don't ogle a minor.


Lol, this was the first girl that I was attracted to that friends ever made a loli joke about. A lot of loli doesn't have anything to do with lolita fashion afaik. It's the face, way too cute, and she looks like an adult there, sure she is very short/small but I don't really think there's any really 'loli fetish' going on.
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Posted 12/18/15
Go for it. She's no child, and there's no good reason for her to be rendered "forever alone" simply because she moderately resembles children. Modern society needs to wake up and accept that adult women can and do look like that.
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Posted 12/18/15
When it comes to 2D, I don't see the problem with being attracted to lolis/ shotas. If you aren't targetting actual children and are pleasuring yourself in your own home, that shouldn't be an issue. Obviously in real life, targeting children who don't know what they're doing is wrong. However the age of consent is so inconsistent that it should probably have some reform. An 18-19 year old getting in trouble for having sex with a 16-17 year old that gave their consent is silly to me.
Posted 12/18/15
Fetishism.
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Posted 12/18/15
It is unhealthy to be attracted to lolicon. If you are you need help.
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